why marriage does'nt work

[HitmanParticipant]

marriage is an antiquated institution which was originally for royalty to form political bonds with other nations ..ie; my son the prince shall marry your daughter the princess ..now an alliance is forged …. meanwhile the common people did not marry….a women would want sex , most likely get pregnant and the man would generally leave.. repeat that process until the man who stayed basically would provide food, money, etc for her and the kids , in exchange for getting his needs ( sex ) met… MARRIAGE is what men do , thinking it will please the woman FOREVER …but it does’nt… look how little boys play, trucks, cars , sports etc.. whereas little girls play with dolls ..future babies ..and dream about their WEDDING DAY ! it’s nuts and it DOES NOT WORK ! be forewarned young men here.. NEVER , EVER , EVER MARRY ! .

[ChilledToZeroParticipant 178]

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[HitmanParticipant]

AWESOME ! excellent formatting ! … thats why they call it ” common-law marriage ” after cohabitating a specific amount of time …. BEWARE THE SHE-DEVILS !!!

[ChilledToZeroParticipant 178]

Common law marriage is a bunch of s~~~, it got me pretty vexed when i found out that was a thing

You shouldn’t be legally married to someone just because you lived with them for a couple of years

[HitmanParticipant]

right ? i’d be married to my college roomate if it were much stricter.. the common people didn’t have marriages , so the STATE stepped in ..f’n retards..

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

What I can’t figure out:

In addition to all my life’s experiences I’ve spent a lot of time on the internet.

What I see is:

a) women dreaming of marriage, complaining about men not committing, desperate for wedding, giving men an ultimatum, where are all the good guys, baby rabies, fear of missing out on getting kids, etc, etc,
b) women wanting marriage for companionship, ‘attention, love, romance, blah blah blah.

On the other hand I see:

a) men wanting to stay single, fear of being tied down, fear of commitment, fear of divorce, fear of financial destruction, loss of freedom, never ending burden;
b) men fearing infidelity, divorce, loss of children, child support payments, alimony, bottomless pit that prevents him from ever achieving his goals.

Yet it is women who are desperate for the emotional, psychological, spiritual, and physical aspects of marriage are the ones who are most likely to sue for divorce (70% of the time). If they know we men are so bad, and marriage doesn’t work (divorce rate 50%), why the hell do they push for marriage?

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Robert Hallam wrote:

What I can’t figure out:
On the other hand I see:
a) men wanting to stay single, fear of being tied down, fear of commitment, fear of divorce, fear of financial destruction, loss of freedom, never ending burden;b) men fearing infidelity, divorce, loss of children, child support payments, alimony, bottomless pit that prevents him from ever achieving his goals.
Yet it is women who are desperate for the emotional, psychological, spiritual, and physical aspects of marriage are the ones who are most likely to sue for divorce (70% of the time). If they know we men are so bad, and marriage doesn’t work (divorce rate 50%), why the hell do they push for marriage?

Although the message is slowly getting out there I still believe a massive percentage of men are still blue pill and have been led to believe that you should get married, have children and that everything is going to be OK. These are the men that end up being the Beta providers in their 30’s and divorced in their 40’s.

I also believe that women have been led to believe they can have it all in life. They can can have their party 20’s where they slut it up on the c~~~ carousel and when they start to hit the wall in their early 30’s the slate will be wiped clean. They can put this behavior down to just not finding the right man and can move on to finding a Beta provider to give them the house and kids they think they should have. Once they have their little life in suburbia with their boring husband and 2 children they suddenly realise they have been sold a lie and that for them a boring life is the worst possible thing that could have happened to them.

Luckily for them we now have no fault divorce and divorce laws that are 100% in the woman’s favour. She can get back on the c~~~ carousel and once the husband finds out she can blame him for not paying her enough attention and divorce him. She now has all the things she wanted from the marriage (kids, house, money) with the added bonus of getting the excitement she craves by being able to get back on the c~~~ carousel. All of her friends will be giving her the whole “You go girl!” speech and living their life through her for a while to see how it pans out and to see if they are brave enough to do the same thing.

Unless you are in the top 20% of men, you know exactly what it is like to be anonymous to women. Any woman who is average looking and above has spent her life getting attention and everything she wants from men. Once she becomes labelled as a mother and wife and loses that attention she hates it as her sexual market value is the only true definition of her worth.

This desire for attention will be so strong she will do anything to get it back so will lose weight, join a gym and start going out with the girls. She will start getting attention from men and it will make her feel alive again. At this point in time, the excitement of this is so great she has basically checked out of the marriage as she believes this is what life should really be like. Forget the fact that her husband would do anything for her, right now all she can think about is getting f~~~ed by some 20 something c~~~.

