Why i will not sleep with married women, Just my two cents

[Anonymous 0]

As a man, I would not contribute to the destruction of another man by sleeping with his wife. I hear some men saying it is not their fault that she wants to cheat on their husband…that’s true but do you have to put yourself in that situation. It’s not be your fault that she has thoughts of cheating with you..but it is your damn fault if you go ahead and f~~~ her. It’s both your fault. It’s that simple. A few married women have tried to make moves on me but i don’t return the favour because i do not want to be a part of the man’s destruction.

Some men use the excuse of “she is gonna cheat anyway”. To that i’ll say this – Someone is gonna commit crime anyway, Someone is gonna kill another person anyway, someone is gonna pollute the environment anyway, does that mean YOU should do it?.

If you know that she is gonna cheat on him, divorce him, take half his stuff with the help of the government, why would you contribute to the ruin and destruction of a man you don’t know? Imagine a scenario if you sleep with a married woman and you get caught, the husband then decides to shoot you dead and later claims you tried to rape his cheating wife and goes free (Because it does happen). If you are concerned about men’s right and are disgusted by the bias divorce courts then why would you partake in the process that leads to ruining another man?

Apart from moral & ethical reasons, there’s too much too risk…false rape accusations by the cheating scumbag wife, risk of injury or death if you get caught by the husband etc. It’s just not worth it

Just my two cents on this.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Anonymous wrote:

As a man, I would not contribute to the destruction of another man by sleeping with his wife. I hear some men saying it is not their fault that she wants to cheat on their husban

You are a noble man Darth Thomas, caring and compassionate. This is the only way we men can move forwards as a true brotherhood. Who are we to call ourselves MGTOW if all we care about is our own selfish desires.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[markParticipant 451]

I would. But let me explain.

A couple of times I found out that the girl I was in bed with had another guy (husband or otherwise), and I always did the right thing.

In one occasion the guy was actually going to marry her. He had a senior position in an educational institution. I recognized her in their picture together so I went to meet him with printouts of our sexually charged emails, together with the exact dates and times when we had sex, so he could contrast them with whatever excuse she gave him. Needless to say, the wedding was called off and a man’s life was saved.

In another occasion she was sleeping after sex and a message came to what I thought it was my phone. At that time phones did not have all the security they now do, so I picked up her phone thinking it was mine, and saw a message from another guy. I called back using my number and explained to the guy where his love was. Again, a man was spared.

Despite what you may see in movies, all the men I have helped never went angry at me. On the contrary, I was profusely thanked for my service.

So I would say:
1. Have sex with the married lady.
2. Make sure the husband is properly informed.

Wouldn’t you want the same done to you?

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I turned down a woman because she was still legally married.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[OldBillParticipant]

Like Mark, I have never knowingly slept with a married woman. While I’ll admit that during the pussy chasing, girl in every port, Navy days of my early 20s I didn’t do many background checks, I never slept with a women I knew was married or dating someone else.

The one and only time I found out my “girlfriend” was married and not divorced as she claimed, I immediately ended the relationship.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[MonkParticipant 16983]

Anonymous wrote:

Apart from moral and ethical reasons, there’s too much too risk … false rape accusations by the cheating scumbag wife …

A false rape allegation is even more likely when she has tired of you, but you don’t get the message.

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

In my time, I’ve had flings with married women just twice. Once when I was about 25 or so and had a difficult time controlling myself where sex was concerned. Another time in mid-50’s I had a fling with another married woman. At that time I was chronically impaired by drugs and alcohol. Now I’m a bit older and sober five years and very much doubt I would get involved sexually with a married woman. Moral questions aside, it’s just too complicated and sneaky. Just my opinion.

[AttonParticipant]

A few married women have tried to make moves on me

As clear as a red flag could be.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I agree, never done it.

Never will.

I also don’t trust guys who do it.

One colleague of mine was kissing with a girl, she has a boyfriend, she is been fooling around with him for months.

The worst part is my colleague even knows the guy, they live in same building. He is capable of being a jerk to this guy, he will be a jerk to me someday.

We use to climb mountains toguether but know I don’t know if I wanna go 3000 meters with a guy I don’t trust.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[calciovaParticipant 19]

My two cents. I (married) had married side honey for 11 years. We saw each one week and amazingly we did not get caught. It blew up in her face, when I caught her f~~~ing another man, not her husband. Then I took all the emails, pictures and texts gave them to him and walked away. Yes, I kept all interaction with as insurance against false allegation.

