Why dating is a waste of time

[shadowParticipant 156]

F~~~ing A!

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Dating is a waste of time if you put in too much effort. But if you keep it low key and put in a small amount of effort (e.g. getting coffee), then why not? How else to get a woman to regularly have sex with you?

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[VenomParticipant 310]

Well, having sex is one thing. Dating is another. At the very least, get escorts. They’re cheaper in the long run and get straight to the point.

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

@venom
All valid points indeed. I haven’t done what anybody would call dating in a long time, but if someone else wants to, who am I to judge? Anyway, sometimes it takes a few dates for the shrillness to set in fully.
Of course, I’ve never played GTA5, and that might be better than sex.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[VenomParticipant 310]

@theronius

Yeah, I’m not judging anyone who does. I’m just saying that women want any attention from us good or bad. So it actually benefits them more if you do date them/have sex with them.

I haven’t played GTA 5 yet either, but it looks awesome as f~~~. I’ll be able to get it sometime at the end of February along with a Ps4.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Women these days are worthless. I date from time to time, but it seems that even grown ass women, mid 30s are getting in on that facebook drama bulls~~~. And they always say women mature faster, yeah, that’s why a woman with a mortgage is mad I didn’t like her pic on FB. Hahahahahaha. One night stands, I can’t put up with female’s bulls~~~.

Annoying, useless, EXPENSIVE, I really don’t even want to be around them at all. One night stands are about all I can stomach anymore. I don’t give a s~~~ about women because most women are basic bitches who parade like they’re unique snowflakes who want to know what YOU can do for THEM, it’s a crap shoot.

I think you’re making a sound call with it, man. Preach the good word.

Preach it brother. Annoying and expensive. I still enjoy the company of a lady from time to time, but it’s a crap shoot. Sometimes these snowflakes can be respectful and well mannered. Other times crazy comes to town. It’s usually not worth the hassle. Thanks.

[sidecarParticipant 35870]

Dating is pretty much the opposite of what men have been told it is.

If a woman has decided she doesn’t want to f~~~ you, paying for her drinks, her dinner, her theater ticket, or whatever, is not going to change her mind. It only confirms her decision. And if she has decided she wants to f~~~ you, then paying for s~~~ for her only encourages her to hold out to see how much she can get first. Or it changes her mind entirely. Buying a woman dinner all but guarantees she will refuse to sleep with you.

So don’t date. It has nothing to do with having fun and it sure as f~~~ has nothing to do with getting laid.

Or at least that’s been my experience.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6431]

When I think about dating .. I tend to think of the concept of Opportunity Cost. What am I losing out on by not dating?

Opportunity Cost is what you lose (what it costs) to pursue a particular path and forego another route.

In the world of dating … what are the Opportunity Costs upon me for not asking that woman I met at the New Years Eve party out on a date?
Well, I certainly lost out on spending my money on her and paying for her dinner. I lost out on hearing the lecture of her life story. I lost out on being used by her as she conducts a personal interview and calls it a date. And after all is said and done, if there had been additional dates prior to her sensing that I’m not her kind of material and ready for exploitation .. I lost out on a breakup as she seeks out new pastures.

[Anonymous 5]

Dating is the biggest waste of money. It is way more cheaper for me to buy a hooker instead of risking dating just to get some c~~~.

[RennieParticipant]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

Women these days are worthless. I date from time to time, but it seems that even grown ass women, mid 30s are getting in on that facebook drama bulls~~~. And they always say women mature faster, yeah, that’s why a woman with a mortgage is mad I didn’t like her pic on FB. Hahahahahaha. One night stands, I can’t put up with female’s bulls~~~.

Annoying, useless, EXPENSIVE, I really don’t even want to be around them at all. One night stands are about all I can stomach anymore. I don’t give a s~~~ about women because most women are basic bitches who parade like they’re unique snowflakes who want to know what YOU can do for THEM, it’s a crap shoot.

I think you’re making a sound call with it, man. Preach the good word.

Their behaviors and attitudes are so repulsive that I’ve actually mostly lost interest in them, even in terms of looks. You know they’re all like that and it’s a huge turn off.

I particularly hate the music of the t~~~’s. I have to listen to it all the time at work. Much of it awful, garbage, club music – for hours. It’s worse than the worst disco. I will be so glad on the day that those atrocities to music are destroyed forever.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again:

When I think about the money I spent dating, I want to horse whip myself.

Fuck this planet.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Two quick reports from the field:

I made some appealing eye contact with a girl in a coffee shop today, to the point where she gave me what I would consider the “go codes” and probably expected me to come over and talk to her. I could very easily have done so, but when I was done with my work, I simply packed up my stuff and left without looking in her direction or acknowledging her any further.

Later on, a girl I know called me up and wanted to get together… her code words for wanting sex. I told her that I simply didn’t feel like getting in the car and driving over to her place.

I’m not “dating” anyone any more… I’m done with all that. I’m not going to give a woman the chance to publicly shut me down and I’m not driving out of my way even to get sex. If they want to come to me and make a play, I will consider them, but that’s about it.

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

sidecar wrote:

Buying a woman dinner all but guarantees she will refuse to sleep with you.

Don’t pay for her then. Problem solved. If she won’t sleep with you because you didn’t buy her dinner, she’s both a whore, and probably wouldn’t have slept with you in the first place.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[sidecarParticipant 35870]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

Don’t pay for her then. Problem solved.

That’s exactly my point.

Giving to women decreases your chances of bedding them. Refusing to give anything to women increases it.

It’s like the old carrot on a stick. The mule will pull for you all day long to get that carrot, but only so long as she never actually gets it.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Dating is like a game…a woman is the prize. Eventually you realize the game isn’t all that fun and the prize is garbage…why bother?

[sidecarParticipant 35870]

Beer wrote:

Dating is like a game…a woman is the prize. Eventually you realize the game isn’t all that fun and the prize is garbage…why bother?

That’s what they want you to think, but it isn’t true.

YOU are the prize.

You can see it in the language they use. How many times have you heard one bragging about “catching a man”? Do you ever hear men making the same boast?

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Dating is a waste of time? Correction: Women are a complete waste of time!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[SolowayParticipant 63]

Yea I’m on the same boat. After my separation I’m so done with dating. Escorts cut to the chase, are cheaper, and you don’t have to hear them nag about how you’re selfish that you didn’t give them a massage or satisfy them back after she granted her ‘holy vagina’ to you.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Enjoying a woman’s company should be free. If spending time together is predicated on spending money then you are basically being disrespected and her motivations are ambiguous at best. She honestly should not give a s~~~ about you spending money on her, and I mean that by doing not saying. Spending money on her should be completely up to you.

It’s better to spend money on her under your conditions because it will show that she’s behaved herself well enough and you aren’t simply buying things as a way to ensure she doesn’t drop you for another dude.

Gifts as relationship collateral are a huge mistake.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[GermanicSpectator 35]

F~~~ dating and f~~~ relationships.

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