Wife and Girlfriend

[Truthseekr303Participant 34]

Mgtow brothers. I currently have a wife who is s~~~ stain on my life. I also have a pretty good girlfriend who lives with me. My wife lives by herself with our son and has displayed all the manipulative tactics. She put me on child support 3 years ago (mind you were still married) I haven’t exactly got the funds for a divorce and she will not divorce me. She threatens me with a very very nasty divorce if I attempt it. Should I continue my blissful life as an estranged husband or should I battle her in court?

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I have to tell you I’m always leery of a new person with no intro coming on and throwing a topic like this out there. My first thought is that it’s a woman coming on the site and looking for the men here to be assholes. Your first sentence is about your s~~~ stain wife.

Anyway, you ask if you should continue your blissful life. If it’s that blissful, why do need advice from any of us. Also, I don’t think the solution to a woman problem is ever that you just don’t have enough of them.

If you want a MGTOW answer, my advice would be to get the divorce. When you can’t afford it is when you won’t have to pay as much in alimony or child support. If you were making $250k a year, you could afford it, but you wouldn’t like the monthly nut.

I personally wouldn’t feel right in your situation, so I would say let the wife go and let her move on. Maybe she’ll be a little less of a s~~~ stain when she doesn’t have a husband who is living with another woman.

It may not be what you want to hear, but you did ask.

Order the good wine

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Don’t bring more misery by dragging the courts in. It’s a contract – I’ve lost count of how many contracts I signed. Live your life as YOU and you alone see fit. You know it’s interesting to me – there is such thing in many jurisdictions as a common law marriage. Then it follows there should also be a common law divorce. If you just stop living together as husband and wife after a certain time period the marriage just automatically is dissolved. No lawyers, no judges,no pain. The couples can always seek court intervention on other aspects if needed. Problem is the divorce industry is so lucrative, this will never happen.

[Truthseekr303Participant 34]

Well the problem is a ride the fine line between being prosperous and poor. I were forced to pay her huge debts that she’s accrued… I would be screwed. Also on paper, I make enough to pay her. I’m terrified of being financially raped.

[Truthseekr303Participant 34]

And my wife and I haven’t been intimate in 4 years and haven’t lived together in 5 year. She’s since gone on to live with other men and even getting pregnant and then having abortion. There is absolutely zero contact between her and I other than our son and when she feels like threatening me.

[Anonymous 54]

BS

[PacifistParticipant 143]

Go to a lawyer. Tell him everything. Find out what avenues are open to you and the risks/costs involved. Then when you know your options you can think about making a decision.

With the information you’ve provided us we can only make stabs in the dark. We don’t even know the laws of the country your in and we’re not lawyers for the most part.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

BS

^^^ MGTOW MARGE ADVISERS?

1. Don’t get married.

2 Get unmarried.

3. Serve your modern wife hand over foot with divorce rape held over your head.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Move to Utah. Marry the 2nd one.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[HitmanParticipant]

yo man, if you are legit then excuse the flack because we get trolls in here asking questions like that…
keep things the way they are and be grateful it’s not worse.
if you are a laydee then get a vibrator and go F~~~ YOURSELF.
if you are a man in need of advice then stick around.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Get a divorce , in England it can be done without Lawyers and cheaply if no children.

The danger of not getting a divorce is yours not hers, currently any financial progress you make is half hers.

She can come back anytime and ask for the payout…

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

You are living a less than honorable life. You need to get a Divorce.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Truthseekr303Participant 34]

I’m a real guy in the U.S. I’ve spoken about to an attorney about the validity of her threats. It turns out she can screw me pretty royally especially out of my military pension. The question is should I burn myself now or later? I’m hoping in time she will mature or find another victim to suck dry and forget about me. Right now as long I pay the outrageous child support, she doesn’t cry too much. I’m wondering if I should let it be like this rather than risking pay her hundreds of thousands of dollars over the long run with a divorce.

[Truthseekr303Participant 34]

I truly want a divorce but I don’t want to lose everything and end up selling my pubic hair just to make ends meet.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

OK, look. She’s going to get what she’s going to get, whenever the divorce happens. Do you really plan on living this way until you die? If that’s the case, she’s going to get everything when you die anyway.

You obviously don’t act like you’re married to her. It’s going to cost you whenever you do get a divorce, so rip the band aid off and move on.

I’ll say it again. If you are living a blissful life, you wouldn’t be here posting. So in that way you are answering your own question.

Order the good wine

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

If she gets pregnant she will get child support on top of alimony. Don’t be stupid.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[experiencedParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

I’m always leery of a new person with no intro coming on and throwing a topic like this out there. My first thought is that it’s a woman coming on the site and looking for the men here to be assholes.

AGREED!

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"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[experiencedParticipant]

Truthseekr303 wrote:

I’m a real guy in the U.S. I’ve spoken about to an attorney about the validity of her threats. It turns out she can screw me pretty royally especially out of my military pension.

I’m sure she’s OK with the delay because she is looking out for your best
interests[SARCASM!!!!!!!!!!!!]
The longer she stays married to you during your career, the proportionately greater the fraction of YOUR retirement she will take. Do the math, get out now!

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[experiencedParticipant]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

You know it’s interesting to me – there is such thing in many jurisdictions as a common law marriage. Then it follows there should also be a common law divorce. If you just stop living together as husband and wife after a certain time period the marriage just automatically is dissolved.

Great concept!

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Veritech AceParticipant 699]

Have you considered another country? It’s probably your cheapest option.

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