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Anonymous8Greetings All.
I am very new to this forum stuff here and I must say, “Keep up the good work!”
I want to ask a question to all of you who have been married, why did you do it? I really would like to know what the pressures where like, expectations, thoughts, etc.
Equally as important is why you got out. When do you see the light? What was the trigger?
Based on your previous posts, I’d like to know your Specific interests in why your asking a question that seems fairly obvious.If your writing a research paper, its best to be straightforward with your request.
Before I got married I was totally blue pill, put women on a pedestal and was one of the 80% of men who get hardly any pussy in their 20s. All of my friends at the time were getting married and having children and I just thought it was what people do. I had no strong desire to get married and have children, but then again I had no feelings not to either.
So after living with her for a year, we bought a house together and then the hints that she wanted to get married got stronger and stronger until I proposed just to shut her up and buy some time. This however led to 18 months of going to wedding fairs, venues and massive expense. Honestly I was not interested in any of this in the slightest, but I went along and paid for everything for a quiet life.
Fast forward a couple of years and she wants children, we have two in quick succession and that is when things started to fall apart. Obviously sex stopped as she was too tired, stressed or ill and she decided it was better for her to stay at home and look after the children as the cost of childcare made going to work pointless.
I went along with all of this and like a good little slave went to the plantation all day and even did all the cleaning, gardening, DIY and car maintenance at the weekends as she was always too tired. I went along with all of this as I was so blue pill, after all “Happy wife, happy life” as we are always told.
Fast forward six years and she starts going on about needing to find her identity, joins a gym, loses weight, buys new clothes and wants to go out with her friends. I like a good little husband look after the children while she goes on her girls weekends away.
A relative warns me about a guy on her Facebook who she is always commenting on his pictures. I half jokingly ask if she is having an affair to which she laughs, says he is a hairdresser and gay and I forget about it.
You can guess the rest (even though she denies it to this day), I move out with the matching black bin bag luggage and start the divorce process. I am one of the 25% of men that file, although I feel like I had no choice.
I divorced at 40, and the thing that surprised me is that the value of pussy is actually zero. I married her as I was worried about being single forever if I didn’t and I can now get pussy without even trying due to Tinder/POF etc. The ironic thing is, now that I don’t really care and treat them like s~~~ they love it and chase me.
For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
Anonymous8Based on your previous posts, I’d like to know your Specific interests in why your asking a question that seems fairly obvious.If your writing a research paper, its best to be straightforward with your request.
My interest is to learn what others have been through, that’s all. I’m not writing anything. It’s not obvious to me why anyone would get married. I can imagine reasons. Like reducing bills perhaps, maybe to have kids too. But those are reasons why I THINK someone would get married, not the actual reasons someone other than me have for getting married.
I think your question surveys Human Social behaviour and morover Natural Inclinations in our Social desires.
I’ve been a member here for awhile , but I haven’t posted anything for months.I asked because I’m very distrustful with peoples Intentions. its why I ask questions.
To answer, its because I beilieved in Romantic love, based on some utopian idea of love being unconditional. I met someone who brushed me over with lies and a silver-plated tongue, who for Someone at the ripe age of twenty or twenty-one, naive as f~~~ beilieving everybody is as wonderful as a boquet of roses, couldnt help but fall for a women expierienced at manipulation who was almost going to begin her thirtys.
I married because of my innocence , wanting to love and be loved.Simple as that.The Pressures were her constant lack of affection voiced through a condecending tone threatining Divorce as a way to control my behaviour.If i moved a cup she placed somewhere she threatened divorce.If I played video games while she was at work on my days off she threatened Divorce , if i ate too much she threatened Divorce , if my shirt wasnt ironed in a certain way she threatened Divorce . If i did X she threatened divorce.
The other pressures were finding mens shoes regularly in my doorway.Mens clothing at my house. Going to some assholes house to find a fleet of Lamborghinis parked on the driveway and watching my c~~~ eat dinner with another anonymous dick that was f~~~ing her.
The expectations were to give her my debit card and sit quietly while I saw my bill statments pile up on my account. My expectation s were to take care of her hell child that tried killing me twice, almost killed someone at daycare and deal with an ex husband that wanted to fight me.
