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For those of you who know me already, you know that I am actually happy being MGTOW. I am not second guessing myself at all anymore. I am fully MGTOW and will never look back. Ever.
Having said that, I still have biological desires. Yeah, these desires are less now than they used to be, but I still have them. The thing is, I have many things going against me that will definitely prevent me from ever getting laid again.
First, I no longer hold women in any kind of good light. I am not saying I despise them. What I am saying is that I can not, for the life of me, I can not take them seriously. In other words, I view them as completely insignificant creatures. Not necessarily inferior, just insignificant. Put on this earth for one reason and one reason only. To provide sexual pleasure for men.
With that attitude, there is no way I will be able to “fake it” and try and meet a woman. She will see right through me.
Also, I don’t take ANY bulls~~~ from women. The very moment she gives me one hint of drama or trouble, I will bail. I will not stick around and take any of her s~~~. No way. A doormat I am not. I do not put up with any baby s~~~. And let’s face it, they are ALL babies. If they don’t get their way, there is hell to pay. I don’t put up with that s~~~ at all.
I am about to get a new career. I am currently in training. This career will not pay a lot of money. It will allow me to live an OK life while I live at home with my parents for the rest of their lives. I have NO SHAME about this. No mortgage or rent to worry about? I f~~~ing love it. I make no apologies for it. I am blessed to have parents that allow me to live in their abode. I am 41 and have ZERO plans to ever leave. Like I said, I am going to be here in their home for the rest of their lives. What happens after that, well that’s a discussion for another day. Hopefully a long time from now.
Another thing against me is…….I am not a “modern guy.” I am still stuck in the 80s, my favorite decade. I don’t text, I don’t have an iphone, I don’t really spend much if any time on the phone, I am just not at all a technical guy. I prefer living life rather than sitting on a computer or a phone all the time. I have a Facebook but that’s about it. And I don’t really post much.
So I have way too many things against me don’t I? I have good looks, a good physique, am actually a likeable guy. But that’s about it.
My point of writing this post? To get ideas from you. To see if anyone out there has any of the same qualities that I do yet still find yourselves able to get laid.
Yes, I still have the desire to get laid. But that is where it ends. I have no interest in relations~~~s. None. Well, maybe a little bit. But not really much.
Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.
Anonymous12It does seem that unless you are willing to bow down to a woman in some way that you won’t get sex. On the bright side knowing that women are for the most part that shallow you know you can always rent one by way of a dinner and then dump her after sex.
If the object is getting laid then the only thing going against you is not having your own place to bring them to.
I was going to suggest getting in great shape, but you said your in good shape, going to bars late in order to find the occasional floozy. But if you dont have a place to bring them back to that limits your options. Unless a chick takes you back to her place but for either her or you to initiate that convo would be unlikely in results.
The only other thing I can think of – other than casual online sex which youve discussed and Ive replied- would be if your in a major city and can get a hitel room on the weekends. But that is a bad idea because you spend a bunch of money upfront with zero guarantee of results. Either that or a hooker….which is usually a bust- not legally but not the best results/experience.
Id go the online free route of finding sex or if you have some cash go to a local strip club. Find a girl who gives good grinding lapdances, is friendly and ask id she does “house calls”. Bargain her down and set arrangemts.
Your living arrangement limits you, but ya were dudes and we like sex.
Resident cynic.
nah bro , you can expect to get laid MANY more times ! don’t even try ..i bet you bang 3 or 4 chicks per year with 0 effort . just don’t knock em up ! you know the deal on that ..live and interact ..females will compete for you ..patience will amaze you ..don’t give a F~~~ ! and THEN they want to f~~~..no logic ..but that’s their nature …
Duuuuuude!(had to say it) Been dealing with the same thing as far as having zero patience with women lately. Great post.
Used to just be able to let the lesser(normal amount) of the illogical entitled behaviour roll right off . Was always more of a courteous thing than mangina thing though. And that was enough for one to fall into my lap every once in a while without having to chase it.
I have put myself out there a couple of times lately and ho lee fk. They crash themselves every time.
I believe that they do this intentionally as a way to weed out those of us that won’t “pay off”. Like the more bulls~~~ she can dish out to make you eat, the more worthy a guy is. And when you make a happy plate, you get dessert. Although some have always done this, it seems to becoming much more common in women. Maybe it’s just me, I don’t know.
Guess you and I are just sticking to our no b.s diet.
