Why do Women Leave Men?

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Why do women leave men?

Probably a lot of us have had women leave us. And it is damned annoying.
(After all, it is better if we dump their sorry butts first.)

But why do women leave? A lot has been written on this subject. It often comes down to attraction. A woman will leave us because she is not attracted to us.
And the take home message is this- women are not attracted to weak men.
This is one of those situations where nice guys are slaughtered. A women knows when she has control over a man.
And she considers the controlled and manipulated man to be weak.

Before I became Mgtow, I cared about what women wanted. I would do anything to keep them from leaving. I was a complete wuss.
Now I loathe the beasts and don’t give a damn about what they want. Something interesting happened. Ever since I became Mgtow, women consider me differently.

An old high school girlfriend called me. She was homecoming queen in high school and quite becoming. She worked for Victoria Secrets after high school.
I was one of her “orbiters”- someone she kept around for attention and validation. She wouldn’t give me the time of day.

When I saw her recently, she was still pretty, but also manipulative and controlling. I didn’t put up with any of her shenanigans. When she saw I wasn’t interested, she started sexting me and wanted to hook up.
I refused and when I wouldn’t fly her down to Florida, she left unexpected.
I was a little p~~~ed initially, but got over it quickly.

Before I was Mgtow, this bitch could have destroyed my life.

Don’t ever be a “nice guy” and try to please a psycho bitch. You’ll be considered to be weak and you’ll be abused. (And maybe abandoned too)

Simply ignore the silly bitch.
(Don’t you just love gold-digging wenches?)

[FreeGhostSpectator 318]

There are a multitude of possible reasons. A woman may leave the most alpha man in her late 20’s/early 30’s because she wants a beta male slave/nurturer who will put her and the child first and only. She will also leave a beta male because of lack of sexual attraction and the reasons you mentioned. She may also leave because she believes she has better options (often times worse options long term). She may leave you because she was entirely after the benjamins. I’ve found the most successful way of keeping a woman long term(ish) is to be both alpha and beta at different times. Listen to her banter one day and then don’t respond to it at all the next few days. In the end it is lose/lose because when she wants to settle down and have kids, she will want a beta male slave to cater to her endless and unrealistic desires.

[RennieParticipant]

I can think of some.

Can’t control him.
Doesn’t like being subservient – a sign of a bad attitude.
Getting bored and wanting something new.
A new guy comes along who is more wealthy, or has more power than the previous guy, or has caused a loss of confidence in previous guy – see Tommorow Never Dies.

[DDJParticipant 1880]

Hypergamy…pure and simple. Women also don’t consider consequences the same way men do…which is why you see regret as a constant theme for them. Don’t believe me…read a romance novel…the stupidity is insane.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

This answer will probably kick you in the teeth…. but I was grateful for it, and maybe you will be too.

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Why they leave one man to f~~~ another is a different dynamic. this ^^ has mostly to do with “relationships” and not true attraction mechanisms.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[OldBillParticipant]

DDJ wrote:

Hypergamy…pure and simple.

This. All the other explanations are just window dressing.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

All manner of reasons, but the number one reason is that they don’t need men in the way that they did throughout history is due to big governments creating a huge safety net for every concievable f~~~ up a woman can do.

The second reason is that they have a whole lineup of thirsty betas and Chad Thudnerc~~~s ready to step in. Of course this all goes pear shaped for post wall women, but by then their ego’s are far too out of whack with reality to grasp this and their hampster wheel just keeps on spinning.

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

The reason women leave men, predominantly, is that they see a “better” offer. The “better-ness” is entirely relative, as most of these women have no idea what they’re doing in the first place. She may pursue some guy that is actually far worse, but in her mind, he’s better. This is pretty much why you see so many women chasing bad boys.

So many women want to conquer the alpha, but by definition, once you conquer him, he’s no longer alpha, so they go look for another one. What usually happens, is the guy knocks her up, leaves her because he’s having pussy thrown in his face left and right. He has no time for a baby when he’s pounding it like chocolate bar at a feminists convention.

So they go look for some stupid save-a-ho. The intelligent betas don’t want any part of their used up skanky ass. The stupid ones are in for a lifetime of misery, however, that’s historically been the case for the less intelligent as a general trend.

Since she has alpha flash backs and withdraws in addition to looking for a better beta to take care of her illegitimate bastard, you’re just a rung on the ladder. Who cares why they leave? It’s usually not even worth understanding as they’re morons.

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

I would also like to point out, out of all the relationships I’ve been in (which were all serious save the present one, as a I don’t f~~~ around) … 4 of them spanning ~2+ years have all been ended by me except one.

They were either crazy, manipulative, constantly bitched or any combination of those. The only girl I was “dumped” by was a 20 year old, who 5 years later, apologized for being “such a bitch” and proceeds to suck my dick to this day.

You can’t care why they leave. It’s a fruitless endeavor, just do your own thing.

[prmai49Participant 52]

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Exsliventxs wrote:

The reason women leave men, predominantly, is that they see a “better” offer. The “better-ness” is entirely relative, as most of these women have no idea what they’re doing in the first place.

^^^This, plus the fact the excitement of a new sex partner and adventure is a massive reason to. Hypergamy as well, but once that newness honeymoon period wears off with the new guy they are f~~~ed. I cannot tell you how many exes have called me after 6 months to lately 19 years later to “reach out.”

