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Back in my day, I used to believe that a woman would want to date me, and love me for who I am. That was nothing but blue pill lies. I do not believe in the concept of a “significant other” anymore for the following reasons:
A woman will leave you/cheat on you if you in any way appear weak. She is not going to listen to your problems like some of your guy friends will. She will not show sympathy towards you. If you are not masculine enough, she goes bye bye.
You have to have “Game” to get a girl. This proves that women are not equal to men in the dating world. Men have to learn how to talk to women, impress them and convince them that they are worth it to a woman which is hard especially for someone with autism, such as myself, where all a woman has to do is look good. She doesn’t even have to try. As stated above men can steal girlfriends from other men as women are not loyal companions. (yes I do believe AWALT)
Financially, it’s just not worth it. If you have a kid, have her move in with her, or always pay for her dates and buy her gifts and she leaves you, you just got f~~~ed and spent all that money for nothing. And the saddest thing is, usually the men pay more money in relationships, and if you can’t make enough to keep up with her, she’ll leave you. Also, if you have no money at all, you’re worth nothing to a woman. A woman will not sympathize with a poor/broke man and be with one if they can’t get anything out of him.
In conclusion, the whole lie about somebody loving you has been prevalent in society, but more people are waking up and going their own way leaving these insensitive (and in some cases, stupid) creatures to rot in their loneliness while MGTOW are living happily with their male friends playing video games, watching sports, etc. (Yeah, some men still have sex with women, but that’s it.)
I just don’t see how a man and a woman can really be happy together. I believe they are just faking their happiness everyday lying to themselves.
Sources that helped me through this: /r/theredpill, The Manipulated Man by Estar Villar, Bachelor Pad economics by Aaron Clarey.
Anonymous42The sexual revolution is over, the un-sexual revelation has only just begun; girls will be boys and boys will be girls, up will be down and down will be up, left will be and right and right will be left, black will be white and white will be black, hell will be heaven and heaven will be hell.
Does that about sum it up?
romantic love is a chemical in the brain.
a very expensive chemical.
just ask Tiger Woods who lost 250 Million in his divorce.
@PatricX
i’m glad you found the path to freedom
MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.
Personally, I believe in love. Though, I also believe that one cannot find love with a narcissist, which is what most western women are raised to be.
Also, love is not the person you have sex with. Part of love is if you like and can live with whom you wake up with in the morning.
Someone smarter than me said. Men love females like females love children and pets.
Females hypergamy makes it impossible for them to love.
Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.
Anonymous42My pappy told me “women fall in love and fall out of love”. He never told me on the way out they beat you up and take everything!
Women’s don’t love men’s they love men’s resources
Exactly my point everyone. Women nowadays are becoming more annoying creatures. I hate the music they like to listen to, and they complain about meaningless stuff. How can I actually be attracted to someone so annoying? My old retarded instinct was because they looked good, so I used to think they were nice. That is not the case. Now with feminism the way it is today, I will not trust a woman, ever. Still, I am going to get a vasectomy just in case I do find myself having sex with a woman.
Who knows? I might just live off the grid with just pet animals one day away from all humans and meditate for a long time. Mainstream society’s beliefs and values just easily get to me sometimes. All I would want is video games, music, fishing, and that’s it.
love is a lie we tell ourselves.
we believe it because it makes us feel good.
love is an illusion, a passing fancy at best..
when you believe in lies then you suffer.
it’s a fool’s game.
Anonymous12“Limerence” is what it’s called. That buzz you get when you feel attracted to someone and all your chemicals are going crazy. I won’t lie, it feels great.
But it doesn’t last and it’s rare.
That is what women are chasing, they want the instant attraction, that hit of Limerence and when it passes they move on.
Anonymous54I believe in true love. My dogs.(my cats too but i lay low about that here )
Love does exist, but not with a woman. Familial love is real. As is love for pets.
This is romantic “love”:
Man: She’s got a nice pussy and some nice t~~~.
Woman: He’s got a fat wallet.“Limerence” is what it’s called. That buzz you get when you feel attracted to someone and all your chemicals are going crazy. I won’t lie, it feels great.
But it doesn’t last and it’s rare.
That is what women are chasing, they want the instant attraction, that hit of Limerence and when it passes they move on.
+20
Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman
Anonymous11A woman will leave you/cheat on you if you in any way appear weak
That is the gospel truth unless you are a man-slave in an FLR. However, what women perceive as strength is often nothing more than some guy projecting a facade of strength to cover the pathetic weakness inside. They are shells. The woman is incapable of seeing past the shell.
I’m old enough now to see these “strong” guys falling to pieces when things don’t go entirely their way. They have zero fortitude.
To be one who has nothing ever given easily to him is a blessing. It builds his character and makes him much more resilient. That is true strength.
Check out my new profile picture. It’s supposed to be a heart cut in half with the halves turned around. This could be a MGTOW day symbol for Feb 14th.
Women think love is a feeling but it’s not. It’s a choice. It’s a verb, an action verb. A feeling is a thing, a noun.
Since women see it as a noun, they look for it like you would your car keys. “Where did that go?” That’s why women are passive about it. It’s a thing that’s either there or not.
Since men see it as a verb, we realize that it’s something you do, which makes us active about it.
We also understand the power of inaction. It leads to actively loving yourself, or going your own way.
The reason why mgtow feels great is because it’s actively choosing to love yourself first.
God I sound like a wuss….
Order the good wine
All men have love to give, it is in our nature to love and nurture but when it is not reciprocated by your female partner how can there truly be love? It takes two people to love each other but that will never happen when one side will use emotions to manipulate you into giving them everything that they want at your expensive of love. If love has a price tag attached to it men are opting out for good reason. Women are masters of emotion they live and breathe it every day and know exactly what to say and do to get you to love them.
0:36 into the video says it all.
By far she is no LTR material. She isn’t really all that good looking. Tbh, she looks like a tanned gorilla. Redpill alphas would egotistical women like that then leave them later. Men love sex, and in ways can manipulate them to get it frequently too.
I made up a quote “Love angels, and pump and dump bitches”, but angels aren’t real. There are no good women to love.
I think if your redpill enough, you can lie to a woman about how much you love her without letting her manipulate you, in a sense it’s the other way around where the man manipulates the woman. Of course all it takes is being at least a 9/10 man.
I love myself. A lot.
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