I know some of you are saying what a whore, but I cannot without calling myself a gigolo or manwhore.

Would I do it again HELL NO !!!

I have always been crazy, but it has kept from going insane.........

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

As a man, I would not contribute to the destruction of another man by sleeping with his wife. I hear some men saying it is not their fault that she wants to cheat on their husband…that’s true but do you have to put yourself in that situation.

There are plenty of unmarried woman out there that you wouldn’t need a married one.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

OldBill wrote:

The one and only time I found out my “girlfriend” was married and not divorced as she claimed, I immediately ended the relationship.

Her cheating on him and lying to you is about as of big a redflag as they come.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[GregB0Participant]

OldBill wrote:

While I’ll admit that during the pussy chasing, girl in every port, Navy days of my early 20s I didn’t do many background checks,

Like OldBill, my Army days were fun but long ago and not to be compared with today’s society. I did however have an affair with an Army Nurse, but would not do so now if I could turn back the hands of time.

There are several KEY reasons to never ever mess with married women.

1: Men are very possessive of their property and consider their wives property, first and foremost.
2: Possessive men get angry when someone “messes” with their property; garden tools, bowling b~~~~ or spouses. When angry they tend to do rash things to the person “messing” with their property.
3: Those rash things typically involve sharp objects, gunpowder powered objects, and blunt force trauma … you get the picture and it’s all about bad things happening to you.
4: Major medical expenses always have a deductible.

As Lynyrd Skynyrd says so well … Staring straight down a forty-four

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[StealthParticipant 5330]

An even bigger red flag is not that she is married, but that she is a woman! It is risky going near those creatures.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 18]

With the way things are going blue pilled cucks raised by single mothers will be actively enrolling other men to f~~~ their wives.

They of course will be brainwashed by cupcake that not letting her f~~~ Chad is his toxic and insecure masculinity.

[OldBillParticipant]

FrostByte wrote:

Her cheating on him and lying to you is about as of big a redflag as they come.

Damn straight, FrostByte.

Making matters worse was the fact that I was traveling on business during the time. That meant it looked far worse to the casual observer than it actually was.

If I said we were involved for roughly 3 months that would sound bad, right?

If I said we got together only 6 times that wouldn’t sound as bad, right?

Well, what if I told you we got together only 6 times over 3 months because that’s all my business travel schedule allowed?

If I’d seen her more often, our time together would have been much shorter because her lies would have collapsed all the faster. If you only look at the 3 month angle, however, I come off as a homewrecker or f~~~wit.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t think a person needs to do a full background check on the person they are sleeping with, but I certainly would not if I knew the woman was married. Separated may be the exception, depending on how long she’s been separated. If the marriage is over except for signing the papers, I don’t really see that as sleeping with a married woman.

I agree with the others who have stated that knowing about a woman’s infidelity, or attempted infidelity, is an opportunity to let another man know what his wife has been up to. I’m not aware of any time that a married woman has blatantly crossed the line with me, but if it’s at all possible, I would shame her as much as possible, and threaten to out her infidelity if I saw any chance that she could remotely be a decent wife. If there is no chance, then the husband will be told.

Honestly, I doubt I’ll ever be propositioned by a married woman. I don’t give off any vibes that the risk would be worth the effort.

Ok. Then do it.

[GregB0Participant]

OldBill wrote:

If you only look at the 3 month angle, however, I come off as a homewrecker or f~~~wit.

It’s always a matter of perspective. Hers, theirs, yours… and perspective directly influences opinion.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[TaxGuyParticipant]

No married women, ever. I’ve had three long term relationships end with cheating, including the one marriage. To be fair on the marriage the cheating started after the relationship was already pretty dead (as far as I know) so I wouldn’t place 100% blame on the cheating. But that’s water under the bridge.

So, I wouldn’t want to do that to another man. And if she will cheat on him she will cheat on me. And then there’s something about one chance, per person, per lifetime, no exceptions. I can’t remember exactly how that goes, but I think that’s pretty close.

Order the good wine

[AutoliteParticipant]

OldBill wrote:

Like Mark, I have never knowingly slept with a married woman. While I’ll admit that during the pussy chasing, girl in every port, Navy days of my early 20s I didn’t do many background checks, I never slept with a women I knew was married or dating someone else.

I once had a Navy wife practically try to drag me into bed. I was drunk and things went a little father than they should have but I bailed and ran before things got too intense.

I may not like the Navy but I’m still not going to mess around with their wives. And for the record, I’ve never messed around with anybody’s wife…

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