Why do they always come back???

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Gents,
How often do you find yourself being chased by those that you’ve casually dismissed? I myself have found a rather obvious trend of women asking me “what I’m looking for” (as if I’m in a supermarket..smh). My response is always the same. “NOT A DAMNED THING”. I don’t want to jeopardize my freedom, nor deal with the incessant nagging or proverbial b.s. Long story short, we still end up banging anyway, in which case they try to hit me with the “We must be dating now” horses~~~, which I gladly dismantle and immediately destroy with unwavering precision and prejudice. They then get upset, leave, then two weeks later, they want to rinse and repeat… like clockwork.

Am I the only one experiencing this? Anybody care to chime in and explain this circus act? And even more importantly, how do you respond to something like that?

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[RoyDalParticipant]

Yes, I have had them come back. One reminded me of the female lead in the movie Fatal Attraction. Fortunately, I don’t have a pet bunny.

My life is a lot simpler since I quit dating.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Yeah, I feel you RoyDal. It has become a hell of a lot less complicated. I eat, sleep, study and play at my own leisure. No taking trips to visit extended family members I don’t really care to meet, no more fronting the cost of outings unless I’m funding myself. I can quite simply be a selfish bastard because, well… bachelorhood.
But I still would like to know what one would consider as a response to those that continually come crawling back. My mentality at the moment is that I’ll be a (bastard, asshole, etc.) all of but once. After they’ve stated their peace, I casually move along with life. But nonetheless, I’ve still got to deal with the ‘returned’…

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[BoarParticipant]

Based on the timeline you described above, are you sure you are not part of their c~~~ carousel?

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Boar wrote:

Based on the timeline you described above, are you sure you are not part of their c~~~ carousel?

Point taken Boar. And in all honesty, I could care less if I’m part of the carousel. As long as they don’t think I’m going to be that poor bastard that is waiting to take their hand and walk through the park indefinitely once they decide to get off, I’m game. In fact, I’ve got several older woman chasing after me and quit frankly, the relations~~~ their looking for will never materialize. Who in their right mind wants to pay full price for a used product?
Besides that, it’s not as though we have control over who they decide to shack up with. And wanting that kind of ‘control’ is almost akin to the very controlling nature of feminism to begin with. Furthermore, I’d be lying if I said I don’t have a few on rotation myself. I’m not admitting that to expand my own ego.. the point however is this. When I want to eat, let’s say chinese, I order chinese. When I want indian, I order indian, American, French.. whatever. Never. NEVER, do I opt to buy the whole damned restaurant. In keeping with the analogy, it’s a money-pit of an investment. Why buy the restaurant and throw away your life and freedom when you can just have the damned entree, enjoy the meal, and leave when you’re finished?

So cold, but such is the reality we live and thrive in…

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Anonymous 42]

I developed a “no deposit, no return” policy very early in life. When I was dating, I would keep them around until they start their bulls~~~ (they always do) When I was 21 the NO Return policy was initiated after Psycho Bitch, ( a cross between yo-yo and boomerang) after that I stopped tolerating the fickle and demented nature of women, when they left it was good f~~~ing ridding! When they came back they were confronted with an immovable steel door welded shut to a solid steel hull. I never made acceptations to this rule and it SAVED MY LIFE! The last monkey I was ever with came back to my tree after about a month of being away, she leaped for branches and found only a grease pole. About another couple of months went by and she came back warning me that she contracted Hep-C. I was tested after the incubation period and was found to be clean. She’s the last filthy monkey I’ll ever be with! That was 19 years ago, I still can’t trust them to this very day! MGTOW SAVES LIVES! IT SAVED MINE! SPONTANEOUSLY!

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

The women whom spurned us men for thirty years. Made our teenage years hell, while they partied and had fun over our misery. Think they can come back into our lives and we would be so desperate and lonely that we would take them.

These women do not realize that by then, we men have moved on. Either we found someone else, or we have learned to live with being alone. And by then, we will realize that such women will only being with one of us until she got bored, then she would take everything had through the courts, that we men spent a lifetime saving, she would then spend all that money away, and look for her next victim.

Being human is about adapting to a situation. Something women need to learn applies to men, as well.

[OldBillParticipant]

Binary Logic wrote:

How often do you find yourself being chased by those that you’ve casually dismissed?

More often than I like sadly. You’d think they’d get the hint more easily seeing as they’re such better communicators and so much more empathetic than men are. /sarcasm

I’ve also noticed that they’re so desperate and/or clueless that common civility and politeness are more and more mistaken as flirting. Polite, terse, and dismissive have been my watchwords for years now but it’s almost as if I need to flatly tell them to f~~~ off so they’ll understand.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[chirParticipant]

Why?
Because they think they know you and how to manipulate you to do things for them. Consider them attention leeches. They are constantly in need of self affirmation from others.

This guy takes one for the team and shows us an attention leech.
http://www.animalplanet.com/tv-shows/river-monsters/videos/a-kiss-of-death-lamprey-sucks-jeremys-blood/

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

chir wrote:

This guy takes one for the team and shows us an attention leech.
http://www.animalplanet.com/tv-shows/river-monsters/videos/a-kiss-of-death-lamprey-sucks-jeremys-blood/

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion,it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

O. $h!+!!… think that little clip sums it up nicely…

+1 for the Dune modded sig!!!

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

OldBill wrote:

I’ve also noticed that they’re so desperate and/or clueless that common civility and politeness are more and more mistaken as flirting. Polite, terse, and dismissive have been my watchwords for years now but it’s almost as if I need to flatly tell them to f~~~ off so they’ll understand.

Couldn’t agree more with having to be overly blunt and direct. However, in doing such kind of has the reverse effect as then you make yourself either a) a target or b) an object of affection (think of placing intense value on a thing that you can not have).

The whole mental game behind it.. I’m not sure if I want to understand it completely, as that may cause me to lose a few brain cells…

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Binary Logic wrote:

How often do you find yourself being chased by those that you’ve casually dismissed? I myself have found a rather obvious trend of women asking me “what I’m looking for”

“What are you looking for” is a very bizarre opener and approach.

“What kind of answer are you looking for?” is my go-to stock response. I even got that question from a recruiter who contacted me. I had to explain “YOU are looking. You called ME…. so why don’t you tell me what YOU are looking for.”.

Binary Logic wrote:

they try to hit me with the “We must be dating now” horses~~~

I previously thought this was weird , but it was really cemented one day when I was out for breakfast with a “fling” (who was fun) but we only spent a total of 3 days together in the span of 3 weeks – total hours. From across the table, she says “I guess this means we’re in a relationship now”.

“what’s my middle name?”

She didn’t know. She never asked. She didn’t ask anything about me. She didn’t even care how many brothers or sisters I had, or make any effort to get to know me. I had to point out to her that I only knew her for a total of 24 hours. I asked her why she would jump into a relationship with someone who’s middle name she didn’t even know.

It wasn’t until that moment how insane it really sounded to her.
(I just pretended like it was funny)

After that, I made it a policy to never tell women anything about myself until they ask. Not even my first name. I’m actually amazed how long it takes women to ask “what’s you’re name?”.

Try it! She’ll sleep with you – without insisting on a condom! – before she’ll bother to find out how many languages you speak – or if you play any musical instruments.

Why do they always come back???

Until you make it clear that you’re not an option…
she will think of you as an option.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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