Why I CAN Never Get Married (Age 20).

[TheYoungCloudParticipant 2]

Hey guys. I’m writing a piece on reasons why I will never get married, despite as an adolescent having that as a certainty in my distant future. Where I’m coming from, or at least my view point, has been largely influenced by statistics; that’s really the angle I’d like to come at this from. I also don’t think I’ll ever have a child within a relationship, though I do want to someday be father. Since I still want my genes to be passed down, I will probably decide to have a surrogate mother, there by making my paternity absolute. I think having your children taken away, as well as 50% of your assets, would be grounds for suicide or at least would warrant it in many ways. I’ve collected a number of stats for both topics (paternity, and divorce), but I’d really like some additional source if any activists have some on hand (or in mind). This could include: news stories, additional statistics, comparisons between the genders (as long as they are based in fact, not fiction, or rationalized with volition), really anything that can’t be disproven, or be viewed as irrational. I also wouldn’t mind some additional examples and stats on paternity fraud (the moral rape of men), all I have so far are links from a video called The Truth About Violence… I’m also going to include some personal info about myself and my work ethic to people who think I shouldn’t value money over true love, though I’m a freethinker and do in fact love the things I do. An example, I’m going to a College/Uni atm, and maintain a 96% average, and have a good chance at getting a full scholarship to Columbia U in New York. I’ve also given a lecture at this school for Ivy Leaguers on English Literary Techniques, and I’m only 20. I’m not saying that I’m especially smart though, I’m actually advocating that I have more or less a pretty mid range IQ. The reason I’m starting to climb the ladder in terms of opportunity and potential is because I skip sleep 2-3 times every week to work on assignments for extended periods of time, as well as working on other personal projects (I don’t even go to school for English Lit. right now). Though some women may sympathize with that, I have yet to meet one who can empathize with this life choice. Sacrifice for financial prosperity, social change, and total economic freedom is a very real sacrifice not many people can truly understand. Michelangelo once said, “If people knew how hard I had to work to gain my mastery, it would not seem so wonderful at all.” I don’t pretend to be a Michelangelo, certainly not at this age, but I do take this quote to heart when I’m working.

[Passenger22Participant 7]

Dude, I married at 22. I got lucky I found a woman who married me because she loved me, but women are predictably unpredictable, they’ll say they love you one day, and one day say they don’t love you anymore. They’ll say they want one thing, and as soon as you give it to them, they don’t want it anymore. Anyway, we married young and foolishly. I’m just glad I’m getting out of this marriage without having to pay for alimony and child support. I’m emotionally scathed but financially unscathed. When I hear about how bad it could be, I feel pretty damn lucky. For you, choosing not to ever marry is probably a good idea. There’s really no point in getting married unless you decided to marry to keep your spouse in the US, which is what I did. Anyway, marriage has very limited benefits like passing on your property to someone when you die, or having visitation rights when you’re in jail or the dissolution of social taboos of living together with your parents, but these are very limited benefits that you could do without.

[BiG_WeaselParticipant 116]

After being married for 12 years, and divorced now for 5, I’ve learned one thing (and something the proponents of gay marriage never understood) and that’s that marriage is nothing but a contract- the same sort you enter into with a business partner.  But, the kicker is, all the things you want your spouse to have: power of attorney in an emergency, end of life decisions, shared financial responsibility, community property, communal living space, etc call all be done at a lawyer’s office with the right paperwork.  You don’t need to go and hitch yourself to someone in a full-on marriage arrangement.  You can actually pick & choose what aspects of the marriage contract you want to include between you two, and let that be it.  Its essentially a prenup without the actual nuptials.

And, at 20, you don’t need to be considering marriage anyway.  I tell those hell-bent on it to only do it after 30, and only with someone you’ve dated for at least 5 years, and lived with for 3.  Oh, and never marry just because you have kids.

[RoyDalParticipant]

BiG_Weasel speaks wisdom. Heed his words.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BiG_WeaselParticipant 116]

RoyDal wrote:

BiG_Weasel speaks wisdom. Heed his words.

‘Bout time somebody agreed!

[Anonymous 42]

If it were legal to drive unregistered, would you register your vehicle?

If being unregistered would void the road laws, would you register?

If being unregistered meant you’re not liable for any damages, would you register?

If being unregistered meant you could drive any speed you want, would you register?

