Why Rush To Get Married?

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Some people have serious, deep, committed relationships while they’re in high school. They plan to get married right after they graduate. Why? There’s no need to rush! They have plenty of time to make that permanent decision. When I was in high school, a girl dropped out just to get married. We all thought that was a bad idea…except for her! She was still a minor, but her parents gave her permission to do it. Jesus Christ, lady, at least get your high school diploma!

I know, from life experience, that people go through MAJOR CHANGES a few years after high school. Their whole outlook on life changes after a few years of college or the working world. Tom Leykis has given good advice for years: WAIT! People who insist on getting married should wait a few years until they figure out what they really want in life and have the money to live their ideal lifestyle. It’s really sad to see people stuck in a marriage/raising kids and wishing they had more fun, stayed in college, dated more people, or reached their career goals when they were younger. I think most people become financially stable and have made enough mistakes or experienced a few failures to know what they really want in life by the time they’re 30 years old.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Anonymous 42]

I can think of only one reason>>> “Why Rush To Get Married”.

the sooner you get married the sooner you get your 18 or more year tour over in governmental matrimony’s gynocentric hell.

No parole or time off for good behavior, 18+ years of endless hell.

Call me MG-Toby, I ran like hell!

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

FunInTheSun wrote:

When I was in high school, a girl dropped out just to get married.

They just get abortions now…

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

FunInTheSun wrote:

They have plenty of time to make that permanent decision.

What’s permanent about marriage these days? When she gets bored and puts 2&2 together to come up with 18(years of free checks at your expense), she can sleep with the whole hockey team, kick you out of the house, and file for divorce – not necessarily in that order.

Gone are the days when there would be some kind of social pressure to work it out or consequences of some kind if not. Now it’s all “you go grrl” and an attitude that no matter how disgusting her actions are/were, somehow HE must have deserved it.

I challenge anyone to show me even a single instance in modern journalism or fiction where a woman is held accountable for bad behavior in and around a relationship.

Go on, I dare you.

Edit: I should mention that I actually did see such an example “recently” in the BBC prodution of “War and Peace” where the cheating wife is disgraced, dishonored, and shunned by polite society. The fact that it was written/published in the 1860’s kind of proves my point.

Also FuninTheSun, I didn’t mean this to sound like a criticism of your original sentiment – I know what you are saying, I just wanted to comment on the (total lack of) permanency in marriage these days.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

I don’t know who you are addressing with this topic. MGTOW? MGTOW don’t marry so not sure what you are talking about. Women? Women are on a biological clock, men are not, so that right there kind of bombs the s~~~ out of your assertion, which is we all need not to rush. 30 years old? 90% of a woman’s eggs are gone by the time she is 30. A woman has between 15-25 to score a husband to raise a family, after that she’s a leftover woman. If anything your post should read the opposite:

Some people are seriously scholastic while they’re in high school. They plan to go to college right after they graduate. Why? There’s no need to rush! They have plenty of time to make that permanent decision. When I was in high school, a girl dropped out just to go to college. We all thought that was a bad idea…except for her! She was still a minor, but her parents gave her permission to do it. Jesus Christ, lady, at least find a husband and have a kid first!

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Why get married at all?

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

FunInTheSun wrote:

that people go through MAJOR CHANGES a few years after high school. Their whole outlook on life changes after a few years of college or the working world.

this is exactly what happened to me!

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Blue Skies wrote:

this is exactly what happened to me!

And you got married 3 times! ;^ )

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

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