Why is it socially accepted that women have vibrators and dildo’s?

[The Skank SpankerParticipant 1372]

Why is it socially accepted that women have vibrators and dildo’s? But it’s “creepy” when a guy masturbates daily to porn?

I am constantly reminded by society that its OK for a woman to pleasure herself, that it makes her independent. F~~~, you even see adds for vibrators and dildo’s these days. But once a guy openly says he masturbated or bought a fleshlight, he is shamed, considered a creep or perf.

“In society, a woman’s masturbation is a sign of success, but a man’s is a sign of failure.”

“The narrative we have now is this: When a girl masturbates, she’s claiming her pleasure. She’s engaging in self-discovery. Male masturbation, by comparison, is viewed variously as a grim necessity, an object of jocular shame, or a mere fact. There’s nothing honorable, nothing transgressive, and barely even anything fun about the narratives of male masturbation in culture … ”

Her masturbation is a sign of success. His is a sign of failure.

Am I the only one noticing this social stigma / double standard? I guess the feminist told society that it was OK for a women to masturbate, but once a guy does it, he is a loser / creep / can’t get laid. So anyway, when I get shamed now, I tell these women I masturbated to their facebook profile picture.

[shadowParticipant 156]

I wouldn’t call it a double standard so much as simply feminists s~~~ talking opinions. A woman masturbating will be much more profitable than a man, that is the only reason I can see why. But in reality calling a guy a perv or a loser because he masturbates is shaming.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Typical woman thing to criticize male sexuality.
Conservative women do it too.
Bottom line is women have no empathy or consideration for men or boys at all.
Unless and only some times the man or boy happens to be her son,brother or husband.

Judith Grossman prime example.

Male sexuality has no value unless a specific women happens to desire him sexually.

Then he’s a fair object of criticism and ridicule if HE is just not interested.

Meanwhile female sexuality is always at a premium.
See in how many movies how when a woman suddenly wants a man it’s like a religious moment.

Like some new profound epiphany that her pussy just got wet,and her clit and nipples just got hard for him.

See that in almost any romantic drama.

Just more reasonable reason to Go Your Own Way .

Male sexuality is so worthless that society’s would rather disposed of it.

While female sexuality is obscured, hoarded and celebrated wherever it happens to appear. .

No wonder I’m a Man Going His Own Way

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[RoyDalParticipant]

MgtowWave wrote:

Typical woman thing to criticize male sexuality.

All my GFs were that way. It was all about what I “had to” do for her. What I liked or didn’t like was not open for discussion.

My LTR was the worst. Once the honeymoon phase was over, she used getting laid as a weapon. Thanks to MGTOW bloggers, I found out this is typical and made her merely average.

The story has a happy ending. She gave me an STD a few years in. Antibiotics cured the STD and the STD cured me of her.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

The Skankspanker-
Interesting question. I think you have a point.
There does seem to be a double standard, I think whereas men are quiet, women are loud and boisterous still claiming victory when they can’t find or retain a man. Another attempt to shame men. Given the quality and loyalty of today’s female, I’m surprised they all don’t substitute dildos for men.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I’m oversimplifying (and theorizing) here, but believe women (ww mostly) hate it when you get laid whenever you want, with whomever you want, and pleasure yourself when she would rather you perform all kinds of stunts to try and get it from her instead.. In all situations that I can reflect on, I see this theme come up alot.

• “why do you need porn? Am I not enough?” (fight ensues)
• “did you jerk off in the shower? Am I not good in bed?” (more drama)
• “Were you checking out that other girl” (even more drama)

It’s like getting your nut and having the freedom to do so — p~~~es women off.
Have 3 girls on the go, and she can’t use sex to control you.

The illusion of control. They don’t want you getting off without their “consent”. It sounds like a joke but that’s what it’s like. Like you need to obtain a permission slip from mommy to get your nut. Even if it’s to unload before you go to work.

Pleasuring a woman / female is like an art form. There are all kinds of nuances and variables, subtle signs, foreplay, “meaning”, the seduction, obtaining “consent” ….. is she feeling fat today?, is it Feb 14th? Did she have a period recently? Is a period coming up? and the list goes on……. her desire and pleasure depends on a mile long list of factors.

But a man is pleasured as easily as taking a leak, and then it’s back to business.
There is no “meaning” in it. They are jealous of the ease and simplicity of us getting off without sucking up to her first.

You can get laid by ordering sex fantasy of your choice – TONIGHT – like ordering pizza. At your place in 30 minutes or it’s free. A woman can get laid tonight too…… but not by someone she truly WANTS and fantasizes about. That’s what they can’t control. The dildo is her way of getting off like a man. No romantic candlelit dinner was ever required for her to want to f~~~ anyway…… and the vibrator is a reminder of that.