I don’t know about you, I chose unregistered, uninsured, go f~~~ yourself! Then burn rubber and speed away!

[JintaoistParticipant 4]

You have good guidance on the matter from the above comments.  I would like to take note of your work ethic. From what you have expressed you have a good insight as to what it takes to be successful in the eyes of just about anyone.  Your appreciation of finanical independence is notable for your age.  I would remind you that such an ethic is a gift and a curse. You will, if not already, become a prime target for some of the worst sort of women. The sort that will take the time to understand your needs and ideal and will morph themselves to that ideal while demanding commitment. The moment you do they can relax and return to their true selves.  Which is ususally something you are unfamiliar with.

This is done out of pure instinct on most womans part. It will seem genuine because they don’t even realize what it is they are doing.  This is the simple minded sort that lacks self awareness.

If it is in the cards for you to partner, that partner will NOT require you to prove it with a signature on a contract that is designed by society to benefit only her.  There are other ways and a REAL partner will not have an issue with that.

[Joel75Participant 14]

I was married for 10 years and I have now been divorced for almost 10 years.  After doing both I can honestly say if you get married you get what you deserve.  Marriage serves only to benefit the woman.  If you divorce and you are a man look at what you are subjected to: alimony, child support, losing half of all you ever worked for, bankruptcy, fighting to see your child(ren), having to start all over and the list goes on and on.

I am 39 years old so I don’t think I am speaking out of ignorance.  To all the young men out there please please hear me do not get married.  It is not worth it.  Unless women’s attitudes drastically change you are going done a one way road of unhappiness and mental destruction.  As my wife told me before she threw her wedding ring at me, “women are not meant to work that is what men are for.”  We are nothing more than ATM’s, walking wallets, and biggie banks.  Women look at marriage as financial contract for financial benefit.  I do know a little about this topic as I have a bachelors degree in behavioral science and took a class that addressed these issues called “Marriage and Family”.

Just look at what is going on in this country why would you want to get married?   Please think before you take that long walk down the isle of death.

[USMC0331Participant 40]

I was married for the better part of 10 years. Since we already had a child together it seemed like the logical thing to do because in the US you get certain benefits such as being able to put your spouse on your medical plan and file joint tax returns etc. My divorce was fairly easy compared to most but it really opened my eyes as to how little control you have over your own life. The paperwork spelled out in amazing detail how they could micro-manage your life even after the divorce is final. It amazed me how the courts think they can dictate virtually everything to you. If you don’t plan to have children, do not ever get married. You do not want to have to go to court to break up with someone and have some clown in a black dress tell you how much of your money you get to keep. I’m not one to tell men to stay away from women entirely, but I do tell them to be very careful and avoid the usual traps I got stuck in. If you tell a women you don’t plan to get married or have children and you will not financially support her, you will see how fast some of them disappear. Those are the ones you want to stay away from anyway.

[Jackson1888Participant 111]

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Your IQ has got to be over the Genius Level to figure this out by the age of 20. Take it from a sexless 37 year old MGTOW who has been basically sexless for the past 10 years…the sex isn’t worth a damn.

 

Being a Surrogate Father is the answer. You can go to a website like greataupair.com and find any type of women from ANYWERE in the world to be the Au Pair to raise your kids. You only have to provide room and board and pay her a salary of $200 per week. (there is absolutely no point in marriage if you have this option. Any man making over $40,000 per year can easily afford this)

Personally I am planning on getting a blonde Au Pair from Sweden between the ages of 18 and 24. (Since I won’t allow a women over 24 in my home).

 

You should tell your Ex Girlfriends you plans of hiring Au Pairs and having Surrogate Mothers for children. The reaction is priceless!

[Jackson1888Participant 111]

I used to have lot of sex with women I didn’t know. Then I realized many of the were ACTUAL prostitutes. After I’d f~~~ed 15-20 women I said this is insane, how do I not have HIV???

 

There was one women who kept a bottle of LUBE in her purse. I busted a nut in her. She wanted me to f~~~ her in the ass. Out of the blue I met her one day at the beach. That type of behavior to me is unthinkable now. That’s the type of women you get when you have sex outside a relationship. Most highly attractive women don’t need to put out sex outside the relationship. There is nothing for them to be gained.

 

So I just said to hell with it, this is bound to wind up with me getting HIV.

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