Why do they always want to live with you?

[hadenough1969Participant 539]

It seems like there are very few women out there who are content to live in their own homes and have their own lives and get together for a weekend or 2 a month to have dinner, hit a movie or just get their needs met.

The vast majority seem hell bent on at least living together. I have no interest in living with anyone full time ever again.

They all say, “I don’t want to live alone for the rest of my life.” I guess that is because no matter how PC or independent they are, deep down they realize there are a lot of things they do actually HAVE to have a man around to do.

Not so the man…what we need them for can be had with no co-habitation required.

[Anonymous 43]

proximity = ownership.

[Anonymous 2]

They slowly move in give you great sex, then change your world. No more hobbies, buddies over, peace and quiet, stupid little knock knacks around. F~~~ing towels you can’t use and soap for decoration. Just like parasites suck you dry (not the good way) and move on the the next sucker. F~~~ that.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Its about power and control. When you are out of sight they don’t know what you are doing and they have no control over your actions. When your “keeper” lives with you they have a great deal more power. Boot them to the curb!

[Anonymous 7]

Who else is gonna clean the house, maintain the yard and vehicles?

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Because they want someone else to support them and pay for their lifestyle.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 6]

Slowly taking over everything about you. They leave shirts over at your place. They leave panties around. They leave shampoo and bodywash at your place. And they leave it places where only another woman would look. Women do s~~~ like buy you a slow cooker, so if another woman comes around, she knows a woman bought that, because most men wouldn’t have that.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Just like parasites suck you dry (not the good way) and move on the the next sucker. F~~~ that.

And a never ending supply of simps for them to feed on.

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[TaxGuyParticipant]

1. Since you can already afford the payment, she can live there rent free, right? After all, don’t you enjoy vaginal access and her pleasant company?
2. Money saved on her rent = more shoes, make-up, candles, etc. Oh, you didn’t think was going to save any did you? HAHAHAHAHA
3. Control, as mentioned before.
4. S~~~ test. Prove your love to her.
5. Scores major points over her friends if she can get you to move her in before her friend’s boyfriend let’s the friend move in. Never underestimate the pettiness and competitiveness of a woman against each other.
6. Because she f~~~ing hates you and can better torture you. OK, maybe not…………yet.

Order the good wine

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

“Why do they always want to live with you?”

hadenough1969 wrote:

They all say, “I don’t want to live alone for the rest of my life.” I guess that is because no matter how PC or independent they are, deep down they realize there are a lot of things they do actually HAVE to have a man around to do.
Not so the man…what we need them for can be had with no co-habitation required.

YES THEY DO,…….AMEN

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[Anonymous 43]

your closet is bigger.
your fridge is full.
your car is well maintained.
your home is clean and uncluttered.
your shower drain isn’t clogged
your tv is better
you pay your bills.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Where does the slavemaster live?

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[ghostParticipant]

It is not her fault. She is biologically wired this way. You will most likely not be biologically attracted to the woman who will not be dependent on you in any way.

You cannot have it both ways. The laws of nature are what they are.

MGTOW is not an easy thing to do. You are not alone.

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

Tax Guys post nailed it 100% for me. Be suspicious if they are desperate to move in for the above reasons. Also be suspicious if she insists on living separately from you, she’s hiding problems or other men most probably.

Amazing sex and perfect partner, she even goes halves at restaurants. Move the unicorn in and she was just a donkey with a fake horn. Sex, nope. Money, hers is hers and she wants your cash because living in a house for free is expensive somehow. You maintain the house and adjust it to suit her bitching and moaning. You’d think she would be over the moon with everything you do and buy for her, but she expects it and even moans about things. They are c~~~s.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[hadenough1969Participant 539]

It is amazing to me how what is being reported on here always proves out….given enough time. It seems like no matter how NAWALT and sincere they start out to be, eventually their true nature starts to come out. I am starting to think they can’t even help it.

My last one started out paying 50% of everything. Then she suddenly lost her largest account and couldn’t afford to help anymore. I started covering everything, even paying 100% of the plane tickets for her to come visit. Months go by and she talks almost every day about getting another account, but never does. Then she starts talking about the house we are going to have together when we live together down the road. I’m thinking “I don’t want to live with anyone, I never said I wanted to live with you, and I can’t think of any reason I would want to”. When she comes to visit she starts cleaning the house, doing the laundry and trying to provide some value so I will quote, “get addicted to her”. I can’t help but think that by speaking these very words she is saying that this behavior is only until I am “hooked” and then they will stop. Past experience has shown that “other” behaviors will replace them.

You cannot have it both ways. The laws of nature are what they are.

This is one of the most profound statements I have read on this site.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Because they want to control you and save on their own expenditure. I thought it would be obvious…

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Moving in together is like a mini marriage to them. It makes it harder for you to get rid of them before they’re ready to get rid of you, and it makes it easier for them to extract more of your resources.

Once upon a time more woman would have just played the long game and shot for marriage…but now that living together is like a mini marriage its like the best of both worlds…they get the hooks into you deeper than just dating and spending an occasional weekend together, yet, its easy for them to hop back on the carousel or monkey branch when they desire.

I literally had one girl I used to date that started pushing living together after the first time I spent a night at her place. I don’t think I even knew her for a month at that point…it was just creepy. She was making twice what I was at the time and could comfortably afford her own place…but it was just like she had to immediately establish herself in that position of control.

[Anonymous 38]

And they will expect free or reduced rent. If you are gonna move them in charge them market rate, good way to filter out a c~~~.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

It’s how they make frog soup. You don’t grab the frogs and toss them into boiling water. No, what you do is take said frogs and put them into a pot of cold water and then slowly bring to a boil.

The same thing is happening here. See they can’t just move in all of a sudden. Can’t really show up at your door step with all their s~~~. It needs to be done in increments. A shirt here, a panty there, a toothbrush. Before you know it you have scented candles lying all over your place. The goal here is for her to eventually move in and eventually run your life, because left to your own devices who knows what shenanigans you would get up to without her “calming and civilizing” (sorry….had to stop for a moment to control my gag reflex) influence.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Anonymous wrote:

And they will expect free or reduced rent. If you are gonna move them in charge them market rate, good way to filter out a c~~~.

The end goal is to effectively have you pay for everything. The old, your money is our money and my money is my money.

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