Facebook, Tinder, POF and all the other dating apps have made this easier than ever. Any woman now has as much attention as she wants and a never ending line of young c~~~ willing to f~~~ her. Unfortunately that is all they want to do and after a while she will realise this and start to become bitter and worry she will end up on her own with cats. This fear will drive her to find another Beta, exactly like her husband and move him into the marital home.

The basic problem with marriage is that women have no real idea what they actually want but it is usually the complete opposite to what they currently have…….

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[MemberParticipant 323]

Take away child support, alimony, and the ability to take half the husband’s possessions and bank accounts and then you will see the divorce rate plummet. Only when there is nothing financial to gain by divorce will women file for divorce less and stay married more. Its very simple in concept but it took me a long time to understand it.

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Due to female hypergamy, narcissism, infidelity and the legal/court system. . . . .

Marriage should be reserved only for men that are pathologically and clinically insane.

Any man that has the ability to look at the current situation objectively and has an ounce of intelligence should know enough to never get married.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Robert Hallam wrote:

why the hell do they push for marriage?

Because it’s their meal ticket “to ride the gravy train” Pink Floyd lyrics

[Anonymous 12]

Honestly I think marriage did work at one point, but it takes 2 people fulfilling their respective roles and dealing with the fact they might have to make sacrifices. That doesn’t happen now, for a start gender roles are skewed, women want to be treated as equals and yet at the same time they want to be treated as old world ladies. This doesn’t make them equals, it makes them superiors that are to be worshipped and obeyed.

So in modern times marriage is a bad idea on an epic level, mix in divorce laws with that and you would need your mind read to enter into it.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

It does work… for the woman.
Why do you think THEY are the ones who want to get married?

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I think marriage used to be a good idea when societies were controlled by men. In many societies, women belonged to their fathers. The man had to win the approval of the father to be worthy of marrying his daughter. If you were a man capable of doing something to help the community (hunting, killing invading armies of men, making fire, digging wells, etc.) you were eligible for marriage. The father, who was the ruler of his house, gave you a woman, and she was commanded to respect and obey you for a lifetime. If she messed around, she was shamed by the adults of the community for not playing her role AND she would be dishonoring her parents. Since most women value social status, they were careful to be good wives for fear of public shame.
An obedient, faithful wife was rewarded with good social status.

Today, a lot of women are independent and PROUD of their own disgusting behavior—-especially in the USA. They are raised to rebel against their fathers and disrespect the adults in their communities. Lindsay Lohan, Paris Hilton, and Miley Cyrus are the role models for teenage girls. They live in a world where their bad behavior is excused because they’re “innocent.” They are free to be as sexually provocative as they want to be (with their wardrobe and behavior) and any male that responds to them with sexual interest is arrested—because we have to protect their youthful innocence…even though they’re old enough to dress like adult women going to a nightclub. Governments rescue these damsels in distress with welfare if they exercise poor judgement in choosing a suitable man to provide for them and raise their kids (for some reason, many of them think a drug dealer or car thief can fulfill this role). The role of the modern father is not to give his daughter away to a worthy man for marriage. Instead, he must rescue her from her stupid life choices.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Anonymous 9]

CatsPaw wrote:

It does work… for the woman.Why do you think THEY are the ones who want to get married?

Exactly.

[LowKeyParticipant 702]

Does not work for men, always works for women

Women get married for hypergamy then if it does not work out then proceed to plan B which is to suck the poor guy out of his resources

Now we see Johnny at his nearest bar having Mr. Jack Daniels in front of him and figuring out what did he do in life to deserve such fate

and women dare ask us why men are afraid of commitments – Well, we are not afraid but rather its an instinct to PROTECT and thats what we’re here for right? to PROTECT however we’re not PROTECTING you anymore, We are PROTECTING ourselves.

LK~

Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

[DethklokParticipant 153]

Member wrote:

Take away child support, alimony, and the ability to take half the husband’s possessions and bank accounts and then you will see the divorce rate plummet. Only when there is nothing financial to gain by divorce will women file for divorce less and stay married more. Its very simple in concept but it took me a long time to understand it.

I don’t know if I agree with this assessment, but I could be wrong.

I believe the rate would go up. When men are in a toxic marriage, they are screwed. Plan and simple.. They either live with it, or face the male consequences of divorce. Some people just live with it, as they’d rather not lose all of their stuff. Maybe find a mistress on the side. Because why marry again? You just want the sex. Some people just wait out at least the child support.

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