Why do men do it?

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

I have been watching a friend of mine of 10 years being with this single mother with 2 kids. They have been living with each other for a long time and own a house together. This woman makes this man late constantly, buys stupid s~~~ that he would never have, and has my friend whipped. The woman is overweight and not that attractive and her kids (in their teens) are complete nobs. The younger kid (18) just got his 17 year old girlfriend prego and now my buddy will have to take care of that kid along with the other 2 he is forking money out for already. I just shake my head and laugh to myself at this, why do men do it?

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[HitmanParticipant]

some misguided sense of loyalty.
makes them feel important,
they don’t realize it will never be repaid.
they can slave away for decades,
and 1 paycheck away from being kicked to the curb,
like garbage.
after sacrificing all their time and hard earned money.
a losing game.
.
the effect of the FULL blue pill indoctrination.
frightening.

[Anonymous 42]

No one can figure out the Mumford O’Crowly, a Mumford just is…

[Anonymous 43]

fear of being alone, need for external validation, need to be needed, entertainment value, love the one you’re with, deep genuine friendship, nothing better to do, for freedom! oh sorry, not freedom, for the tight rigid structure a complex family situation provides.

F~~~ed if I know, just ask the man. Dude Why are you in this jackpot?

10 years? omg habits are hard to break.

[IntellectualSaviorParticipant 1238]

I don’t think it’s man or woman thing.

Dumb people will always be dumb and the only cure is knowledge and most people are too lazy to attain it.

When I have a pen in my hands, it's lethal.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Men have a biological drive to protect and provide for women. Nature designed us that way to ensure the continuation of the species, since women can’t survive on their own. It’s not a bad thing per se, but it’s a drive that needs to be overcome when you live in a society where the MAN has nothing to gain from such a relationship.

That fact that women constantly bitch about “not needing a man” makes it easy. I have no desire to take care of women who never stop screaming that they can take care of themselves (even though I know they can’t, they need big daddy government, but ingratitude is the ULTIMATE boner killer).

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Anonymous 18]

At groundworks: Thirst.

In the middle: Validation seeking

On the crust: Societal pseudo-appraisal for men to channel their desire for sex into servitude.

Btw your friend is beyond f~~~ed.

[AttonParticipant]

They are incapable of breaking down their last barrier being their nature.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

I really do not get it, i understand it from the young age, because men are so enamored with pussy, but i do not know why guys do it for 30/40 years, especially when the sex becomes rare with no decent head, i have started asking guys why but they dont answer well

Let the good times roll

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

SolidusX wrote:

why do men do it?

It’s the effect of what I call The Blue Pill Overdose.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[BokehParticipant 65]

I don’t know. Some guys get lonely on their own, I guess. There are benefits to sharing a house with other people – having your laundry done (hopefully), someone to shop, clean (hopefully), do holidays with, etc. Some do it for the kids. There’s also the issue of enabling – your friend may be an enabler, and thinks it’s his duty to take s~~~ from everyone. If he was raised by s~~~ty parents, that’s likely.

Me, I always did alone fine, I grew up in a big family, so a lot of my childhood was finding quiet spots away from them. Alone is bliss. My first place on my own was everything I hoped it would be. I do worry, about medical emergencies and such, but I’m in great health, and I’m always near my cell. There are times, it would be nice to have someone to talk to when I get home – but hell, if it gets bad enough, I’ll just get a roommate.

Honestly, I think a lot of guys don’t know how to exist on their own – don’t know how to cook, do laundry, etc, so they sacrificed to live with someone else.

Most likely, they’re terrified of leaving, and being divorced.

[Sky-OParticipant 18934]

Guys like that were conditioned and psychologically mind-fcked by their own mothers while growing up.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

BlakeGuy wrote:

I really do not get it, i understand it from the young age, because men are so enamored with pussy, but i do not know why guys do it for 30/40 years, especially when the sex becomes rare with no decent head, i have started asking guys why but they dont answer well

The first step in fixing a problem is to first admit and acknowledge it. There are people out there, blue pilled as f~~~, afraid of the truth thinking their world will come crashing down but these poor bastards have no idea of the misery that awaits them if they don’t wake up soon.

