Why Do I make Myself Angry?

[BigDParticipant 3024]

I read a lot of the posts on this forum, and all it does is makes me angry towards women who have done nothing to me. I see all the injustices done towards men that don’t involve me, and I get angrier.

At this time I am not in the States. In fact, I am not in Western Civilization. The issues I see here have nothing to do with me at this time. Yet, I still read them, and I get angry.

Yes, those that have read my introductory posts know that I have had several relationships, and I have always positioned myself to not have any repercussions from the fallout of just walking away from them.

It wasn’t revenge that I sought. It was just personal peace of mind. However, I find just being able to walk away from a poor relationship will cause the revenge you did not seek. Women can claim all they want that they don’t need a man, but walk out on one who thought she had her meal ticket and watch.

Her mind goes. It just crashes down. Every relationship I walked away from the woman thought that it was never truly over, or that I would come back to her like nothing ever happened. The image of who they thought I was became the ghost in the room.

Financial ruin was next. I am not saying I am a rich man, but I have always had the ability to pay my bills. Girlfriends would always become reliant upon my generosity. I didn’t mind helping or splurging once in awhile, but when it was something that was expected of me it was time to plan my walk. The thing women don’t understand about having bills in your name that someone else pays for is that if that person stops paying for them the bills are still in your name.

I’ve had past girlfriends sit in their empty homes with eviction notices on the door, electric cut off, and the water turned off waiting for a miracle that will never happen. I always hoped they would get their s~~~ together and become responsible adults, but that seems like a man’s only domain. It wasn’t revenge I sought, but it was revenge that was brought. All those times they bitched I didn’t give enough, or buy enough. Now they don’t have enough trying to stand on their own.

The women I was with in the past always wanted respect they never earned. They thought their social status was because the deserved it. They would try to rub it in the face of other woman that they had made it. Little did they realize that the status of most women correlates directly to the person on the other end of who’s dick they have in their mouth.

Ladies should learn to never take that dick out of their mouth. They become compliant. They let that dick slip away. If you aren’t pleasing that dick and you don’t have anything else to bring to the table, don’t be surprised that dick wanders off.

It blew my mind. I’m a Wal-Mart shirt guy. These women would start wearing designer clothes knowing damn well they should stick with t-shirts and jeans. Like some kind of diva they had to look. Like they had to show of their new financial status. Little did they know, after you wear those designer clothes they don’t sell very well second hand.

I left hints that those clothes were worthless and something more practical should be bought. They didn’t listen. In the end they had closet full of worn out designer clothes that were worthless rags with no place to put anything. Eviction and all of that.

If it was revenge that I sought, I have more than my fair share. All my life I have kept my eye on that brass ring. I always hoped people would grow up as I past them by.

Then why do I torture myself reading these posts? I don’t hate women. I hate their actions. I hate the fact if I did anything they do I would be ground into the dirt and discarded like a dead fly. I just hate the double-standard.

I really don’t know if women were forced to be as accountable as men for their actions if things would change. That women would grow up and take responsibility for themselves, their actions, and their own well being. If women would finally earn that respect they keep wanting to be given to them. Deep down I think they can do it.

Here’s why I think women can grow up. I was a child once. I used to blame everyone else for all my woos. Then I hit the magical age of eight. The year my youngest brother was born. There was no easing into personal responsibility. I grew up. I grew up quick. I learned life wasn’t fair, someone will always have it better than you, and no one really cared. Either make your own life better or be the loser that blames others like a little baby.

If I can grow up, like every man of responsibility, women can grow up.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

When You Get mad, All You Do Is Hurt yourself.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

When You Get mad, All You Do Is Hurt yourself.

You’re absolutely right.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Anonymous 42]

To be angry is to be aggrieved, it’s a war on men, a war on you! Only a babbling idiot wouldn’t get angry, but with every ounce of anger comes wisdom, and wisdom isn’t cheap! Anger is the lowest cost for the price of wisdom, some people wake up dead before they learn.

[RedPillBonerParticipant 541]

You think you are angry reading these posts? Think about how p~~~ed off you would be if that s~~~ happened to you.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

RedPillBoner wrote:

You think you are angry reading these posts? Think about how p~~~ed off you would be if that s~~~ happened to you.

I saw it happened to others when I was a child and younger man. That’s why I never let it happen to me as I looked for the “one”. When I realized there was no “one” I thought there was something wrong with me. Then I discovered there was a whole group of guys just like me. Probably the only thing that saved my sanity.

If you think about it, society gaslights men into thinking there is something wrong with them if they don’t find the “one” to settle down with in marriage.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I paid xK to learn that lesson from a psychologist. I’m giving it for free.

Your anger only hurts you. Blood pressure etc. Water off a ducks back.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[NerdtasticParticipant 194]

I read these post almost daily to keep my guard up and fresh.

Don’t faulter and think this one is NAWLT.

[WallyParticipant]

I saw it happened to others when I was a child and younger man. That’s why I never let it happen to me as I looked for the “one”. When I realized there was no “one” I thought there was something wrong with me. Then I discovered there was a whole group of guys just like me. Probably the only thing that saved my sanity.

