Why be shocked by how a Blue Pill world acts?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I see this trend happens. Someone find an article, or forum thread, and posts it on here, stating the state of their shock and so on at it. Well, I am curious why you are shocked? Why are you surprised at what is going on? Blue Pill world acts like how it acts, because that is how it is. Desire to fit in and be social acceptable, leads to crabs in a bucket mentality to keep conformity, and desire to hold things in place leads to dismissing, and cherrypicking things to justify the dismissing. It goes on and on and on. The Blue Pill world expects everyone to get married and have kids, and so on. They expect the marriages to be generally horrible for all involved, but that is the norm needed to show yourself fitting in. That is how the thinking goes, with anything else not seen as an option for anyone. This, despite the fact that trends are causing less and less to marry, or want to get married. Men are choosing to opt out, even if they don’t have MGTOW as the label. But, the Blue Pill world will just see “MGTOW” as a label, find some extremes, and use it to dismiss things, and just walk on by with their lives, not seeing what is happening.

So, why be shocked by any of this?

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

It is somewhat repetitive. But my mindset is that by posting a link, it is the front door to new visitors (via the search path,which is more than likely how one of our members was lead to their site in the first place) and an opportunity to offer some key points about what this site and mindset is about.
I could be wrong, actually very curious if I am or not, so corrections welcome.

But also for the sake of fun to toy around with their ideas of us.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I’m going with @colbshank on this one. I have outgrown being shocked, but I still enjoy the entertainment.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

It might be, in my case, I know I saw a website article posted in the past, but then someone else finds it and posts it again on here. There is also about every single possible opinion out there under the sun, somewhere on the web, so if you look, you will find it.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

I’m never shocked now. I’ve read post after post on various relationship forums and you can see in virtually every case where a guy is bemoaning the fact that his wife or girlfriend of sometimes less than a year has cheated on him, he sounds exactly like a BLUE PILL mangina. Instead of immediately kicking the c~~~ to the curb on fining out, they start talking about reconciliation, marriage counselling, giving another chance, working on the marriage, doing more for her, blah, blah, blah.

One example. “Oh, honey I want a threesome, but you’re not invited. If I don’t get this I’m going to leave you”. If you want the link to this I’ll relocate it and post for you.

I feel like bitch slapping these pussy whipped pieces of s~~~ on the side of the head and telling them the reason she cheated on you is simply because she didn’t respect a piece of s~~~, she has no fear of you dumping her, she knew she could get away with it, and simply you are a f~~~ing BLUE PILL. Get some b~~~~ and verbally beat the crap out of her if she gets out of line. Then she knows where you stand from day one.. They like that way.

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

It’s always good to see how things go, on the other side of the fence, else we might see ourselves becoming an echo-chamber, like the other places.

I find it quite amazing, how so many men here, choosing their paths, able to always find a common ground to discuss things, and no matter how different our opinions may be, we simply discuss and argue the merits, trying to use logic, or as scientists would do, come with a theory, test it several times against other theories, then come with another theory from that, test it some more, discuss it some more, and on it goes.

It’s so damn easy, to simply stay on the same track, this is why having our theories challenged often, keeps our minds awake and in focus.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Burgundy wrote:

It’s always good to see how things go, on the other side of the fence, else we might see ourselves becoming an echo-chamber, like the other places.
I find it quite amazing, how so many men here, choosing their paths, able to always find a common ground to discuss things, and no matter how different our opinions may be, we simply discuss and argue the merits, trying to use logic, or as scientists would do, come with a theory, test it several times against other theories, then come with another theory from that, test it some more, discuss it some more, and on it goes.
It’s so damn easy, to simply stay on the same track, this is why having our theories challenged often, keeps our minds awake and in focus.

I think there is a common point of trying to recover from a reality that marriage doesn’t work today, so men who are MGTOW are trying to find alternatives. Realizing men come from a wide range of places, can allow for a degree of respect of the differences.

For myself, I am getting tired of Blue Pill shots at MGTOW. It is like a focus on a few things I may not agree with, but then projecting it to be the entire thing. The main charges against MGTOW tend to fit under the TFL camp, of guys who would of gone TFL went MGTOW instead. As time goes on, I could end up coming up with highly effect retorts to the Blue Pill shots, but I seriously have too many other things to deal with. A core one, to keep it short would be: “Why the hell does what I do with my life matter to you at all, and since I don’t know you, why the hell would I care what you think or try to prove my value to you?” Mainly, I get left alone. The things I face from a Blue Pill world, limp in really weak and aren’t worth my time.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

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