Why It Sucks To Be A Man

[ABParticipant 762]

This reads like a real MRA type post that echoes many observations of my reasoning for being MGTOW. I disagree with the title – it never “sucks” to be a man, because that frames it like we’re bitching about injustices, and a man can never be a bitch. Many of these things don’t “upset” me in truth, they “anger” me – I’m not sat around moping about men being disposable, or men being f~~~ed over in court – I am seething about it, furious at a system that is engineered to downplay my importance and value to society.

Thought some of you would appreciate the share.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/thought-catalog/2017/04/it-sucks-to-be-a-man-66-guys-explain-why-2/

No-one's yet explained to me exactly what's so great // About slaving fifty years away on something that you hate // About meekly shuffling down the path of mediocrity // Well if that's your road then take it, but it's not the road for me.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

being a man is awesome, especially after going your own way

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

FROM ARTICLE:
1. We come last—after women and children.
2. We are disposable.
3. We don’t get touched.
4. We have to cry in secret.
…..

Notice that all of these reasons are for BLUE PILL MEN – Men who have SURRENDERED their freedom.

[ABParticipant 762]

surfdude12 wrote:

FROM ARTICLE:
1. We come last—after women and children.
2. We are disposable.
3. We don’t get touched.
4. We have to cry in secret.
…..

Notice that all of these reasons are for BLUE PILL MEN – Men who have SURRENDERED their freedom.

Totally agreed. I never said we need to sort this stuff out and “fix it”, more that I view it as reaffirmation of why I am MGTOW. The reasons listed are definitely relative to Blue Pillers, but I think at the same time these very arguments that cement the need for MGTOW and build the cornerstone of the reason so many of us have chosen to forge our own way out of the bulls~~~.

No true MGTOW should be tolerating the s~~~ tests and hypocrisy listed in the article; it’s more a reflective article about remembering the reason we will never return to the plantations.

No-one's yet explained to me exactly what's so great // About slaving fifty years away on something that you hate // About meekly shuffling down the path of mediocrity // Well if that's your road then take it, but it's not the road for me.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

I think many items on that list ring true for many men, but the fact is it only sucks if you let it. Obviously factors outside your control can destroy you (and no one will give a f~~~), but going your own way actually frees you from nearly every one of those issues.

Still, there’s no getting away from some of them. If a man going his own way gets raped, it’ll be just as traumatizing for him as for a blue pill man, and he’ll be just as helpless to do anything about it since the cops will just laugh at him. Overall, I’d say this is a worthwhile read, maybe some purple pills for those on the path to enlightenment.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Anonymous 3]

Didn’t read the article, but if people on here are arguing that men aren’t discriminated against and disadvantaged in Western society, then I vehemently disagree.

If everything was fair and on the up and up in society, MGTOW wouldn’t exist and we wouldn’t need this site.

One of my biggest problems with Western society is the outright refusal to admit that men are mistreated and disadvantaged today. Men themselves refuse to admit it, and will attack other men for voicing any problem or injustice. Women actively attack it and hide it as well, but at least they are benefiting and want to keep the status quo for themselves. For men to attack other men is sheer idiocy.

When this type of thing happens, I often think to myself “women are smarter than men”. Only a man could be stupid enough to fight against his own interests and uphold a system that hates him. Women have their own stupidity, but it’s a different type. At least in terms of protecting their own benefits, women are way, way, way, way smarter than men.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

At least in terms of protecting their own benefits, women are way, way, way, way smarter than men.

I wouldn’t call this “smart.” It’s just genetic programming. Men are designed by nature to protect the weaker half of the population, while women are designed to look after and care about only themselves. It’s merely about the survival of the species.

Women protecting their own benefits is just water running down a hill, whereas men protecting their own benefits runs counter to their genetic programming and the lizard brain. Naturally it’s not nearly as common.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Blue Skies wrote:

being a man is awesome, especially after going your own way

It doesnt suck to be a man…Being a man is great…The title should have read…It sucks to be mangina/ white knight/ beta/ simp…LOL

Im liking my life now that I am MGTOW and focusing on myself…Its great to reply to women and medias demands with just my middle finger….Then to let them rant, and foam at the mouth trying to shame me… but I am going fishing…LOL…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 3]

Can’t Stump Trump wrote:

phoenix wrote:

At least in terms of protecting their own benefits, women are way, way, way, way smarter than men.

I wouldn’t call this “smart.” It’s just genetic programming. Men are designed by nature to protect the weaker half of the population, while women are designed to look after and care about only themselves. It’s merely about the survival of the species.

Women protecting their own benefits is just water running down a hill, whereas men protecting their own benefits runs counter to their genetic programming and the lizard brain. Naturally it’s not nearly as common.

The elite males all protect their own interests. All the wealthy and powerful men, not a one would allow themselves to be dominated by others and screwed over, and especially they never allow women authority over them.

Only the lesser men do that and are happy with that, and act like that is natural or smart.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

NerdTunneler wrote:

It doesnt suck to be a man…Being a man is great…The title should have read…It sucks to be mangina/ white knight/ beta/ simp…LOL

that’s exactly right

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 18]

The only downside of being a masculine man in western society is weaponization of his sexual desires for a woman. Women stand to profit extremely in western world and rest of the world is/has caught up.

Esther Vilar called American man the most manipulated man on planet Earth. In 1970s. It has only gotten worse.

Once a man has learned to condition his sexual desires and either control them or get them via professional sex workers, woman lose any power over him.

Unfortunately, the same conditioning that sets him up for abuse by women also trains him to consider f~~~ing prostitutes as immoral.

F~~~ing a prostitute is a very moral thing.

The manipulation is deep indeed.

[joetechParticipant]

I remember a woman saying these exact same things about why she wouldn’t want to be a man. Does it make me angry that things are the way they are? Yes. Does my anger change things? No. When you turn your back on a society that doesn’t care about you, only the society gets frustrated.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

Right now is the best time in history to be a man.

Because the truth is coming out.

And the truth is our salvation.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

To me, it doesn’t suck being a man. My society sucks!

Life could be much easier for me without all these people making up rules of engagement, social standards that make me feel inadequate, and laws to restrict my freedom.

Also: I could have a significant increase in my standard of living if my paychecks weren’t taxed for wars & welfare. I’m taxed because other people can’t take responsibility for their own f~~~ ups.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

If you think it sucks to be a man, imagine what it must be like to be a woman where the only way you can survive is to entice men into giving you things by either acting like a child or waving the possibility of sex with you at them.

Or manipulating society into shaming and forcing them to take care of you.

Think about if these were your options. You couldn’t do an honest day’s work, you couldn’t make a rational argument, you couldn’t accept reality for what it is, you couldn’t even look someone in the eyes as a peer… all you could do is make yourself as cute and harmless or sexually appealing as possible and then, if that doesn’t work, orchestrate a manipulative campaign of bulls~~~ until someone is willing to feed, cloth and protect you.

That is WAY worse. As s~~~ty as it is to be a man, at lease we can have self respect.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Good post AB and I agree with you, it doesn’t suck to be a man. If you allow it to suck, then it will suck. Mine sucked when I thought my status in society needed to be validated by a woman. Now my life is awesome, still has ups and downs but it’s been steadily improving since I stopped chasing broads.

I’ve had many many women tell me how they wish they weren’t girls, and how lucky I am to be a man. That’s about the only time they ever said anything that had any truth.

[PhilandryParticipant 538]

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Being a man is incredible good luck. Do not waste it on the unlucky.

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