Maybe try to think of a woman like a happy meal. Eat the s~~~ty tasting burger and THEN you can play with the toy.
That’s all I got.
First, I no longer hold women in any kind of good light. I am not saying I despise them. What I am saying is that I can not, for the life of me, I can not take them seriously. In other words, I view them as completely insignificant creatures. Not necessarily inferior, just insignificant. Put on this earth for one reason and one reason only. To provide sexual pleasure for men.
With that attitude, there is no way I will be able to “fake it” and try and meet a woman. She will see right through me.
This may not work against you. If you are willing to manipulate their fears and insecurities and run other proven high-pressure sales techniques on them, then you can go the PUA route. I don’t recommend this. It is the opposite direction my moral compass is pointing me, but it is proven to work.
Another reason I do not recommend it is this: About one-third of the adults in North America have an STD. The odds are not in your favor.
Do not take them to your home, once you get one. Use a motel or something that doesn’t link directly to you, lest you PUA a stalker.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
I haven’t dated in years. I still want to date women, but a few years ago, I just felt discouraged about it. I don’t feel like putting on a song & dance routine to impress a woman. I’m tired of that. I’m tired of asking women for their phone numbers, calling them, and then trying to get them to take a break from their busy schedules for me. I’ve paid for PUA websites and these gurus really irritate me. Yes, I envy these guys, but the main reason why I’m irritated with PUA websites is: they have a whole series of complicated “tricks” for getting women’s attention and seducing them. It just seems like a silly game to me. I don’t naturally feel like playing games to win access to some woman’s body, and I don’t feel like being an asshole because I wouldn’t want anyone to act like an asshole around me. I’m the kind of guy who might end up taking a vacation in Thailand and getting some full body massages. If I lived in some kind of alternate reality where women were easy to deal with and never got pregnant, I’d feel like that was paradise. But REALITY has a way of presenting the dream of happiness to you and then splashing cold water on your head if you get too comfortable. If I go back to dating in the future, I will make it clear to the ladies that I’m not going to marry them. I just want to have fun until they meet Prince Charming.
"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)
Just pay for it then
I do some online dating and f~~~ and dump em, strap that rubber on real tight ofc. Not often but i do it. When i go long without sex i start missing my ex more and more…
Keep clam i'm dyslexic.
I don’t think about it so much. Once in a while I see a woman in the street or office building that I wouldn’t mind banging ’til kingdom come but I’m not the type to hit on women because I find them attractive, women hit on me often enough.
Your personal situation has nothing to do wether you’d get laid or not. I got laid when I was homeless, too, and not with landwhales or zombies either. Those women had everything going for them, they were just blind as to their advantages or simply wanted to – f~~~ if I know or care now.
“Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place” and sometimes those reasons aren’t what you’d expect. As far as a place, it doesn’t have to be your place.Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!Getting laid isn’t an issue when you’re older and over weight. The ones who rarely show Interest I have no desire to f~~~. Young women are non existent to me. They are another species. I have as much in common with them as I do lizards. I gave up on women when I was 47 and I’m 57 now. Sex just isn’t a part of my life unless the urge hits then it’s porn and masturbation.. I have a 43 year old attractive woman who has recently tried to start an online friendship. You should have heard her response when I told her I hadn’t been on a date in 10 years. She said, “You haven’t had sex in 10 years, why? I could never do that.” I said of course you couldn’t because it’s a fallacy that men are the true horn dogs. it’s biology. Men have 4000 nerve endings in their penis. Women have 8000 nerve endings in their clits, a g spot, clitoral and vaginal orgasms and 1 % have nipple orgasms. I said don’t get me wrong sex feels great. but all those nerve endings leads women to seek it anywhere they can get it. To prove my point, I asked her how many sexual partners she had in her lifetime, and she said “I don’t even want to go there. She told me she has a ravenous sexual appetite. Since I know myself, and how easily I fall I just won’t go there any more.. She said she was coming to town and really wanted to see me. She doesn’t mention it any more. She’s stopped talking about sex, and I assume she will stop initiating conversations in the next week or so.
As soon as I get a whif of drama I change the tenor and direction of the conversation. I drive them away by saying crazy s~~~.
