Why do women perfer assholes/bad boys

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

Ever since I gone my own way, my attitude has changed. Not many people like it, but that’s the point of going your own way. You do it for yourself, not anybody else. Your happiness not theirs.

Lately a lot of women have been trying to get my attention. Its gotten to the point I told them to leave me alone and don’t talk to me. But they still attempt to. Unless I tell them to f~~~ off (Told two already) then I am left alone. But it seems more and more are noticing me. And I could care less.

One question though that has always peaked my curiosity though. Why do they notice the assholes/badboys? When I was super nice guy I got s~~~. I know this isn’t what MGTOW isn’t about, but its more so to keep them away from me. I guess I am doing something wrong here and should probably do the opposite. Tell them I love them and they shall disappear. Ever since this attitude change (not taking anymore s~~~ from anyone kinda thing) they been trying to start conversations, been getting a lot of hi’s, and a lot of staring. Interesting fact though, any sort of feelings I had for them, they are dead. And I doubt those feelings will ever come back. I will still respect women if need be but I will not associate myself with any of them anymore.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Kaido wrote:

Why do they notice the assholes/badboys?

it’s in their DNA to mate with dangerous badboy manginas that will risk their life to protect and provide for her.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

it’s in their DNA to mate with dangerous badboy manginas that will risk their life to protect and provide for her.

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F~~~ THAT! She can take care of herself

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

One word DRAMA!
A simp doesn’t overreact if they react at all. No tears, no screaming in the phone, no stalking their email. Manginas are boring to woman.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

Turd flinging monkey did a couple of really great videos on this. If you boil it all down to its simplest see to women hypergamy is something they don’t even realize they’re doing. They are always going to look for the best deal for them no matter who they have to hurt. Their biological drives tells them that the bad boy is the alpha male and that is the one they should breed with. I think it really comes down to just hormones and biology. This would explain why women’s greatest fantasy is rape. Of course Stardusk did a great video on this as well hybristophilia women’s attraction to violence. I know I was very confused myself for a very long time until I went mgtow learned about female nature not just what they do to us yeah it’s a biological urge I don’t think they can control it. Then again I used to think women were nice

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Anonymous 18]

Contrary to popular belief of many beta men most guys out there are not alpha/Chad/douche/assholes.

Beta men take refuge in feeling special and they do that by projecting some false image that most guys out there are assholes. Him being nice is his own twisted way of security.

Attraction is a primal rule of jungle. Women are more emotional and primal than men.

Hence, attraction to the asshole is two fold-
1) the instinctual appeal of a guy who is happy in his own skin and consumed by his own passion. Most assholes/bad boys don’t salivate over a vagina as nice/sweet men do.
2) 90% of nice/sweet men make it a boring conquest for women; the 10% assholes are unique. These men are also more apt with providing thrill/drama that single women seek. In latter years these women rely on soap operas to compensate for that need.

Simple theory. A many dozen other factors are also in play.

[Anonymous 18]

FrostByte wrote:

A simp doesn’t overreact if they react at all. No tears, no screaming in the phone, no stalking their email. Manginas are boring to woman.

I think its the other way around. It’s the simps that show emotions more often than not and kill the anxiety/uncertainty in a female. Alphas do indifference. Lack of emotion is what is appealing. Most men do not show emotions because that is weeded out to be an attractive trait.

By drama it is my belief that the woman needs to have reasons for herself to throw tantrums, express extreme emotions. She wants to be the source of the male attention. Bad boys give her those reasons in abundance. She doesn’t want to pay attention to a man being emotional. That is not imperative to her benefit.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

TattooDave wrote:

Turd flinging monkey did a couple of really great videos on this. If you boil it all down to its simplest see to women hypergamy is something they don’t even realize they’re doing. They are always going to look for the best deal for them no matter who they have to hurt. Their biological drives tells them that the bad boy is the alpha male and that is the one they should breed with. I think it really comes down to just hormones and biology. This would explain why women’s greatest fantasy is rape. Of course Stardusk did a great video on this as well hybristophilia women’s attraction to violence. I know I was very confused myself for a very long time until I went mgtow learned about female nature not just what they do to us yeah it’s a biological urge I don’t think they can control it. Then again I used to think women were nice

I have that belief myself that Women aren’t in control of themselves. They are a spiral of insanity to whatever controls them (their mind, hormones, whatever) They could be nice one minute and bitchy the next. This is what turns me off about them. And yet they still think they are the smart ones. Pfft please.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

Anonymous wrote:

Contrary to popular belief of many beta men most guys out there are not alpha/Chad/douche/assholes.

Beta men take refuge in feeling special and they do that by projecting some false image that most guys out there are assholes. Him being nice is his own twisted way of security.

Attraction is a primal rule of jungle. Women are more emotional and primal than men.

Hence, attraction to the asshole is two fold-
1) the instinctual appeal of a guy who is happy in his own skin and consumed by his own passion. Most assholes/bad boys don’t salivate over a vagina as nice/sweet men do.
2) 90% of nice/sweet men make it a boring conquest for women; the 10% assholes are unique. These men are also more apt with providing thrill/drama that single women seek. In latter years these women rely on soap operas to compensate for that need.

Simple theory. A many dozen other factors are also in play.