My thoughts were do I pull the trigger on this 45 I put into my mouth.
Why I got out is because if she didnt kill me which she tried to I would have killed myself but I think it had more to do with the false protection order that left me homeless showering out of a pipe.
I saw the Light when we were divorced and I paid my divorce rape fee and the trigger was she was a c~~~.
Anonymous8I think your question surveys Human Social behaviour and morover Natural Inclinations in our Social desires.
I’ve been a member here for awhile , but I haven’t posted anything for months.I asked because I’m very distrustful with peoples Intentions. its why I ask questions.
I appreciate your response. You’ve really been through a tough time. Please accept my whole hearted thanks for sharing. It helps me to understand the things that others have been through. This world has gone mad and MGTOW folks are a natural result of a large part of that insanity in my opinion.
I think your question surveys Human Social behaviour and morover Natural Inclinations in our Social desires.
I’ve been a member here for awhile , but I haven’t posted anything for months.I asked because I’m very distrustful with peoples Intentions. its why I ask questions.
To answer, its because I beilieved in Romantic love, based on some utopian idea of love being unconditional. I met someone who brushed me over with lies and a silver-plated tongue, who for Someone at the ripe age of twenty or twenty-one, naive as f~~~ beilieving everybody is as wonderful as a boquet of roses, couldnt help but fall for a women expierienced at manipulation who was almost going to begin her thirtys.
I married because of my innocence , wanting to love and be loved.Simple as that.The Pressures were her constant lack of affection voiced through a condecending tone threatining Divorce as a way to control my behaviour.If i moved a cup she placed somewhere she threatened divorce.If I played video games while she was at work on my days off she threatened Divorce , if i ate too much she threatened Divorce , if my shirt wasnt ironed in a certain way she threatened Divorce . If i did X she threatened divorce.
The other pressures were finding mens shoes regularly in my doorway.Mens clothing at my house. Going to some assholes house to find a fleet of Lamborghinis parked on the driveway and watching my c~~~ eat dinner with another anonymous dick that was f~~~ing her.
The expectations were to give her my debit card and sit quietly while I saw my bill statments pile up on my account. My expectation s were to take care of her hell child that tried killing me twice, almost killed someone at daycare and deal with an ex husband that wanted to fight me.
My thoughts were do I pull the trigger on this 45 I put into my mouth.
Why I got out is because if she didnt kill me which she tried to I would have killed myself but I think it had more to do with the false protection order that left me homeless showering out of a pipe.
I saw the Light when we were divorced and I paid my divorce rape fee and the trigger was she was a c~~~.
Jesus bro, my sincere condolences for what you had to endure.
I am glad you are here, and shared that with us. Take care.To answer, its because I beilieved in Romantic love, based on some utopian idea of love being unconditional. I met someone who brushed me over with lies and a silver-plated tongue, who for Someone at the ripe age of twenty or twenty-one, naive as f~~~ beilieving everybody is as wonderful as a boquet of roses, couldnt help but fall for a women expierienced at manipulation who was almost going to begin her thirtys.
I married because of my innocence , wanting to love and be loved.Simple as that.The Pressures were her constant lack of affection voiced through a condecending tone threatining Divorce as a way to control my behaviour.If i moved a cup she placed somewhere she threatened divorce.If I played video games while she was at work on my days off she threatened Divorce , if i ate too much she threatened Divorce , if my shirt wasnt ironed in a certain way she threatened Divorce . If i did X she threatened divorce.
The other pressures were finding mens shoes regularly in my doorway.Mens clothing at my house. Going to some assholes house to find a fleet of Lamborghinis parked on the driveway and watching my c~~~ eat dinner with another anonymous dick that was f~~~ing her.
The expectations were to give her my debit card and sit quietly while I saw my bill statments pile up on my account. My expectation s were to take care of her hell child that tried killing me twice, almost killed someone at daycare and deal with an ex husband that wanted to fight me.
My thoughts were do I pull the trigger on this 45 I put into my mouth.
Why I got out is because if she didnt kill me which she tried to I would have killed myself but I think it had more to do with the false protection order that left me homeless showering out of a pipe.
I saw the Light when we were divorced and I paid my divorce rape fee and the trigger was she was a c~~~.