I got evicted about 5 months ago and this 20 year old girl next door in my new place caught me smoking pot. She said, “oh you’re a smoker” so Am I, do you mind if a bum a bowl? I’ve let her have a few but it progressed quickly to wanting me to support her habit. I’m going to tell her I quit. She had hung around my place a lot until she got a new boyfriend which will last a month. I’ve never tried to hit on her.. 20 year old women aren’t interested in 57 year old men, they are just interested in what they can get from them.
What p~~~es me off is when you’re a guy who’s hit the wall they still don’t completely leave you alone. I don’t hang out in bars, do tinder, and who the f~~~ knows how many ways there are to hook up online today. I just don’t go there. Back in the blue pill days I’d go to Match and a Catholic dating site and some of the rudest s~~~ you could imagine was said to me on that dating site.
My problem is I fall fast and hard, and quickly move in with them to discover I was living with a psycho a few months down the line. The greatest feeling of freedom I’ve ever had was the moment I broke those off, walked out the door, never to return. Through experience I’ve learned that all roads to women lead to turmoil, and I f~~~ing hate turmoil so I keep to myself although it’s hard when you have mooches living next door. I guess the next step is to stop answering the door..I loved the eighties too, drugs, night clubs, I just didn’t understand women, and over time discovered I had no desire to cope with them in an intimate way. I have no desire to be physically intimate with another human being again. I’ll admit I do get perverse pleasure on the rare occasions the subject comes up and I let them know we won’t be having sex. It f~~~s with their heads.
Anonymous11I really don’t care if I ever get laid again or not. I’ve had enough of it for 30+ years to have sampled a nice variety of different pussies out there. Tight, loose, big clit, little clit, kinky or normal, it’s all pretty much the same. I will admit a real pussy feels better than my hand, but my hand does not go psycho and cause drama in my life.
Women all are spontaneous drama generators to a tee. CPig hates drama. It keeps him from staying focused. Men create drama too, but only some of them. I avoid them too.
As has been stated here more than once, It’s not the actual pussy, but what it’s attached to that is the problem.
At 51, I can honestly say that I don’t really care if I ever get laid again either. The drama and the narcissism you have to put up with aren’t worth it anymore. I said in another post women hit their sexual peak the same time a guy figure’s out he has a favorite chair. It really doesn’t take much of a slow down in the sex drive before you realize all the crap involved in dating a woman isn’t worth it. And I’m not just talking about sex, but all of it.
When you get together with a real friend, if they have a problem, you will stop and listen and try to help. And they will do the same for you. But I have never been with a woman that wanted to hear about any problem I’ve ever had. They always got p~~~ed when I was the topic of discussion. So, in a way I’ve been going my own way my entire life. Now I’m just doing it without carrying someone else’s bag for them. If the trade off is not getting laid, that’s a trade I’m more than willing to make.
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Also, I don’t take ANY bulls~~~ from women. The very moment she gives me one hint of drama or trouble, I will bail. I will not stick around and take any of her s~~~. No way. A doormat I am not. I do not put up with any baby s~~~. And let’s face it, they are ALL babies. If they don’t get their way, there is hell to pay. I don’t put up with that s~~~ at all.
You just mirrored my feelings…. And that’s exactly the reason why i never wanted to involve with a woman not even to fulfill my biological needs.. Its like whenever i see a woman i could sense their intentions, entitlements etc. and moreover i don’t trust them so i always have to look at them with suspicion … So like you said with that attitude i don’t think i could live with a woman for a minute let alone get married and have kids.. It would be like i have to cheat my brain everyday just to get laid which i cannot.! So MGTOW all the way!
I will admit a real pussy feels better than my hand, but my hand does not go psycho and cause drama in my life.
^^ Since i haven’t experienced the real pussy my penis doesn’t crave for it , moreover i have my hands and imaginations to calm it down,. plus i need sex when i happy, sad, emotional, tired, energetic, whatever .. so i cant’ go around begging for pussies you know … Like you said @chauvinistpig all women are drama queens with emotional roller-coasters, so i don’t think they are worth the effort…
Anonymous11@rorick: It feels much smoother and wetter versus the hand. Plus, you get a lot of cool feedback from them as long as you’re not f~~~ing a dead fish.
It’s still not worth it for the marginal improvement. I’ve found that as I moved into periods of celibacy throughout my life, I begin to not crave the pussy at all. It’s like your body shuts down after withdrawals subside . The hand wins overall IMHO due to the bulls~~~ factor that comes with women. A nut is a nut as far as I’m concerned. My hand is a hell of a lot cooler too.
