Wife got remarried today

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  • #519551
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    Stealth
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    So I hear.

    She went after our savings, and wanted to f~~~ around. Her family pretended to be very pure and high-minded about it, while defending her.

    I was telling my friends I am thinking of publicly hosting an orgy to celebrate her new marriage, and make sure her family is invited. Just to make a point. And print that it is in her honor/memory.

    Initially I was kidding, but I might actually do this.
    I said nothing to anyone during the s~~~storm. This would be my way of asserting myself, of pushing back.

    "Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

    #519556
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    Anonymous
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    So i imagine you told the victim to be…..

    #519557
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    ApexScorpion
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    Just to make a point.

    What point would that be?

    #519563
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    Stealth
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    Just to make a point.

    What point would that be?

    If she can do it, so will I. A mock celebration of marital unfaithfulness (except mine would be more fun). Not pretending she took any sort of high road. Not pretending to fit in to their rules for me, which are not the same rules for her.

    Do it with a smile. Do it woth a party. A genuine sexually-charged party to send her on her way.

    "Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

    #519565
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    ForeverDone
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    Just let the “happy” couple drown. Let him have all the “fun”. I am sure she’ll prob. take him for a ride in more ways than one.

    #519567
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    Stealth
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    So i imagine you told the victim to be…..

    Yes, I have the impression the new guy is wet behind the ears. A good guy no doubt, but inexperienced and possibly less mature. I was too masculine for my wife, so the new guy I’m guessing, and have heard, is more boyish.

    "Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

    #519569
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    NoMore
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    Do nothing. Any response from you would signal to her that you care. To love or hate someone gives them the satisfaction of knowing you care. How lonely and sad it must be, that you matter so little, you can’t even make them hate you.

    Give nothing, even hate.

    A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

    #519571
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    Joetech
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    He’s next. After HIS divorce you can tell him about MGTOW.

    "Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

    #519575
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    Carnage
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    Let them be happy.
    You know how it goes, you been there, of course migth p~~~ you off that the slut is gonna claim another victim.
    But look it by the bright side ITS NOT YOU.

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    #519577
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    ApexScorpion
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    I’m sure it sounds good to you in theory, but going through all that trouble for her might not be good for you internally.

    I think you’re selling yourself short of how much better off you can be without even doing any of that.

    I say don’t even react. But hey, it’s your call.

    #519582
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    Anonymous
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    lol the s~~~ vortex continues to swallow you after she has moved on.

    dude extricate yer self, roll off the edge and move on

    Ignore this.

    #519594
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    Stargazer
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    I agree. Let it go. If her getting remarried means the end of alimony payments for you, then you’ve got something to celebrate. Otherwise, why are you still thinking about her?

    #519604
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    Silver Fox
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    I think the message would backfire. I think she would congratulate herself, saying, “See? He’s just a scumbag anyway.” She would excuse herself based on your actions, instead of feeling guilty like you intend. Don’t underestimate the female mind for its ability to twist things to make herself look innocent.

    Proverbs 30:20: “This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth and says, ‘I’ve done nothing wrong.’

    (In other words, she can literally do anything right in front of you and then pretend it never happened, if she wants to.)

    "Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

    #519623
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    Tolz
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    A couple of red flags in this post that I’m seeing. First, in your title you refer to her as your “wife” instead of your “ex-wife”. Why? Then you mentioned “our” savings. I hope you meant that as in before when you two were married and certainly not now. And finally, why are you even concerning yourself with what she is doing now? I’d look at the situation, laugh about the situation and pity the poor guy who is getting married to her, and then I would move on. She’s not worth any more attention than that.

    #519632
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    Bstoff
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    You could discreetly send him a sort of sympathy card and maybe offer him your advice or consolation when the need arises. Either way, you will plant a seed in his mind and take a little jab at her, as well.

    #519634
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    Untamed
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    Whoever keeps you informed of your X’s movements needs to knock it off or you need to knock them off your life.
    There is NO interest or advantage in knowing what she does with her life.
    Why do you even care?!
    As long as thoughts of her haunt your mind you’ll not be rid of her.
    It’s in the past. Let it go. You’ll be better off.

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    #519649
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    She’s an ex for a reason, don’t ever forget that!! Let it go bro, you have your life back and she is someone else’s problem now.

    "Just ignore everything women say and nothing will annoy you ever again." - Cu Chulainn

    #519654
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    Atton
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    Sounds like some is making a big mistake.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

    #519663
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    Keymaster
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    Yeah I would pull back AS FAR AS POSSIBLE and play dead (basically). When she marries him, you’re off the hook for good. He gets to pay for her f~~~ ups now.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #519679
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    Boar
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    How do you make a point to a disaster? The best message you can send is not giving a f~~~ by living well.

    Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

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