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[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

I was having a pint in the little micropub near me drinking New World Pale and got into a conversation with a married couple. The woman asked me if I lived on my own (I get this question a lot thesedays). I said yep – love it, never married, don’t want to, never having kids. She was smiling and beaming at me with a far away misty look in her eyes – “yes I get it etc etc. Marriage is such a challenge” Husband couldn’t get her away quick enough after that. I carried on drinking, talking to locals and that pint became four. No wife, happy life. The End.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Can’t Stump Trump wrote:

Men have a biological drive to protect and provide for women. Nature designed us that way to ensure the continuation of the species, since women can’t survive on their own. It’s not a bad thing per se, but it’s a drive that needs to be overcome when you live in a society where the MAN has nothing to gain from such a relationship.

That fact that women constantly bitch about “not needing a man” makes it easy. I have no desire to take care of women who never stop screaming that they can take care of themselves (even though I know they can’t, they need big daddy government, but ingratitude is the ULTIMATE boner killer).

Very well put. There is a strong biological and societal pull on men to be providers and protectors of women and children. This may have been useful in primitive times, but given the hypocrisy of modern times where women claim they can have it all by themselves but still manipulate men into taking care of them, it is a recipe for ruin for men.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Bokeh wrote:

I don’t know. Some guys get lonely on their own, I guess. There are benefits to sharing a house with other people – having your laundry done (hopefully), someone to shop, clean (hopefully), do holidays with, etc. Some do it for the kids. There’s also the issue of enabling – your friend may be an enabler, and thinks it’s his duty to take s~~~ from everyone. If he was raised by s~~~ty parents, that’s likely.

Me, I always did alone fine, I grew up in a big family, so a lot of my childhood was finding quiet spots away from them. Alone is bliss. My first place on my own was everything I hoped it would be. I do worry, about medical emergencies and such, but I’m in great health, and I’m always near my cell. There are times, it would be nice to have someone to talk to when I get home – but hell, if it gets bad enough, I’ll just get a roommate.

Honestly, I think a lot of guys don’t know how to exist on their own – don’t know how to cook, do laundry, etc, so they sacrificed to live with someone else.

Most likely, they’re terrified of leaving, and being divorced.

Your post reminds me of my favorite definition of marriage as an arrangement where a man gives up half his groceries in order to get the other half cooked. The problem today is that women are much more into their careers than cooking or being a wife, and this trend is growing.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

bobphilo wrote:

Bokeh wrote:

I don’t know. Some guys get lonely on their own, I guess. There are benefits to sharing a house with other people – having your laundry done (hopefully), someone to shop, clean (hopefully), do holidays with, etc. Some do it for the kids. There’s also the issue of enabling – your friend may be an enabler, and thinks it’s his duty to take s~~~ from everyone. If he was raised by s~~~ty parents, that’s likely.

Me, I always did alone fine, I grew up in a big family, so a lot of my childhood was finding quiet spots away from them. Alone is bliss. My first place on my own was everything I hoped it would be. I do worry, about medical emergencies and such, but I’m in great health, and I’m always near my cell. There are times, it would be nice to have someone to talk to when I get home – but hell, if it gets bad enough, I’ll just get a roommate.

Honestly, I think a lot of guys don’t know how to exist on their own – don’t know how to cook, do laundry, etc, so they sacrificed to live with someone else.

Most likely, they’re terrified of leaving, and being divorced.

Your post reminds me of my favorite definition of marriage as an arrangement where a man gives up half his groceries in order to get the other half cooked. The problem today is that women are much more into their careers than cooking or being a wife, and this trend is growing.

It is very unfortunate that this trend is growing, women think they can have it all and still have a family… does not work like that!

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[The AirmanParticipant 74]

Bokeh wrote:

I don’t know. Some guys get lonely on their own, I guess. There are benefits to sharing a house with other people – having your laundry done (hopefully), someone to shop, clean (hopefully), do holidays with, etc. Some do it for the kids. There’s also the issue of enabling – your friend may be an enabler, and thinks it’s his duty to take s~~~ from everyone. If he was raised by s~~~ty parents, that’s likely.

Me, I always did alone fine, I grew up in a big family, so a lot of my childhood was finding quiet spots away from them. Alone is bliss. My first place on my own was everything I hoped it would be. I do worry, about medical emergencies and such, but I’m in great health, and I’m always near my cell. There are times, it would be nice to have someone to talk to when I get home – but hell, if it gets bad enough, I’ll just get a roommate.

Honestly, I think a lot of guys don’t know how to exist on their own – don’t know how to cook, do laundry, etc, so they sacrificed to live with someone else.

Most likely, they’re terrified of leaving, and being divorced.

Wow….you nailed me!! Exactly my weakness!

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