Why I No Longer Date

[RoyDalParticipant]

It’s because I kept running into this girl: She is a typical female from North America. Here are her defining traits:

* Extreme sense of entitlement
* No concern for others
* Completely self absorbed
* Takes no responsibility for her actions
* Blames everyone else for her problems
* Is always the victim
* Draining of energy to be around
* Uses sex as a weapon or tool for control.

(Borrowed from Rex Patriarch’s blog http://rexpatriarch.blogspot.com/2014/12/unoffical-mgtow-commemoration-week.html )

This is bad enough, but she’s one of the nicer ones. I even got into LTRs with one or two. Add militant feminism to the mix, and you really have a handful. A handful of hot steaming excrement with the power of speech — but I’m not bitter!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

You just described (very well) an ex wife and about a dozen ex girlfriends…

 

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[liventhedreamParticipant 42]

Oh! I like this list!

Lets not forget:

* Horrible money management skills (because so materialistic and short term/non existent planning).

* Completely inept cooking skills (like, can’t cook a grilled cheese kind of inept).

* Bizarre mental obsession about being judged…only to cause drama but not really resolve the issue (like getting better friends).

And the absolute deal killer for me is this:

* Unrealistic compromise, like none practically.

Its a 300 page list requirement for the man, and she sooooo doesn’t deserve a single one of those qualities. (technically this is the same as entitlement, but its such a biggie I thought it should be mentioned twice).

 

[Anonymous 23]

Nice ones guys! Additions –

 

*Manages to make you feel guilty all of the time about anything.

*Blows tiny things into massive proportions and manages to convince you of their enormity.

*Extreme obsessive controlling nature.

*Able to make you question everything about yourself because you are wrong and need to change.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

– Nothing that you do is good enough.

– You are merely a convenient stopgap until someone better comes along.

– Any date you manage to get is because you submitted the highest bid.

 

 

[tsParticipant 109]

Why I no longer date:

It uses my precious free time. And I have something better to do with it than entertaining women.

[MdaveSpectator -31]

You just described (very well) an ex wife and about a dozen ex girlfriends…

===> well you know what they say… Fool me once, shame on you, fool me 13 times, maybe I’m the one with a problem and I should stop dating altogether

[MdaveSpectator -31]

It uses my precious free time. And I have something better to do with it than entertaining women.

 

Yeah I had this one girlfriend who always expected to tell jokes at dinner. She forced me to join a juggling class and to put up shows when her girlfriends were over.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

Mdave:

Your description of the juggling shows reminds me of the title of a musical: “I Love You. You’re Perfect. Now Change.”

In the past, I tried that to win someone’s favour. It always turned out to be a complete waste of time as she’d take up with someone “better”. That’s what I got for all my time, money, and effort trying to get her to like me.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

RoyDal wrote:

It’s because I kept running into this girl: She is a typical female from North America. Here are her defining traits: * Extreme sense of entitlement * No concern for others * Completely self absorbed * Takes no responsibility for her actions * Blames everyone else for her problems * Is always the victim * Draining of energy to be around * Uses sex as a weapon or tool for control. (Borrowed from Rex Patriarch’s blog http://rexpatriarch.blogspot.com/2014/12/unoffical-mgtow-commemoration-week.html ) This is bad enough, but she’s one of the nicer ones. I even got into LTRs with one or two. Add militant feminism to the mix, and you really have a handful. A handful of hot steaming excrement with the power of speech — but I’m not bitter!

You and I both, pal.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[MR TVParticipant 67]

Completely narcissistic, dishonest, inconsiderate.

[Anonymous 2]

I am from Europe but most of our dating material is the same. I just throw the truth back at them, they usually run when they see my list of demands for co-habitation. Unlike most women I have spent most of my life working, and women are competing with the finer things in life one can aquire with money, such as single malt scotch. They think they can barter with sex and drama, but they can’t. They can only diminish their value that way, never increase it.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Money I could be spending on cool toys for me.

Fuck this planet.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

I got tired of spending a lot of time and money courting women who simply used me as entertainment until someone “better” came along or used our dates as let’s-see-if-you’re-good-enough-for-me interviews.

 

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

The last date I went on was in 2005. I really don’t like the whole structure on what a guy is supposed to do on a date. The message is were supposed to cater to women and listen to what what they say. Let’s face men and women generally are worlds apart on interest. I don’t know any guy who watches the bachelor or the view. And women only watch the Super Bowl for the half time show. It’s crazy. How do I get by? Use tinder for hookups. Also use POF, and ashley madison. Women and their moods are just a turn off enough. I say why bother date them.

[Anonymous 2]

I dont know about you, but I want a few very specific things from a women, sex being one of them. Sex usually being the basis for a hookup, as all you see of a person online is their looks anyway, they can type whatever about themselves. So talk about sex. In public. It gets them off. I don’t know why but most girls like dirty, rough sex and talking about sex. If she doesn’t, she isn’t naturally interested. Why even hide that is what you want from her? Why even hide that it is what you expect from her? My rule is that if she looks nice, smells nice and signals she wants sex, I won’t hide that I want the same.

Online dating material is like a bin full of needles containing several rare gems. You keep sticking your hands in as long as you occasionally dig up a pearl, because you can deal with the pain. It is weak-willed women who have trouble moving things forward to real life and keeping men interested with their inane prattle. However, these women also serve a tactical purpose as leverage towards other women, as they highly value each others opinion of you. This is why social networks can have a cascading effect whereas on deliberate dating sites (where user generated content is usually private) no such exposure does exist.

I’m no PUA but I’ve dated and bedded women in my blue pill days like it was no tomorrow, as a “revenge f~~~ing spree” on the sex I didn’t get when I was young and full of acne. A painfully empty pursuit, but at least one in which the value of sex became very clear. In order to successfully hook up with nice women online, withhold sex, expose yourself truthfully, and ignore all the hate you get from women with a stupid act. Yes, that means you can’t f~~~ 99% of them. Deal with the needles if you want the gems.

Just don’t spend so much time with online dating that it becomes a drag. It’s a game you can easily check out of and MGHOW should feel free to opt out of that game. I personally ditched any mainstream social network (Facebook, Twitter) and opted in on those covering specific areas of interest. I don’t blow a ton of money on dates and I check in on my profiles at set times, background routines trump deliberate searches in my experience.

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