Why do they act like this?

[Chucks_RevengeParticipant 216]

We’re laying in bed cuddling. I say, “I’m going to make a couple of waffles. Would you like anything?”

She says, “We don’t have any eggs.”

Yes we do. I bought some the other day.

“Wouldn’t you rather have eggs? I want eggs.”

“I guess we could have eggs.”

“Cut the stuff (onions, green peppers, mushrooms) up real small.”

“But I’d rather have bigger pieces so I can taste them.”

“But that’s twice as much work. Making two batches of eggs.”

“Not really. I’ll just cut them the way that I like them. Then you can cut yours down into smaller bits.”

“That’s too much work.”

“OK like I was saying, I’m going to have waffles. You can have eggs if you like.”

“Never mind. I just won’t eat.”

WTF is wrong with these people?

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Why do they act like this? Same reason a dog licks his b~~~~. Because they can.

Order the good wine

[BeerParticipant 11832]

So next time, just get up and make yourself something without offering to make her anything. If she complains just call her on her s~~~.

[Anonymous 54]

It keeps you in the state your in right now.Mean wille shes planning the next 5 years of your life for you.Ever heard the expression eat and run? Eat your breakfeast ,then.RUN!!!

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Chucks_Revenge wrote:

WTF is wrong with these people?

A woman becomes attracted to a man for certain reasons. She then goes about trying to change the things that she is attracted to. An independent man is attractive. However, he must be house broken before he can be considered a viable mate, or just plain broken.

For instance. During my marriage, my wife tried to micromanage how I washed the dishes. Stated why her way was better and that I should do it that way. I demonstrated how my was was more effective in that, I made less noise, took less time, and used less water. Having demonstrated this, I demanded that she start to wash the dishes my way since it was better. At a another time, she again tried to make me do a certain thing her way. I stopped her and related that this were her rules and that she is required to live by them. Not me. I am not required to live by them. If my way is better then she will have to do it my way. If not then I don’t give a s~~~, it will still do things the way I want to.

He game, her rules. I was just enforcing them. My game was “If you don’t like the way I’m doing it, you can do it your damn self, or pack your s~~~ and get the f~~~ out. Either way I don’t have to listen to your mouth any more”.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[RennieParticipant]

I know of a guy who was recently married to such a girl. Her former boyfriend bailed on the marriage, because she was trying to control him. I know for sure she was trying to stop him from playing video games and going to paintball.

The guy she got her hooks into was clueless. Now he’s stopped doing much of what he formerly enjoyed. We never hear the reason why, but it’s fairly obvious to me.

To think that could’ve been me. O.o

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

She is training you to please her. Over time it gets into your head to obey. Obey. Obey.

I’d bet you $100 she really wanted waffles.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[AttonParticipant]

You have encountered a lord of the sith, run like the wind.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 54]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

She is training you to please her. Over time it gets into your head to obey. Obey. Obey.

I’d bet you $100 she really wanted waffles.

Yea Jan. You nailed it.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Get out while you can! No More Compromises By Men

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Clockwork PenguinParticipant 50]

Chucks_Revenge wrote:

“Never mind. I just won’t eat.”

Works for me.

[SimpleLifeParticipant 439]

Oh gawd I dated a girl like that. Horrible. Was she hot? Seems like the prettier they are the more s~~~ they think they can get away with.

…like in that movie Someone Marry Barry.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Why do they act like this? Because we allow them to act this way. I agree, make your waffles, when she says about about…? No i’m still making waffles. I don’t need eggs, I’ll use water and powder but I’m making waffles. You can make what you want, I am only making waffles. You want some waffles, I’ll make extra, if you don’t want some then I won’t.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Chucks_Revenge wrote:

Why do they act like this?

Because they get away with it.

So don’t let them get away with it. Here’s how that conversation should have gone:

: “I’m going to make waffles. Do you want any?”
: “We don’t have any eggs.”
: “Yes we do. I bought some the other day.”
: “Wouldn’t you rather have eggs? I want eggs.”
: “Nah. I want waffles, so that’s what I’m making. But you’re welcome to cook some of my eggs if you really want eggs.”

End of discussion. Whether she decides to have waffles or cook eggs for herself or go hungry is her problem, not yours.

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