I have my own goals in life and I made a commitment to myself that I wouldn’t be influenced by any women anymore. I just find it funny that the hunter (me) is now the hunted. Which turns me off even more from them.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

FrostByte wrote:

One word DRAMA!
A simp doesn’t overreact if they react at all. No tears, no screaming in the phone, no stalking their email. Manginas are boring to woman.

All of the reasons above actually apply, but this one is huge, they know a brainless meathead who’s response to everything in life is a blind rage, is a never ending pool of drama. They know if they try to make him jealous, his reaction will go into “protect your turf” mode, just what they want, a mans entire life wrapped around their finger. This is why hollywood keeps making the same movie over and over … female gets kidnapped, bad boy goes on a merciless killing spree to get her back.

Women know that a civilized man with a thick wallet, is eventually going to say “f~~~ it then i’m out, do whatever you’re going to do” but the bad boy meathead will fulfill her every need for a negative response, every single time.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Anonymous wrote:

Contrary to popular belief of many beta men most guys out there are not alpha/Chad/douche/assholes.

Beta men take refuge in feeling special and they do that by projecting some false image that most guys out there are assholes. Him being nice is his own twisted way of security.

Attraction is a primal rule of jungle. Women are more emotional and primal than men.

Hence, attraction to the asshole is two fold-
1) the instinctual appeal of a guy who is happy in his own skin and consumed by his own passion. Most assholes/bad boys don’t salivate over a vagina as nice/sweet men do.
2) 90% of nice/sweet men make it a boring conquest for women; the 10% assholes are unique. These men are also more apt with providing thrill/drama that single women seek. In latter years these women rely on soap operas to compensate for that need.

Simple theory. A many dozen other factors are also in play.

Very true. The notion of badboy attracting women is not entirely correct. Growing up, I was in that life. Baddest mother f~~~er I knew who was a true sociopath, did a stint in San Quentin, and eventually died young never had luck with women. But, then, he was more concerned with making money and fighting his inner demons. It’s not criminality, it’s the attitude of not giving a f~~~. You can find people in all walks of life with that attitude…pilots, commandos, lawyers, doctors, CEOs, thrill seekers, etc. Women want what they can’t have. They respect indifference because they wonder why the guy doesn’t give a s~~~ whether she likes him or not.

God bless peace and freedom.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Fact that females are amoral creatures, which prefer male psychopaths to the hard working Men that build and maintain society, is a hard pill to swallow.

It goes directly against social programming of worker drones. But give her an option and she will f~~~ the psycho and get beta drone to raise the kid. In France DNA tests are forbidden by law to “preserve peace in society.”

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[joetechParticipant]

It’s simple. They’re going to ‘change’ you with their love. Your attitude says that whatever you do for a living gives you a nice fat one. Yeah, your wallet. Get the picture?

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 43]

because women are assholes, and birds of a feather f~~~ together.

[experiencedParticipant]

TattooDave wrote:

This would explain why women’s greatest fantasy is rape.

This fact coupled with their always mentally lazily assuming that men think the same way as them, leads them to believe that men’s greatest fantasy is rape, which is total BS.

Freeman_K wrote:

It goes directly against social programming of worker drones.

This!
Stripped of programming and functioning at the absolute clean slate “get to the bottom of things” point, consistently proves that laydeez do the pursuing.

joetech wrote:

It’s simple. They’re going to ‘change’ you with their love.

Most laydeez keep grabbing for the next, in their opinion, higher guy.
If they grab too high they will be rejected, so they grab slightly lower and toss in the “I will improve him” clause. Unfortunately for them, they have removed most guys’ motivation for improvement. Eg. “I’ll become a soldier and kill the enemy and return home to find the house stripped and the kids kidnapped by her” who is the enemy? Or, “I’ll work until ill and them some, to provide for her and ours”, only to have divorce court say,”This is the standard of living to which the bitch has become accustomed to.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[KimmurielParticipant 480]

Like attracts like.

"You meet a few exceedingly forsaken, Sit around the cooler refusing domestication" Aesop Rock

[TuneoutParticipant]

Kaido wrote:

Unless I tell them to f~~~ off

LOL that probably made them wet!

I think if a guy is a combo of Alpha/Simp this is what attracts them the most,a pussy addicted meathead that will do her bidding but still be protective of her.

A lot of these guys will eventually be turned into Beta Providers,so she then goes looking for a new Alpha/Simp

Tic wrote:

It’s not criminality,

Some chicks though seem to have this weird fetish for
thugs and complete psychos.I used to go to this one peeler bar when I was younger that was owned by the Hells Angels,they always had good looking chicks around them. Then there are the serial killers like Ted Bundy women find attractive or organized crime leaders such as John Gotti,so I think it goes back to what one poster said about liking danger and the unexpected that Mr Minivan in the suburbs could never give them.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[perpedes66Participant 259]

@kaido

I have my own goals in life and I made a commitment to myself that I wouldn’t be influenced by any women anymore. I just find it funny that the hunter (me) is now the hunted. Which turns me off even more from them.

….same with me..Sometimes I have the feeling to be in the tropics, surrounded by a horde of mosquitoes. Total exhausting. Strange somehow I do not like to be hit on by women esp. drunken ones.

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Dumb f~~~ women ONLY want what they cannot have…F~~~ing retarded…

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[SingleTaxParticipant 2]

There are multiple reasons.

One is that they’re virtually programmed to prefer bad boys (read: 13 year-old punks in grown men’s bodies) by pop culture media.

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