I don’t even know what to say to you, man. S~~~, bro. I felt a little bit of rage there. I don’t know how you did it.
I just don’t know. S~~~ hurt me, man. That’s all I know.
Thanks for sharing man. Thanks a lot.
Glad you got out from that bitch in one piece. Your experience was not in vain. Someone will read it and hopefully learn the risks associated with merging your life with the state and a female ( which are one and the same).
It’s not obvious to me why anyone would get married.
I think Dixie Reb has a legitimate curiosity. I too would like to hear the reasons why guys get married.
I want to know what makes people willingly do something that is so overtly obviously a horrible mistake…
Anonymous13I got married in the late 1980’s, because, as crazy as it sounds, I believed in love and thought I had that with the person I married. That we’d go the distance and have grandchildren visit us in old age. That we’d have a nice life together, supporting each other, just us against the world.
I know, f~~~ing crazy, right? What the f~~~ was I thinking?
Ah, that’s right, I was deeply blue pilled enrolled in the slave program.
The Trigger?
The C~~~ called the cops from her place of work and had me thrown out with the trash after 30 years of being together, 25 of them married. The C~~~ tried to destroy me and everything I was with a tissue of lies under oath.
I have gone from a loving, loyal man who would have been very content growing old with a loving wife. Doing things together into old age. To a man who wishes the evil f~~~ing entity she is, the creature from hell, would just f~~~ing DIE.
I don’t want to feel like this, but I do. I’m sure it will pass.
Men like me, become this way because women are allowed with the blessing of the system to f~~~ us over in the most heinous ways imaginable.
It’s not just the system at fault, if I was given carte blanche over another human beings wellfare, if I could lie and destroy them.
Guess what? I wouldn’t! But hey, that’s just me.
A woman will. Think about that!
Anonymous42I know, f~~~ing crazy, right? What the f~~~ was I thinking?
You weren’t thinking RR, you were running on the indoctrinated lie, you were following your programming like a good little customized unit.
I’ve been waking to this s~~~ all my life!
I thank God I was awoken BEFORE marriage rather than AFTER marriage!
I was always a sensitive person, I could pick up strife with my 1,000 ft antenna. I guess the difference is that I had my ears on and always tuned in and honed in on the people around me.
When it comes to narcissism, I’m quite the opposite, I’m generous. The drawback was not using my wisdom to cast not my pearls before the swine, I was the kid that thought nothing of sharing everything with everyone including my women!
You can learn so much more from being generous that when you finally hitch it to your wisdom suddenly you can turn it on and off like a spigot! Not screw gate spigot that takes time to open and close but rather a ball valve that can be opened and closed in an instant!
Mine is closed to women and soldered shut permanently.
I give nothing more than the consolation prize, that being the time of day, holding a door, and other absolute minimums of being a gentleman, I don’t entertain them with more of my time than just passing.
I keep my gentleman persona for me not them!
P.S. Modern women and society at large have no idea the cumulus effect the cultural Marxist regime of feminism and gynocentrism has had on the minds and nature of men!
We’re scattering in every direction away from this insane presentation of the norm established in every facet of society and utterly destroying the men! Men pounded to s~~~ under the gavel of feminized justice coupled with gynocentric laws.
Most of society has bought into the illusion that men are bad, women are good.
For instance:
Every time a woman gets a pussy pass on a moving violation a record of the event is never created, thereby raising the overall rates on male drivers, causing an “imbalance”.
The same thing happens across the board in every branch of society that women can do no wrong, which is a lie, they get a pussy pass out from the halls of justice leaving the men to be extracted and slaughtered.
Equality is BULLS~~~! A F~~~ING LIE!
I am not married but once came so close to it. The reasons men marry based on my friends’ experiences.
1. To make your Gf SHUT UP.but things get worse after marriage.( i fit here)
2.Being a dork who has never even seen a pussy or boobs in real life. THEY THINK MARRIAGE=UNLIMITED ACCESS TO PUSSY and BOOBS.
3.Being lonely as all your friends are married due to above reasons.
4. Family pressure,in traditional societies.
Anonymous1I am not married but once came so close to it. The reasons men marry based on my friends’ experiences.