Never beg for pussy. That’s one thing that will guarantee failure plus it puffs up their over inflated egos.
Don’t worry about it, because nobody is having sex these days.
Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.
Great post, bro. I can barely go to the grocery store without women trying to start conversation with me. I have no phone, I drive a s~~~ty car, my hair is long, my beard full; I wear cargo pants/shorts, camouflage, boat shoes, and I never had a problem getting laid. Finding true companionship and intimacy, though, has always been a real struggle.
I see high SMV girls and I feel nothing. I know there is a better looking woman only a click away with pornography that will do the nastiest things I want with a smile on her face. Why would I ever deal with a pretty woman again; been there, done that for 11 years – a nightmare. I see a man with a pretty woman and I feel sorry for him – hell awaits him.
I am a minimalist, a monk, a spartan. The less stuff I have, the better I feel; women happened to be one of the “stuffs” that got eliminated soon after I hit 30 and realized how stupid I was.
Women in general have lost all mystery for me. I used to use internet porn a lot, and that too has really tapered off. The more I learn, the less I want, and that is sad but true. I am no longer angry for being lied to my whole life. I find happiness in other things like my friends & family, my dogs and adventure, and cooking.
Women no longer make me happy. So be it.
Sorry I wasn’t much more help. One day, maybe soon, I will go to Vegas and get my fill of female touch, rented by the hour. But it is looking less and less appealing.
BVC
Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.
Finding true companionship and intimacy, though, has always been a real struggle.
I see high SMV girls and I feel nothing. I know there is a better looking woman only a click away with pornography that will do the nastiest things I want with a smile on her face. Why would I ever deal with a pretty woman again; been there, done that for 11 years – a nightmare. I see a man with a pretty woman and I feel sorry for him – hell awaits him.
I am a minimalist, a monk, a spartan. The less stuff I have, the better I feel; women happened to be one of the “stuffs” that got eliminated soon after I hit 30 and realized how stupid I was.Snake I could not agree with you more.
Almost 10 years with a good looking women is pure hell once the “switch” flicks and they decide that the relationship is done. Then it is time to batten down the hatches. Plus every other dude is trying to mow your lawn and they sure as hell love to take advantage of that. I can safely say that you can forget about emotional closeness from the weeman’s. It’s all an act to get you to surrender your resources ( physical, financial, statues etc) – it won’t last. For emotional closeness/ reliability I prefer a dog or a good buddy.When you don’t give a s~~~ I find that women just throw themselves at me. Not top shelf, but solid 7s or 8s. If I want 8+, like you stated – it is only a click away. I have the same organism and I don’t need to put in the extra effort.
I have always been a minimalist – I make good money but live off of 10-20% of my earnings. I drive the cheapest, most reliable vehicle I can and my wardrobe is t-shirt and cargo pants. I invest the rest in property, well balanced portfolio – but truth to tell its simply for the challenge of making it grow – I need very little for the day to day. It’s refreshing to see like minded individuals are about.
- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein
Finding true companionship and intimacy, though, has always been a real struggle.
A-f~~~ing-men. And that’s the f~~~ed up irony of it all.
All these women that talk about wanting that special someone to settle down with are either completely incapable of figuring out how to successfully find that relationship, or are lying to themselves. They sabotage themselves at every opportunity by showing that it’s about them fulfilling a fantasy scenario, not about making a genuine emotional connection with a man.
That’s why we point out that all the “good men” either are already MGTOW or are moving that direction.
The reality is that they are not worthy of us.
The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.
Anonymous11They sabotage themselves at every opportunity by showing that it’s about them fulfilling a fantasy scenario, not about making a genuine emotional connection with a man.
So true Chaos, I recently had an ex tell me that I was the only one she’s ever dated where she actually had a real normal relationship. She prefers to take on abusive bad boy drug abuser fix up projects. A real life example of female fantasy winning out over a genuine emotional connection with a man.
I was somewhat amused by how her logic was being overwhelmed by her hamster spinning the fantasy of her current majorly dysfunctional relationship. She told me she likes to save people. I told her in response that I just throw them overboard so they don’t destroy me in the process. This woman is in her late 40s and still does not get it.
You’re right they are not worthy of us. The only reason I keep her around is that we do have an actual reciprocal friendship. She’s going to help me out with something I’ll be doing with my car next week where her sewing and crafts expertise will come in handy for this project.
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