Prior post (for background) at: /forums/topic/i-love-slutty-women/#post-292902
Ah, yes, I do have to thank feminism for letting women release their inner slut, even infecting the older ones.
When I was younger, women wouldn’t jump into bed with you without months of dating, spending a ton of money on her, etc. Now? I’ve managed to pique the interest of a much younger and very attractive woman (I’m nearly 60, she’s early 40’s post-wall but looks upper 20’s), teased her and wouldn’t tell her my age, took her out a couple times. When I didn’t make any physical approaches she quickly got very flirtatious, touching me, dropping sexy innuendoes, “accidental” boob-brushes on my arm, her arm around me when we walk, big hug with boob-press and lingering kiss on the cheek when we parted, etc. LOTS of talk, but I didn’t try to kiss her or grope her, and she even checked to be sure that the hug and kiss didn’t make me uncomfortable since we had just started going out – – explaining that she “really just wanted to hug and kiss me.”
Third date is coming up, and it’s beyond obvious that she’s sticking with the women’s hive-mind modern standard practice of “third date = sex.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i7C72rO7qwQ She’s going to drag me into her apartment, since I’ve intrigued her and teased her into a wet-panty frenzy. Of course, I’m going to continue the slow-burn tease then, too, until she begs me to bang her brains out. When it finally happens, she’ll orgasm like an atomic bomb. Been there, done it before with other women.
Total expenditure (mostly for things that I was going to do anyway)? Less than $100, and she’ll be at least six months to a year of steady sex with little expense before she starts the “where is this going?”/”I want to be exclusive” crap, and if she doesn’t stop, then I’ll transition her out or hit her with the “Let’s Just Be Friends” grenade.
The only good thing accomplished by women’s liberation is their willingness to hit the sheets with a minimum of expense and virtually no commitment. Let that inner slut have her way, ladies!
Update:
As I expected, she went off like a nuclear blast, multiple times. I’ve taken her out a couple times since, and been to her apartment – – yep, the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy sits proudly on the bookshelf. She likes her hair pulled, hands held down, her ass slapped, boobs crushed and nipples pinched, her face pushed into the pillows while she’s being pounded down into the bed from behind. I’ve been careful to avoid bruising her body, and I won’t do any choking or facial slapping. I’ve already threatened to chain her to the bed and pound her anally (and as I warned: “There is no safe word.”) – – just that suggestion made her orgasm, and hard.
My eyes have certainly been opened to the true nature of today’s Modern Strong Independent Woman (MSIW) who wants the illusion of danger without the actual risk of any danger. To be thrown on a bed and have their body used like the physical animals they are, not like a too-precious-to-touch Disney princess.
Einherjar’s comment is exactly on point: they want the dominant man, not the “we’re-all-equal-we-just-have-different-genitals” namby-pamby guy who asks permission before everything he does. When she made some comment that made me sound like a fawning boyfriend, I told her to get on her knees and suck my c~~~. Would a MSIW allow any man to dare say such a thing to her? Needless to mention, she complied instantly. Bitch, you aren’t my equal, don’t pretend to be.
Hitman’s right: These women are naturally submissive. They want to be controlled, they appreciate a firm hand in or out of bed. They usually don’t want to plan the date, pick the restaurant, choose the movie, to decide what to do in bed. They understand the difference between a firm hand and an abusive one.
Narwhal makes a good point about their rape fantasies…they want to be so desired that the man behaves like an animal, not worrying about her needs, and just pounds the hell out of her for his own enjoyment. They enjoy that power to entice, excite, please and satisfy their man.
Miawmiaw: Calm down, they still sometimes like the soft and gentle stuff, too…but other times they want it more animalistic and immediate. Variety is the spice of life, amigo. You can still draw your lines wherever you want…as I said,
choking or too-rough play for this old guy. It just doesn’t seem safe in the current legal environment.
It’s funny, because I make a lot more money than her, but she wanted to order dinner (delivered) and to pay for it. Why argue? I accepted it graciously.
All that said, I’m being careful to document her active desire to participate in somewhat-rough play, and her enthusiastic responses afterwards…just in case…
LightBringer 3 years, 4 months ago.
