Why I Will Stay As Single Man Forever

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Hello to all my fellow Mgtow Friends.

I just joined mgtow.com. I feel happy to be part this group with common interest.  I have ended a 12 year marriage with my wife.  It’s been a very difficult breakup, I almost wanted to commit suicide because of the sudden ending of my marriage.  Me and my ex wife were together almost 24/7 together because I own my own photography business and she was house wife always with me most of the time.  We were really in love, so I thought but when I realized that I was spoiling her with giving her too much money, big house, new cars, 10k vacations, I decided to stop it, then suddenly she turned form an angle to a devil with physical violence.  It’s hard to explain so I created a website  SinglemenDotMe and wrote all the details of my painful breakup experience with a wife who turned out to be “sleeping with the devil, not an angle”  <span style=”font-size: x-large;”></span>

There is no reason men should let women control them just because they have a pussy.  Men are much smarter then women when it comes to many things, women are also smarter in other ways.  Men invented most of any thing you use in your daily life including, computers, cars, electricity, microwaves, dishwashers, list goes on and on. We can easily take back the power we have given to their pussy. It’s up to men, to not let women or government control us. What is it going to be, you have a chooses between (1)giving away the power to the pussy so women can controlling men or (2)men take back the power they gave to pussy, so they can controlling their own life. No Laws or Women can harm you if you take back the power you gave to that pussy and say no to marriage.  Don’t get married or live with a women so you can keep all your freedom and money for your own pleasures.  This is called non cooperation, which Gandhi used to bring freedom to Indian from British rule in 1947.  We don’t need to participate(time to protest) current unfair family legal system, if we can not get equal justice under law.

You can still have plenty of pussy you want if you learn how, by watching our videos on singlemenDotMe. As a matter of fact there more women then men out there and women want to give you sex for free, if you learn how to pay the game right. We will teach you how to be a super stars in getting sex for free. There are too many girls that are too easy to have free sex with. Just take my advice, don’t get married or live with a girl so you have complete control of your life and money.  If you have to just date women but don’t make the mistake of getting married.

Read on, you will see what I been through so you understand why it’s very important you don’t get married.  Don’t make the same mistake I did. Learn from my big mistakes.

Government and women can’t do anything to you, if you don’t get married.  Live out side the walls of marriage institution and long-term relationships with women.  There is joke “Marriage is an Institution, Who wants to be in an Institution”.  Only way to get out of a marriage/this crazy Institution is to lose most of your things in a divorce.  Women win in every divorce.  Men lose in every divorce.  Our legal system only favors women 100% of time and this is a fact your can not argue with.  And this process brings is more money to government because women spend more money then men.

It’s time single men get smart and live free and happy in a Marriage Free Zone”. Single men should stick together and help each other improve our lives and improve the laws that are totally unfair to men.  It’s our duty to help younger men who are thinking of getting married.  We should teach them to not make the big mistake of getting married in current unfair family court system.

These men who run the government are pussy wiped and sell out’s to the power of feminists. Government wants to create marriage problems and get involved in our private marriage issues so they can make the government bigger.  The feminist’s are to dumb to see the tricks government is playing so government can make more money and get bigger.  Women are forced to work because of single parenting.  Men don’t want to take care of these selfish women. This makes women work and pay more taxes compare to single men.  Men are getting smarter, working less and paying less taxes while women will end up paying more taxes because of their feminist beliefs. That’s another topic I will write about later.

Here is my personal story as an clear example so you know why you should not get married.  I have personally been though hell living with my ex wife for 12 years.  I lost almost every thing that was dear to me in my divorce.  It’s my bad luck that I choose the wrong women to marry. I lost most of my freedom during my 12 years with my ex wife.  While I was married I could not ever play tennis with my own brother because my ex wife thought I am having too much fun without her, she was way to needy.  I could not play tag football with by guy friends like I use to before marriage.  I can not talk openly at parities to any one I want.  She was too needy, joules and controlling.  I gave her the power by wanting her pussy, I could not help it as a man at that time. I am to blame for giving her that pussy power.  It’s my fault I was too pussy whipped.  It took me 12 years of marriage prison sentence and loss of all my freedom to discover that I give her the pussy power.  These are some of the examples in the beginning of my marriage.  It gets worst as my marriage continued.  My frustration with my bad experience with woman made me create singlemenDotMe so I can blog about it.  You can read the rest of this story their if like.

<span style=”font-size: x-large;”></span>  I am happy to be here with all of you.  I hope to make new friends here, share our common issues and help support each other life happy single lives together.  Thanks  you, Ray Bandaku

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hello Ray. Thank you for reaching out by email the other day. Had no idea your story was so personal and devastating. Many thanks for your brave intro. Other brothers are quietly thanking you for leaving it. It’s rather difficult to respond in such a way that does it justice. What CAN one say to that?