Women want a great f~~~ too. But they want you to crawl through s~~~ for it. She doesn’t make her dildo take her out dancing, and it doesn’t need to appear in the form of a little blue box from Tiffany’s either. She goes right for the goodie drawer and plunges into her cooch. We have one orgasm, we’re done, and it’s back to the football game.. Immediately after having one, she “needs” to cum another 9 times. But did she give a s~~~ about YOUR orgasm on the first date?

The dildo is man’s way of telling woman to “go f~~~ yourself”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

Ok Men. Yes there are double standards in this society about masturbation; but they are all paper tigers.
Shaming tactics that must be denied. It is that simple. When I am being shamed, I tell the truth: Yes, I would like to jerk-off rather that have sex with you.

Try to shame me and see how far it gets you. Those tactics work both ways.

When you stand up for yourself the paper tigers are exposed.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I once had a GF accuse me of using her as a living sex toy. I didn’t “love” her, she said, I was just using her to masturbate. Back in my blue pill dating days, it was the arch-feminists who put out and I think she picked that idea up from the feminist leadership.

She was right. All I wanted was sex and maybe some pleasant company. At least, she didn’t give me any communicable diseases.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[EinherjarParticipant 608]

StandUpGuy wrote:

When I am being shamed, I tell the truth: Yes, I would like to jerk-off rather that have sex with you.

Hehehe, reminds me of my own mentality back when I was living together with my last ex. Quite often I would much rather turn to porn rather than having sex. Sex was always for her pleasure…her entertainment. That sucks when you just want a quick one so than you may continue the day.

Because of this I started viewing sex as some sort of work, a duty to perform…one does not get much fun out of that. Sometimes I waited until she fell asleep, so that I could sneak away to my computer to get the job done:p

I’ve learned that the best thing to do regarding the shaming of male sexuality, is just to take ownership of it. Say it proudly, “Yes I do watch porn, and quite often it gives more pleasure than having to give sex to a woman”. Most women only want to receive while giving nothing in return…the timber-log style. It needs to start somewhere if this double standard is going to change:)

The worst form of inequality is to try to make unequal things equal - Aristotle (384 - 322 BC)

[UntamedParticipant]

Masturbation in weemin’s case is supposed to be celebrated and recognized as a sign of their emancipation and empowerment. Their sex needs are seen as Rights and they claim it over what’s best for the whole of Human Race. They want to be able to get f~~~ed by two or three guys, either one after the other or as a group, get sexually served by dogs, horses and bulls, be penetrated by cucumbers, carrots and what not and still want to be treated with all the considerations their grand-grand mothers enjoyed while trying to ban men from thinking of them as what they are: sex-crazed deluded lunatics with social complexes that would put Hannibal Lecter to shame.
One again, with masturbation or any other personal choices, they want to control what a man is able to do and think ( as if weemins were the gateway to Decency and Reason ) while demanding, claiming and taking the right to do, think and say whatever the f~~~ they please without being held responsible.

A Man will, can and is allowed to masturbate as much as pleases him! Who in the F~~~ are they to put limits to what a man will do or can do?!!
They subscribe to the notion that there is no God and thereby no Absolute, so according to them the buck stops with the individual regardless of Morals so they ought to put their feeeeeeeeeelings where their mouth is, quit shaming men for something as natural as drinking and simply shut the f~~~ up!

When my partners, in the past, claimed to not be “in the mood” or had “headache” in order to refuse having sex I’d simply masturbate right next to them while they pretended to sleep and dared them to say one f~~~ing thing about it!
When a woman ignores her man’s needs she has no leg to stand on claiming that masturbation is “wrong because I should be enough for your needs”. Well bitch, you obviously aren’t! So either you STFU and go make me a samwich or you get the f~~~ out!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

back in my blue pill days when my ex girlfriend use to live with me, we use to have sex everyday, but i still had that need to masturbated, i been masturbated since i was 9 no joke,,, so i masturbated as well, and she use to get so mad, LOL i was like damnn relax i enjoing your pussy very much, but i been masturbated for a long time,, she use to call me perv, just because of that LOL back in my blue days i was like damn she must be right, but now that i think about it, i know she was wrong, she was just jealous, i had a way to plz myself, even though i was f~~~in her everyday, that right way, she use to have 5 and 6 orgasm while i was f~~~in her, and still use to get mad when i was playing with myself, this is how i combat hot chick, i masturbate in her name and after i do that, her body her face just dont mean nothing to me, i view them, as object nothing more, lol

[JasonParticipant 282]

Keymaster wrote:

The illusion of control.

It all comes down to this.