[KeymasterKeymaster]

The guy’s video (above) is very good and he’s right about women not having to accept your boundaries. So she tells you to f~~~ off and gets herself another who will put up with her s~~~. I have seen this so many times.

But here;s the GOOD part of that:

1. YOU don’t end up with that f~~~ing mess.
2. SHE make scertain she ends up with a man she resents, disrespects and despises.

That’s how YOU get to “lol” about it…. and she ends up writing to Oprah about how she is “happily married dreaming of divorce“ for 16 years and she only has herself to blame.

Yeah OK so I got temporary sex and had self-respect enough to not put up with her s~~~. So she f~~~ed someone else after I set boundaries and she didn’t think she had to adhere to them. But HE gets the sloppy, aging seconds who hates the s~~~ out of him. She cultivated this herself. It’s true she doesn’t have put up with your boundaries…. and she will ENJOY loading up her Tinder account right in front of you …….. to get any thirsty sucker to come running.

That’s the hidden blessing.
She ends up with a thirsty sucker because that’s what she preferred.

When a relationship *not working* is actually benefitial to you, it’s not a bad thing when she runs off with someone else. The modern female is actually doing every man she leaves – A FAVOR. Thank your personal god you never married her.

Guys are starting to get hip to this. Women behave like they got it made and have an endless supply of options who will tolerate anything. But they only f~~~ themselves in the end. Let them. Let them go out there pick themselves one thirsty sucker at a time. Thats what she wants. That’s what she gets.

Bed. Made. Lie.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RoyDalParticipant]

@keymaster, excellent video!

Here is what I learned from my blue pill days and watching what was going on around me.

*If she dumps him, that is a good thing for him in the long run.
*If he dumps her, she keeps coming back to haunt him like the ghost at the feast.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[revistaParticipant 232]

Women are parasites,if your not spending money on them or doing what they want to do.they will find someone who will..they line them up before the relationship as ended.

[rorickParticipant 682]

I think they leave men cause they are attention seeking creatures, they always love to renew it every then and now. Once she feel she’s loosing the attention from her boyfriend/husband she’d just find another guy who’d give her the attention rather than doing things that would gain her boyfriend/husbands attention. And since there are many manginas/pussy worshipers who are ready to do that, its a win situation for women always.

Unfortunately this applies only to women cause if a guy says that his girlfriend is not giving him the attention then the society would ask him to earn her attention. But a woman wouldn’t do that rather she’d find a new guy in a snap.

[Anonymous 11]

I agree with everything posted here.

I look at it this way. Imagine that you’re in a candy store. All of the candy is free to you. In fact, it even pays you to sample it, and the various pieces of candy fall all over themselves trying to get your attention so they can be eaten by you. How would you behave?

That is my analogy to explain this phenomena. Men allow this to happen. They happily give women these powers by being addicted to and controlled by vagina.

MGTOW takes this power away from them which is why it’s so damn effective and reviled.

[Anonymous 42]

Why do Women Leave Men? Hmmmm, to get another man….
Why do Men Leave Women? That’s simple! We leave for good!

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

I don’t think people were meant to live in exclusive relationships at all. This whole s~~~ that comes out of relationships, not only talking about hypergamy but all things bad; the nagging, control issues, pretty much anything, it is just natural reactions to being placed in an unnatural situation.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Women want more….of everything.
More shoes, more jewelry, more clothes, more vacations, bigger house, fancier car, more pets, more children, more, more more…
She’s too lazy(entitled) to earn these things herself, so she enters a relationship/marriage.
Every man has a finite limit to what he can provide, so when she reaches this limit, she leaves.

[DrAK74Participant 77]

I think one of the reasons women leave men is when they realize the jig is up……and the man refuses to take it any more. In my situation it went something like this. I am a high upper middle class earner. My ex is an accountant so I let her take care of the bills (seemed like a good fit at the time). Slowly but surely, we started to run out of money despite the fact that I never use my credit cards and pay for everything in cash. I am not an extravagant spender, and neither is she (or so I thought). She wasn’t a clothes horse or online spender, so I scratched my head wondering where all the money was going. The last straw came when she told me I couldn’t spend any more money with 4 days left until payday……..I had had a bonus check that pay period, so I was sure that there was money in the bank. I started my own investigation and discovered to my horror that she was paying the minimums on all of our bills and digging a hole for us that we couldn’t escape. When I demanded that she open the books so I could examine them, she tried to block me with tears and insults, but eventually relented. The jig was up and I took over the bills and paid them down. I then told her that I was leaving because I couldn’t trust her any more. It turns out that she was giving money to all of her single lesbo friends who all had hard luck stories……had I been in on that conversation I would have forbidden her to do so, she knew it and did it behind my back. Once the jig was up, I had outlived my usefulness, and she knew she was headed for a big payday once the divorce was final. Just last week she said to me “I thought we (I) had another six months until we ended up in counseling” She must have been setting me up for years, knowing full well that she would eventually be discovered and I would react in this way. Well, them’s the brakes, and I learned a hard lesson, but I look forward to a bright future of me striving to reach my full potential and reaping the rewards of my hard work. Let this be a lesson to the young me out there….women are not trustworthy and most importantly NOT WORTH YOUR TRUST!

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