Why is MGTOW annoying to regular people?

[ghostParticipant]

What I have noticed is that some people will think you’re “weird” because they’re insecure about themselves. They just love to shift the blame onto you because they can’t accept the fact that they’re losers. The best thing to do is to be polite but refuse to engage. Just ignore and move on.

MGTOW.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

What is hilarious is how delusional blue-pill men can be. I decided, partly for s~~~s and giggles to make sure that Chad #3 got to see the my ex with Chad #4. See Chad #3 was under the delusion that my ex loved him, so I just decided to Red Pill him.

Almost caused a fight between Chad #3 and Chad #4. Chad #4 ran off. Chad #3 still can’t believe she cheated on him with Chad #4 — this despite the fact that she was cheating on me with HIM.

I even told him some of the s~~~ she said about him behind his back, after she decided to be Chad #4. He couldn’t understand how she would betray him like that as well as say such things. I said basically paraphrased what Banner said about Loki in “The Avengers” – “That girl’s brain is a bag full of cats. You can smell crazy on her.”

She’s probably already working on monkey-branching out from Chad #4 where she lives with him now. And yet Chad #3 still clings to the hope that she’ll move back from out of state and be with him. Such is the power of pussy over Blue Pills.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

Ignorance breeds fear, and fear breeds hatred. Old as mankind itself.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

I get interrogated by various (female) family members and friends frequently. My standard response is now “Why?”. And yes it annoys them a lot.

Hypothetical conversation:

Are you seeing anyone?
Why would I want to?
I’m sure you’ll find someone when you’re ready?
Why? I have everything I want.
You just haven’t found the right one yet.
Why?
Perhaps you need to get out more and look for the right one.
Why?
So you can be happy?
Why? Am I unhappy now?
No. But having someone to share it with will make it much better.
Why?
Experiences are much better when shared.
Why?
They just are. You know I can see why you haven’t found a good woman.
Why?
Because you don’t like sharing and don’t want a woman to make you happy.
Why?
Why what?
Why don’t I think a woman would make me happy?
Go away, there is no reasoning with you.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[nonameParticipant 746]

Ranger One wrote:

What is hilarious is how delusional blue-pill men can be. I decided, partly for s~~~s and giggles to make sure that Chad #3 got to see the my ex with Chad #4.

LOL!
God call.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[Anonymous 12]

I have a theory that most people live “by the numbers” you work, you date, you get married, have kids, divorce and then repeat.

A happy single man upsets their belief system. We are the spanner in the works.

Enjoy.

[freedomParticipant 5129]

BuckFitches wrote:

I just wasn’t in the mood to be all pretendy like my mom prefers me to behave around her people so I just said, “I’m sort of fed up with dating right now. I think I’m going to take a break for a while and focus on my career.”

lol avoid conflicts and play it cool, saying something like that gets people to respond harshly.

I also noticed that you mention the risks, married men s~~~ themselves and start to get really quiet, you can see in their that they are terrified and want to push that thought away.

[freedomParticipant 5129]

Anonymous wrote:

I have a theory that most people live “by the numbers” you work, you date, you get married, have kids, divorce and then repeat.

A happy single man upsets their belief system. We are the spanner in the works.

Enjoy.

it’s not that, most men get jealous and your existence is a constant reminder that they didn’t think things through, last time I talked about divorce risks to a married guy at work, his face turned all white with fear. they rather ignore it and push it away, because they are already married, so there isn’t much they can do about it.

[WallyParticipant]

Misery loves company, by choosing a different path than them, they have to question the decisions they made and the people shaming you can’t face that.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[MACHOParticipant]

BuckFitches wrote:

Why is MGTOW annoying to regular people?

It’s best to get use to it, whether it’s built in us or it’s programming people always behave this way, it’s such a waste of energy to care enough to bother and engage in any conversation about it. Once you accept this truth life gets much more peaceful because you stop giving a F~~~ about people’s opinion!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

For all of my life, this was a big annoyance.

Getting shamed and interrogated on why I am still c~~~ free.

With growing independence and the need for 3rd party approval nearing 0 %, I more and more often reverted to the short form:

In my childhood – getting stepped on by hundreds of my mother’s beauty shop customers who had selected me as their punching ball – I got to know how vile and evil females can become if they feel superiority.

Today, I don’t feel safe around one of them. I can’t breathe next to a woman and I cannot live “under” her judgmental eyes. And the demanding and entitled mindset of women is not what I had planned on enduring for all of my life.

And the divorce rate, even good men losing everything to their women sadly proves me right”

Sometimes they just look at me and turn away without words.

No discussion. The hammer fell.

May they talk about me what they want. I don’t need their friendship.

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[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

People typically are more comfortable being around people with similar educational and sociological backgrounds.

I personally don’t care what other people think.
However, I personally try to give answers that will placate the person asking, so as not to waste my time on a pointless discussion.

Q: Why aren’t you married?

A: Still looking.

The alternative would be to launch into a philosophical discussion which probably alienate people and take time.

[Anonymous 14]

Regular people don’t like truth. They spend their whole lives trying to avoid it, and they are encouraged to do so via Hollywood and MSM. Even here many avoid it in certain arenas.

Truth is uncomfortable.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Becuase they are weak pathetic pussies with no b~~~~. I work in sales and the number of so calle dmen who can’t say no is pathetic, phone abck, needs to talk to the wife etc is ridiculous

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[JosephParticipant 274]

Last night I had dinner with 6 or 7 people because my grandpa from my mom’s side came in town. So it was me, my brother, mom, grandpa, 2 of my mom’s friends and and one of my grandpa’s friends/helpers.