Very sorry to hear what you went through.

For the benefit of others, I do my best to rephrase the use of the term “marriage” to mean “the signing of a marriage contract”. Marriage in itself is not the true devastation .Men are resilient and able to bounce back from a failed personal relationship. But it’s THE CONTRACT – the fraudulent contract – that finishes him and makes him feel like he lost everything. So you can confidently know we have a little saying around here:

“Save a male and stop a wedding”.

It’s our unregistered trademark, if you will. And your contribution will be extremely valuable in saving a life. We wish you every success in bouncing back. Delighted you find some happiness, contentment in being here where you are MORE than welcome and appreciated.

Hope to reconnect often.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

.. and PS.. you are MGHOW of the day on our homepage.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Rock St.EddieParticipant 129]

The younger gents are learning. You’re doing a great service.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Thank you KeyMaster for your kind and supportive words.  I am glad to be part of such a great site mgtow.com  I hope to make difference.  Also thank you to Rock St.Eddie for your support.  Look forward to being an active member.  Ray Bandaku

 

[spamahoyParticipant 1]

I was married 10 years. Ironically I married someone from Vietnam specifically because Vietnamese culture frowns on divorce. I saw what a bitter divorce my brother went through and I didn’t want to go through that. We wound up getting divorced anyway. I had a relativity easy divorce compared to most guys I know. I kept my house and my car, I have my kid during the school year M-F, and my ex even pays me child support. But still, it was a heartbreaking experience. It ripped my soul in half. My ex was like my best friend, we did everything together. But she grew to be very materialistic, and all she cared about was money. I’m sure she was cheating on me behind my back for at least a year with the arrogant home wrecking asshole she’s married to now. My advice for any guy who’s going through a divorce is: 1) Don’t do anything crazy. You’ll hear that a lot. Even though you may not think of doing anything crazy at first, you will eventually. Just don’t act on it.  2) The first year will be the hardest. You can expect financial trouble at least for the first year. Don’t be too proud to go on EBT, medicaid, etc., especially if you have kids. Do what you have to do to survive.  3) Don’t rush right out and try to start dating again. Even though everyone will tell you this is then to do, it’s not. You probably won’t have money for dating right away after a divorce, and you’ll have issues, and you’ll carry those issues into your next relationship. Wait a while…maybe even a year or two…before you try to start dating someone. Studies show on average it takes a man about 2 years to recover from a divorce. 80% of second marriages fail, and I think the main reason they do is because a lot of guys try to rush into that second marriage before they’ve had time to heal. Plus,the dating scene will be a lot harder than you think it is (I got catfished this Valentine’s Day for instance. lol) . A lot of guys think they could be getting more women than Brad Pitt if they just weren’t married and then find out otherwise when they get divorced.  And most important 4) It’s not the worst thing in the world to be alone. I’ve seen a lot of guys settle. Don’t settle. Don’t get in a relationship with a woman you can’t stand just to have a woman. I’ve sen so many guys do this, and all they do is make themselves and everyone around them miserable. I was talking to a guy the other day who told me the first thing he does when he starts dating a woman is wonder “What are you going to do to me?” This same guy once had to move from an apartment complex, simply because an ex-girlfriend decided to falsely slander him by printing up flyers, saying he was a convicted sex offender (he wasn’t) and distributing them all over the apartment complex he was living at. The landlord finally asked him to leave because of all the complaints. did the cops do anything to the crazy ex-girlfriend? Of course not. I could tell you a lot of crazy girlfriend stories guys have told me over the years but we’d need a whole new forum for that. I know another guy who goes from crazy woman to the next crazy woman simply because he can’t stand to be alone, and jumps on the first one that comes along instead of taking his time. As for me, I’m alone, probably always will be, and that’s OK. I’m a single parent, not by choice, and that’s OK too. Learn to enjoy your own company, get closer to your extended family, hang out with friends, and you might find being alone isn’t the worst thing in the world.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Key master,
maybe a new thread on craziest thing you’ve ever seen woman do would be useful here..(?) Often, a man who stumbles onto one of these crazy women will think she’s an isolated case or that he caused her to do whatever crazy thing she did. It might be a nice way to welcome new members to have a display case to show them that it’s not really isolated, and it’s not their fault.

It’s better to be alone than to be with a woman who makes you wish you were…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Lazarus LongParticipant 365]

@raybandaku

Welcome and thank you for sharing I look forward to checking out your blog.

 

@spamahoy

Sound advice there I came away with the same lessons learned. There is a marriage and divorce section of the forum that you might want to post this to.

Willfully turning aside from the truth is treason to one's self. -Terry Goodkind

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