The majority of women have little to no control of themselves – what one might call internal control. To compensate, they try to control everything around them – they try to get external control. The simplest way that women can achieve external control involves controlling the men in their lives (and quite frequently men they happen to pass in the street). The easiest way to do this, in turn – at least in modern society – involves controlling male sexuality. When this fails, whether because men make use of porn, a fleshlight or other “toy” or whatever, the women lose external control. When they have neither internal nor external control, they lose all sense of stability on a mental and emotional level and go insane. This doesn’t come exlusive to women, though – men who lack both internal and external control act just as insane as the lacking women. The difference lies in that men generally possess some amount of internal control, so if they lose all external control, they don’t automatically go bats~~~ insane (some men do, but most don’t).

Why do most men possess some amount of internal control, while most women don’t? Biology probably plays a part, but I personally believe it mostly has to do with social factors – in modern society, men, like always, have to become at least somewhat self-reliant early on. In olden days, this applied to women as well, albeit in different ways. Today, most women never have to continue maturing after high school (many stop maturing even earlier still), because society as a whole and feminists and simps and white knights in particular all cater to their needs and protect them regardless of their actions. In short, in modern society women can go their whole lives without needing to achieve even the slightest hint of internal control. Then, when something happens to cause these women to lose the external control they’ve had easy access to their whole lives up until that point, they have nothing to fall back on, and basically go insane. Wholly desperate to take back the control they’ve lost, they then begin shaming, accusing, attacking and otherwise enacting hostile behavior toward men, because in men lies the easiest route to gaining external control, specifically by controlling men’s sexuality, as per the above.

For a textbook example of a man who lacks all semblance of internal control – due to never having had the need to develop it in the first place – and instead desperately tries to compensate with external control (and frequently fails), see Justin Bieber.

There lies serenity in Chaos. Seek ye the eye of the hurricane.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I think the stigma for men was to prevent MGTOW. Think about it. If men can get sexual needs met without women why should we chase them.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Because double standard sir.

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 42]

Why is it socially accepted that women have vibrators and dildo’s?

As long as I’m not the dildo I don’t care if they stick buttered corn in their ass! We’ve accepted the fact that famly pets aren’t safe around some women, others are doing Mr. Ed, doing each-other, hopping around on the c~~~ carousel like a frog; what’s a little dildo? I use to wonder about those outrageously large dildos until I saw a picture of some chick doing Mr. Ed.
Ya gotta wonder the things gynecologists pull out from virginal cavities, It must be like cleaning a sewer!

[Honorable_Juice_BoxParticipant 591]

In my opinion, this double standard has a lot to do with perceptions of each gender.

In the case of dildo’s, men do not see them as competition; we know we have much more than just our penis to offer, so we disregard them and their use by women.

In the case of fleshlights and male masturbation, women become paranoid; deep down they know that their only true value is their vagina. Therefore they must implement shaming tactics to disuade men from seeking such alternatives.

I own a fleshlight and I have got to say it was one of the best purchases I ever made! In fact I just ordered a new one last week, they have a holiday sale on their site.

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

MgtowWave wrote:

Male sexuality has no value unless a specific women happens to desire him sexually.

Pretty much this when it comes to any women, even those who aren’t as sexually driven as other women. All those shy, innocent, unattractive ones do it as a means to disregard male sexuality and at the same time be proud of who they are.

F~~~ them.

[Anonymous 0]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

I think the stigma for men was to prevent MGTOW. Think about it. If men can get sexual needs met without women why should we chase them.

CORRECT!!

Honorable_Juice_Box wrote:

In the case of dildo’s, men do not see them as competition; we know we have much more than just our penis to offer, so we disregard them and their use by women.
In the case of fleshlights and male masturbation, women become paranoid; deep down they know that their only true value is their vagina. Therefore they must implement shaming tactics to disuade men from seeking such alternatives

Must be a hard lesson for them! Too bad. I’m real broke up. lol

[The Skank SpankerParticipant 1372]

Honorable_Juice_Box wrote:

In the case of fleshlights and male masturbation, women become paranoid; deep down they know that their only true value is their vagina. Therefore they must implement shaming tactics to disuade men from seeking such alternatives.

Indeed, I think it all boils down to losing that 1 thing they have left to control and dominate men: their vagina.

Thus by masturbating I am actually denying their pitiful existence, denying them of the only worth they ever had, the meathole between their legs.

So basically I have been denying them their value for years. LOL that just brighten up my day. Thanks for explaining fellow MGTOWS.

BRB, Milf Memories #3 just finished downloading.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

More leeway is always given to women about anything involving sex. When a woman can’t orgasm with a man, it’s always his fault. Never mind the mile long list of variables that KM mentioned. Because it’s the man’s fault, it is socially acceptable for women to have as many toys as she desires.
Women are never responsible for anything even for their their own lack of ability to orgasm. They are portrayed as victims because they have a difficult time orgasming so the toys are OK.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

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