1. To make your Gf SHUT UP.but things get worse after marriage.( i fit here)
2.Being a dork who has never even seen a pussy or boobs in real life. THEY THINK MARRIAGE=UNLIMITED ACCESS TO PUSSY and BOOBS.
3.Being lonely as all your friends are married due to above reasons.
4. Family pressure,in traditional societies.
The same. But I would like to add some points:
5. Fulfilling religious duty. My country is a religious country (doesn’t mean a good thing, I might add), and the religious push into marriage happened around the notion that God wanted it.
6. To make parents happy, which is also can be linked back into religiousity. Parents are always good because God tell us they’re good, not because they’re inherently good. A little difference to globemaster’s point #4 because in this, the pressure came from the guy’s own view about being a religious man in the family
Anonymous425. Fulfilling religious duty. My country is a religious country (doesn’t mean a good thing, I might add), and the religious push into marriage happened around the notion that God wanted it.
Where are the religious when it comes to the last 50+ years of unfurled female nature coupled with the laws of the lands that permit the destruction of marriage, family, children, men and society? All done on the whimsical fickle nature of female poor behavior unfettered and blowing in their own wind…
The problem is not us, it’s them and the cultural destruction they collectively participate and exacerbate each and every day. We can see the results in every direction except the direction that says Go Your Own Way, it’s time to filter through the carnage and wreckage to get to where you’re going, no wasted days, no wasted dollars, no distractions, no ambushes, we live in a world full of carnage and wreckage others are blind to and cannot see. They point to us and say we’re the problem, when in fact all the pandemonium started at the offset of the Cultural Marxist revolution, AKA FEMINISM!
MGTOW put a proverbial .50cal round through feminism’s monstrous monolithic head!
KILL SHOT.
Same here, except it wasn’t the late 1980’s — was the mid 2000s.
I got married in the late 1980’s, because, as crazy as it sounds, I believed in love and thought I had that with the person I married. That we’d go the distance and have grandchildren visit us in old age. That we’d have a nice life together, supporting each other, just us against the world.
Greetings All.
I am very new to this forum stuff here and I must say, “Keep up the good work!”
I want to ask a question to all of you who have been married, why did you do it? I really would like to know what the pressures where like, expectations, thoughts, etc.
Equally as important is why you got out. When do you see the light? What was the trigger?
I was never married, but the society pressure is big, specially in countries where people are more conservative. I usually get out of this kind of question by playing the bluepill for my relatives.
I’m waiting for someone special, you know, someone to marry and form a family.
Everyones believe in this bulls~~~, because so many people say that really meaning it, that is disgusting !
Anonymous1Everyones believe in this bulls~~~, because so many people say that really meaning it, that is disgusting !
We are lead to think this way because of popular culture made it marriage as a happy ending, then we raised by mothers who are also lead to think this way by also popular culture. Now I always cringe when there’s romantic storyline in movies with the topic I like (like space exploration, or archeology, etc) while the story actually doesn’t need it. Falling in love or meeting someone is treated as the end, the medal, or sign that the character is fulfilling their arc.
When I’m playing RPGs I usually ignore romantic possibility. It’s a hindrance for my character.
High school sweethearts, virgins, love, stuff, yada yada yada. As examples of the female go she’s actually top .005 percent, but I’m still here.
OP, when I got married we were considered lucky for finding “the one” so early in life.
A man gets married hoping that the tight body and porn star sex will never change. A woman gets married to “suitable material”, hoping to mold him into the guy she really wants.
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
My story is the same as SpiritRR and Ogre..
Young love, high school sweetheart, I mean young, 19.
I thought it was forever, grandchildren, one big family. I wanted kids. It lasted quite a while, over twenty years.
We had a nice little family. ‘Til one day she gave me an ultimatum about something she didn’t like or she was moving out. I let her…
We had grown somewhat apart, I was never a priority. Her parents hated me and eventually it took a tole.
I didn’t get screwed over, she left everything and walked away.. She regretted it an awful lot afterward. Life doesn’t end up like you planned.Meditating on the Wisdom & Truths of Man, Isn't just a Philosophy, but a Calling......Be willing to be Called a Man!- AuthorPosts
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