If you think about it, society gaslights men into thinking there is something wrong with them if they don’t find the “one” to settle down with in marriage.

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Absolutely! My Grandfather got married 6 times searching for the “one.” There is no “one.” Men are completely brainwashed to find the “one” because that is what society deems it needs to survive, its incredibly parasitic.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[bob__Participant 946]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

When You Get mad, All You Do Is Hurt yourself.

No, it helps you avoid hurting yourself in the future.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

Would you get angry at a Cobra for being venomous? Or a Great White Shark for eating fish or humans? No need to be angry, it just IS. It is what it is. Women are PROGRAMMED to behave a certain way at the GENETIC LEVEL through Evolutionary Psychology. On top of this innate programming are learned behavior. Sometimes the learned behavior comes in direct conflict with the Genetic programming; and usually the genetic programming wins out, and the woman doesn’t consciously know why or refuses to acknowledge it; because it conflicts with her own conscious beliefs.

Esther Vilar; in a fit of anger at other women: in particular Feminists laid the out the truth as bare as she could consciously do in her book: “The Manipulated Man”. Even the blogger Girl Writes What lays it out…

Basically it is what it is…it is the nature of the beast.
Accept it and move on.
Anger partly stems from denial as well as the realization that you have been lied to, manipulated and exploited for your entire life.

Let it go. Concentrate on yourself, your own financial, physical and emotional and social well being. Ignore women: Go MGTOW and be free.

[Ash NrahkParticipant 199]

I think anger is a natural part of swallowing the pill for many I know It is/was for me at least.

In fact the whole experience seems for me at least to be a parallel of grieving.

I did not want the red pill and the facts it contained to be real. It contained truths that shattered not just my perception of women but of society and the world in general.

I couldn’t fault the logic and I got very angry.

People here told me this was normal and it would pass. F~~~ing bulls~~~ my mind would scream how can this pass ? Women aint just about to f~~~ing change are they? No this is the world I live in and frankly I was so livid that I hated the Red Pill and the vision it granted.

Well the anger has start to pass. They were right and its a path we just have to walk.

I have walked and I wont be turning around.

Now I have to learn to live for myself. The alien nature of this is just a testimony to how pathetically blue pill I have been my whole life.

It gets better.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Why Do I make Myself Angry?

Because you ask that question. If I asked that question I will become angry too.
How about…. What am I happy about my life? or How could I bet happy about my life?
Or you can use words to tone down your emotional state from angry to peeve.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[VarunParticipant 2981]

You’re just being empathetic; its a common human response when you see something that’s off or unusual.

That is how humans ‘learn’ from one another.

If one man says that he saw a “big, hairy, ferocious lion with a good appetite for human meat” near the bushes, its normal for you to ‘feel scared’.

Just like that, when men over here share their woes, you feel for them; when they narrate their tale in a ‘sad thought-provoking’ kind of way, you get a negative response from your brain, because you interpret the situation as ‘wrong’ or ‘unjust’.

Nothing to get worried about; and not worth getting stressed about it. I get it a the time, many people over here get it too.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[BufordParticipant 935]

BigD wrote:

I read a lot of the posts on this forum, and all it does is makes me angry towards women who have done nothing to me. I see all the injustices done towards men that don’t involve me, and I get angrier.

It’s brotherly instinct. It’s camaraderie, which is something that doesn’t exist between women. They only support each other when there’s something to gain.

Also, men have a keener sense of the difference between right and wrong, when we see injustice we realise it needs to be corrected, even when it adversely effects us.

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

[Dr. SableParticipant 1064]

BigD wrote:

Why Do I make Myself Angry?

I wont bother going through all the details of your post or reiterate what others have said or written.
But I’ll make this short.
You still live in red pill rage because everything you have been told by women and wider society about
relationships was a lie and you are still coming to terms with it. It will pass.

Zero Tolerance

[EchoesParticipant 92]

You can’t reason with a woman, they think in an immediate timeframe with how something will directly benefit them. I feel that you might be getting angry because you’re seeing actual stories of MGTOWs about how not just women but the court system sucked them dry of everything they’ve amounted to. The only way I can see women taking up responsibility and actually contributing something other than sex to the relationship once the man has jumped through enough hoops, is if the laws were changed to be more in favor of men.

[Anonymous 54]

Most anger is in reaction to a perceived injustice.The path from that point to the point of acceptance can be a difficult one.I am still working on this. I hate feeling angry. It is difficult to enjoy a sunset when your all p~~~ed off.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

It’s hard not to get angry when you read s~~~ like the Holocaust. When you read about s~~~ in the slave trade. Even if it didn’t happen to you, you know it easily can happen to you and they would get away with it. You know it can still happen to you and society won’t care. That’s what can be so upsetting.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

BigD wrote:

If I can grow up, like every man of responsibility, women can grow up.

NO SHE CANNOT. Women are incapable of mature thought processes and behavior. This doesn’t mean men should cut them ANY slack. It means we should understand we are dealing with perpetual juveniles — If we have to deal with them at all.
Men continually make the mistake of projecting their logic, reason, and maturity on to females, just like females project their dishonesty, cunning, irrationality, and adolescence on to males. It can be a fatal error.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

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