Why do People so often blame the noun instead of the action?

[BigTL13Participant 89]

If the title seems cryptic let me explain, it seems that when an incident involving a fatality happens, everyone is quick to go and point to a demographic that is most easily tied to it and say “Look, There’s the problem! We should impose restrictions on them! (Or That, this etc.)” I saw it most recently with the death of an 18 year old man from Australia who died after he was coward-punched. Then the posts began blaming Australia’s drinking culture and masculinity. However, as I went through these, I found myself insensitive to these arguments, and, upon engaging in discussion with other people, found they felt the same way. Blaming a group, or a culture, may have times where it can be warranted, but that does not mean that it is true for all times. Especially with coward-punching, the campaign that really caught my attention was the campaign by boxer Danny Green. He doesn’t blame it on alcohol, or masculinity, he merely presents a series of advertisements about the consequence of the action. This campaign, which began self-funded out of Greens’ own pocket because the Government wouldn’t give him the time a day, has had greater success than Government initiatives, and has lasted longer to a degree. Following its initial success, the Government authorized it and, I’m lead to believe, now provides funds to the campaign. So as I see it, blaming a noun is not getting anybody anywhere, but they still persist in doing it, but addressing the actions and showing people the consequence is more effective, yet does not gain any form of attention from the mainstream. So why the f~~~ do these numbskulls think they can fix everything through blaming groups?

Get the Fuck Up, Brush yourself off, and stand against the current

[RoyDalParticipant]

If I can blame somebody or something for my own misfortunes, then I do not need to take responsibility for my choices and actions that led me into said misfortunes.

If I do not take responsibility, then I do not need to change my behavior.

In short, blaming others is a method for avoiding the hard work necessary to improve myself.

BTW, blaming others is also implicated in causing depression. It is a poor strategy for getting through life.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[The_Mad_PirateParticipant 1278]

People usually do it to avoid any kind of accountability for their own actions. It is no secret most human beings lack introspection and self-awareness skills. So, how do they account for their own short comings?. They blame it on someone else, and you know, the bigger the number of “culprits” the better!!! . That’s less accountability they have to take into consideration for themselves!.

"We didn't start the fire. It was always burning. Since the world's been turning" "A world that vilifies men only breeds a generation of men that feel no empathy towards women" “In a woman’s mind , there is really no such thing as a ‘we’. In her eyes, earth allways revolves around her, not the other way around. So thinking that your needs , aspirations or desires are valid enough to be persued, or even that you are entitled achive such goals, is like asking your boss for a pay rise in your very first day at the job.”

[Anonymous 18]

Somehow our society has advanced faster than our genetic makeup.

Now it seems that everything that occurs needs to have a reason, a casualty has to make sense and should be avoidable at all costs.

We are too comfortable to admit the unpredictability of life. The law of the jungle is tamed.

Funny though that women are still completely free to practice their nature as if their jungles are pristine and untouched by advancements in society. Equality, fairness, and objective assessment are far far away from our practicing psyches when it comes to men and women.

But to get back to the topic Internet is causing everyone to have split/borderline personalities. One for the net and one for the real life. What may seem like a consensus on the net can be laughed out of a room in real life.

MGTOW an exception. Always. ‘Cuz the ladeez be like’ heyyll no, not on ma watch. Now bid for ma pooosii… Higha Higha. Soldddd”.

Runner up bidder is a mangina. Someone needs to love single mothers.

[Trevor BondParticipant 2]

most of the time, a sacrificial lamb is obligatory…

like all those manginas out there

[Anonymous 29]

RoyDal wrote:

If I do not take responsibility, then I do not need to change my behavior.
In short, blaming others is a method for avoiding the hard work necessary to improve myself.

Hard work, physical or otherwise has not been a staple diet of life in western society for at least a quarter of a century.
Without a certain amount of struggle or necessity to think through problems there is no avenue to advance one self
when everything is essentially given on a plate without effort.

The_Mad_Pirate wrote:

It is no secret most human beings lack introspection and self-awareness skills. So, how do they account for their own short comings?. They blame it on someone else, and you know, the bigger the number of “culprits” the better!!! . That’s less accountability they have to take into consideration for themselves!.

Too easy to be one of the sheeple and accept life as presented by social or other media and never reflect on your own actions, behavior, & moral or ethical position,

Trevor Bond wrote:

most of the time, a sacrificial lamb is obligatory…

That has been socially acceptable and on the rise since mid eighties. It is a side effect of “dog eat dog ” mentality and almost
a total desensitization and a lack of empathy towards other’s suffering. Just to add to that, gaming industry has had zero effect on that. Unlike the feminized and feminist c~~~s would like us to make us believe.

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

RoyDal wrote:

If I can blame somebody or something for my own misfortunes, then I do not need to take responsibility for my choices and actions that led me into said misfortunes.

If I do not take responsibility, then I do not need to change my behavior.

In short, blaming others is a method for avoiding the hard work necessary to improve myself.

BTW, blaming others is also implicated in causing depression. It is a poor strategy for getting through life.

RoyDal, you have an uncanny knack of putting it so beautifully! Thank you for this, it is a priceless gem.

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