Wow I can just smell the collective estrogen in the air from these people you were having dinner with.

Anyway, you know how it is when you have to meet your moms friends and/or see your grandpa and everyone wants to know whats going on with your life, what’s going on with your romance, blah blah blah. Well when my mom’s friend asked me if I had a girl friend or was dating around, I just wasn’t feeling it. Ya know?

Classic mental retardation mixed with a hint of pride ego vanity and narcissism. They always want to know every little detail of your life. But check this out. They never are there to help you or actually benefit you in your life. Yet they feel like they deserve to know about it.

I just wasn’t in the mood to be all pretendy like my mom prefers me to behave around her people so I just said, “I’m sort of fed up with dating right now. I think I’m going to take a break for a while and focus on my career.”

Dumbass females don’t understand that men’s patience is not infinite. It is actually one of many finite resources that not only needs to be refilled over time but closely guarded, not wasted and used very wisely.

What do you think happened next? ……YEAH thats exactly what happened!

“Oh BuckFitches don’t say that! The perfect girl is out there waiting for you to find her!” -Said everyone at the table even tho my mom, grandpa, and mom’s friend are all divorced.

Mental retardation often leads to logical fallacies, emotional thinking, and fantastical delusions not to mention blatant hypocrisy, contradictoriness and once again any lack of them actually offering physical help for you to find that special someone out there. As always cucks, simps and retarded women will never help you and only seek to hurt you and steal from you.

But I really wasn’t in the mood to say “Yeah I guess I’ll keep looking!” So I sorta argued with everyone for a while about the possibility that I won’t date anyone at all for a long time. Maybe even forever.

Why do people even care? And why is it always such a big deal to say, “I’m single and NOT dating.” ?

Retards loved to tell other people whats best for them when they themselves have failed in the very thing they are advising you to do. They lack intelligence because they have no self awareness, are themselves also emotionally f~~~ed up in their heart in addition to mentally being f~~~ed up in their head.

Maybe people feel bad for me because they see it as giving up, but I see it as moving on. Everyone acts like they won’t be able to sleep tonight if the conversation doesn’t end with you giving in, “FIIIIIINE I’ll start dating around again.”

No they don’t feel bad for you. It’s projection they feel bad for themselves and then in their emotionally retarded state project their baggage burdens problems and issues they ave with relationships on to you.

Maybe it’s just built into human nature to encourage others to find a lover for reproductive reasons -and so when you say you aren’t even looking for a lover it triggers everyone’s natural instinct to push you into finding someone to F~~~. If that’s the case then this is a warning for future MGTOW to watch out for blue-pill propaganda.

They are jealous of your strength for they themselves cannot admit to your truth as you have experienced it in their own life. They are weak and try their best to bring you down to their level.

Maybe the women really do immediately engage in their group think and try to convince you into being a blue-pill slave to keep females in power.

I have a feeling people get annoyed by MGTOW for all of these reasons and even more. When people ask about your love life it’s way easier to just say, “I’ve got my eyes open for that lucky lady”

*under my breath*
NAAAAHHHHT.

Anyone that tries to control you whether mentally or emotionally can F~~~ RIGHT OFF. Your values are your values and no one has the right to tell you what to do, how to feel, or modulate your conclusions that you have drawn. About females relationships or any other thing in this world.

Your family sadly typically obviously is weak. Best to avoid.

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[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Women hate seeing a good earner escape the plantation.

Blue pill “men” want to see other men make the same mistakes they did to justify their own folly. “Misery loves company.”

: “Oh BuckFitches don’t say that! The perfect girl is out there waiting for you to find her!”
: “There may well be, but she’s surrounded by millions of gold digging whores who will only divorce and ruin me and who all look and act exactly like her. Seriously, have any of you looked at the women of my generation? Are you going to reimburse all my losses when she inevitably divorces me? Yeah, I didn’t think so. Only one person at this table has never been divorced, and that’s me, and I intend to keep it that way.”

[ghostParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

Women hate seeing a good earner escape the plantation.

Blue pill “men” want to see other men make the same mistakes they did to justify their own folly. “Misery loves company.”

Sidecar for the win.

[Red KnightParticipant 720]

I think it’s a cultural norm to be expected to find marriage and “love”. When you don’t do that, you upset this cultural norm. People are brainwashed into thinking that this is the most important thing in the entire world and that it’s a requirement for happiness. People simply just don’t know how to enjoy life by themselves. So when you challenge this, people think you will inevitably have a very sad life. It’s stupid.

Formerly MoneyOverBitches

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Thank you BuckFitches…wonderful post and I found myself in your words. I had to endure 2 weddings this summer, and as you can imagine, it brings out the questions if you attend as a single guy. I could really relate to the part where you sometimes go ahead and play the game with your answer, saying stuff like I’m still looking….and then also sometimes just not having the energy or not being in the frame of mind where you want to even bother with the “right answer”.

Anyway, thanks for the post. I feel like a lot of men here have experienced similar feeling.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

ghost wrote:

Sidecar for the win.

Naw. I was just too lazy to read the whole thread before posting. Other people here said basically the same thing first, including you:

ghost wrote:

What I have noticed is that some people will think you’re “weird” because they’re insecure about themselves. They just love to shift the blame onto you because they can’t accept the fact that they’re losers.

^that was spot on. And the fact that @buckfitches relatives are all divorced fools who clearly never learned their lesson proves they are losers.

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