why does he keep doing this?

[singledad984Participant 201]

Just something been on my mind lately!! I have a guy I work with who just got married for the 3rd time!! Great guy and only 35! His first wife took him to the cleaners got the house their daughter and put him in un imaginable amount of debt!! Hasn’t seen his daughter in almost 10 years and pays $1400 a month in child support! After that divorce he meets a girl and gets married to her rather quick it last a year and they get divorced! Luckily he had no kids with her!! Now about 6 months ago he meets another girl and just married her!!! Do some people just not learn or can they just not be alone? My dad is on his 3rd marriage!! And he is miserable and it seems that he rather be miserable than be alone!!! Why do guys do this s~~~!

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

singledad984 wrote:

Why do guys do this s~~~!

Many reasons:

– They are dumb asses and think “all women aren’t like that.”
– Are s~~~ scarred to be alone
– Make decisions based on sex. Cannot decipher sex does not equal love.
– Making these dumb ass plans and commitments during the honeymoon phase.

…I’m sure the guys can add onto this!

[Anonymous 3]

They aren’t actually miserable, they get off on the drama. For all intents and purposes they are women themselves. That’s probably another reason no relationship with a woman lasts long for them, two pussies will always fight each other, only one can exist at a time.

You can’t help these people, and don’t give them any sympathy either. Don’t get mad for them, you need to learn to not get involved at all.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Do some people just not learn or can they just not be alone?

The bolded was going to be my response before I even got to where you said it. Im sure we all know guys/girls like this. I knew a retired heart surgeon. We used to chat over cofee at starbucks. He didnt seem to be the “madly in love” with his wife type. He told me one time he was on a cruise with his wife and daughter. His daughter caught him red handed banging some random broad on the cruise. She told his wife.

The wife, after obviously being really p~~~ed off for a long time, ended up staying with him. He told me if he ever got dovorced hed end up getting married again in a week. I asked why, his words verF~~~INGbatim

I just like KNOWING someones there

Resident cynic.

[EskimospyParticipant 841]

There are three basic methods of learning.
1. Easy
2.Hard
3. Never
And no matter what it is in regards to learning we always pick one of those three.

[No CountryParticipant 759]

I just dont understand why this guy is doing it to himself again. Did he not learn after the first time? He needs to stop making the same mistakes.

[WallyParticipant]

Went and watched the new James Bond movie with three friends tonight and they showed a commercial of a guy keeping the gum wrappers of his high school sweetheart and using them to ask her to marry her. My buddy looked at me and said blue pill, the other two friends, a married couple look at me and said you will change your mind when you meet the woman you fall in love with and told my buddy who is older, in your next life. We are fed a bucket of s~~~ like this all our lives and brainwashed that love is the end all be all and some guys keep trying and think the next one will be a NAWALT.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Old habits die hard, I’m afraid.

[RoyDalParticipant]

This behavior is widespread. Exceptions are rare. I have come to believe it is built in to men. After all, those men who withheld their genes by not reproducing did not pass on the genetic components of their behavioral. Those men who were compelled to seek out female companionship did pass on this trait. Now, the world is full of men who chase women and the exceptions are rare.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

He’s perfect for them and I thank him.

While they’re chewing on this idiot, I can silently slip past and go about my life.

As RD just said, the bait box seems full of them.

Boads well for mgtow.

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