Why Are Women So Rude And Entitled?

[VictorParticipant 124]

It’s OK, I already know the answer, more or less.  What’s annoying me is women who don’t respond to polite, respectful messages.  It’s rude.  I suppose it’s a last-ditch attempt on my part to be a ‘Blue Pill’ “man”, which I admit is what I want.  I have always had a MGTOW-type awareness about things, and women probably pick this up from me and that might partly explain why I have never been in a relationship.  I could see through women from the beginning.  That made my laugh a lot inside, the fakery of women and the way weak men fawn over them, but I was also very shy and had no confidence, and that made me very depressed and mentally-ill.  I yearn for the touch and companionship of a woman who loves me and always have, since early childhood.

The thought of ‘going my own way’ in the sense of being alone (which is what it will mean in my case) depresses me, but it also excites me in that it means, if I want to, I can start my life now, a life of danger and adventure, knowing that I will never have the shackles and burdens that Blue Pillers have.  Everything comes at a price, but is MGTOW worth the price of lifelong loneliness and lack of female companionship?  I’ve always wanted children, to have a family around me and give happiness to others.

So I don’t know – this isn’t easy, but I think I’m moving towards a fully-fledged MGTOW position and leaving the vestigial Blue Pill desires and aspirations aside, as powerful as they are.  I’ve always been that way implicitly anyway, not out of any positive choice but due to my crippling shyness and lack of confidence.  The difference is that it may now become a choice as I give up on women for good.

[Anonymous 12]

Simple answer is because they are allowed to be. If you challenge them you are sexist, you are a big bad male bully who can’t handle strong women.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

You are a utility. It’s like getting a text from the refrigerator …. I mean WTF … of course she’s not going to reply … and if she did it would be saying …. shut the f~~~ up and do your job.

YOU ARE A UTILITY

[narwhalParticipant]

Victor, I don’t think you’re looking at this in the best way.  If you are not happy with your life because you’re alone, then you should look to change your behavior so that you aren’t alone.  That doesn’t mean that you need to throw more energy into dating sites, it means maybe make more/better friendships.  That most likely means friendships with other men.  Maybe that means you have some sort of relationship with a women as friends, or something a little more.  Use what you know about MGTOW to keep you from making mistakes, like thinking paying for dinner is going to be appreciated for example.

I guess what I’m saying, don’t lie to yourself and say you’re alone because of MGTOW.  No, you’re alone because of your shyness, etc.  If you aren’t comfortable with that, then work on fixing it.  And honestly, getting a GF or wife won’t make you feel less lonely.   You could actually end up trapped feeling lonely, and yet not allowed to be alone with your own thoughts.

 

Ok. Then do it.

[lonestar77Participant 406]

Because they are born that way.  It only gets worse as they get older.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me

[RoyDalParticipant]

As human beings, we are unique. We can use our rational minds to override our instinctual urges. Men wanting female approval is one of the big urges, above only fear of death. I say, get in the habit of overcoming them. Rule them instead of them ruling you.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Victor wrote:

..women probably pick this up from me

i’ve also been thinking lately about my body language and how i appear in public places and what signals i’m sending ..such as shopping
i’m not saying the way i act at a grocery store has anything to do directly with gmow, but especially in the last year or so, i do tend to naturally ignore
i guess it’s just they way i’ve become after twenty years of not caring what they think and whether they’re there or not
and maybe they sense something ..i just quietly and methodically tend to my business in a relaxed way and rarely make eye contact with female shoppers
i’m certainly not rude, and when i check-out i do speak briefly to the clerk
but as i go about my shopping, i would assume most guys look around at the gals much more than i do
as far as how i’m dressed, it’s just casual stuff, i’m certain in that regards i appear similar to most other guys in the store
..women do not approach me and start up conversation, so my distant behavior does not seem to be attracting anyone ..yet, they don’t
move away from me either, if i’m looking over the cheese selection in the center aisle cooler, there might be a youngish lady standing right next to me with her cart. she doesn’t move away so i know i’m not scaring her with my indifferent attitude; my ignoring her. i might pass her again in another aisle or two ..so maybe they are occasionally curious about this guy who treats them like wall flowers, or maybe, most likely it’s just coincidence ..i’ll never know and i don’t really care 🙂

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Or maybe they just like that cheese. Or maybe it’s both. We will never know.

hmskl’d wrote:

..so maybe they are occasionally curious about this guy who treats them like wall flowers, or maybe, most likely it’s just coincidence ..i’ll never know

Thinking and imagining scenarios is fun in its own way…

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[VictorParticipant 124]

Thanks to everyone for the comments and especially to Narwhal…

narwhal wrote:

Victor, I don’t think you’re looking at this in the best way. If you are not happy with your life because you’re alone, then you should look to change your behavior so that you aren’t alone. That doesn’t mean that you need to throw more energy into dating sites, it means maybe make more/better friendships. That most likely means friendships with other men.

That might not work as I am not really ‘attracted’ to men in the social sense in the way that most other men are.  Men tend to like hanging around with other men.  I’m one of the exceptions, in that I don’t.  I’m just being honest here – I find most (but not all – I don’t want to generalise too harshly) men to be boorish, arrogant, conceited, stupid, and – worst of all – dull.  Not to put a downer on men exclusively – I have a fair few things to say about women too, and being a man myself, I probably exhibit a lot of those qualities and attributes from time-to-time.  It’s just the way I feel about it – I’m an equal opportunities misanthrope.  I hate/dislike all (most) people.

I’ve got my own pet theory about this, specifically that I think the vast majority of heterosexual men have a latent sexual attraction to other men and this is ‘normal’ in the evolutionary sense.  Women pick this up as a signal of a man’s suitability, in that he is accepted by the group and is willing to conform with groupthink and values.  It’s a pre-programmed, instinctual thing.

A minority of heterosexual men, such as myself – we’re maybe 5% of the male population – can’t relate to other men in most situations and women sense this, which makes it harder (though not impossible) for us to form relationships with the opposite sex.  This is probably mostly due to a bad home and school environment, which moulds the personality in a certain way, combined perhaps with some genetic factors which express themselves negatively under said environmental conditions.

In a way, all this could be reduced to a more simple, common-sensical observation – the harder you find it to relate to other men, the harder it will be to relate to women too as they will observe your difficulties and be turned off by it.  If you like, you might say I’m an ‘extreme heterosexual’ – I have little or no interest in men at all, I am only interested in women.  In fact, if I was a woman (which I don’t want to be, just saying for argument’s sake), I’d probably be a lesbian – i.e. still only be attracted to other women.

Does that make any sense?  Probably not, but then real people are multi-layered and complex and often contradictory.  I’m not an effeminate man.  I have a typical male physique, some female-type interests (reading classic novels, writing, music, art) but also a lot of male-type interests (martial arts, boxing, computers, hiking, collecting stuff) and I have a general male-type outlook (my politcal views are far-Right, among other things).

narwhal wrote:

Maybe that means you have some sort of relationship with a women as friends, or something a little more.

Not interested, though the few times when I can say I have enjoyed a social conversation, it has been with a woman.  The stereotype is largely true – women are best at intimate conversations.  I want some more of that, but this time a romantic relationship.  I have never been ‘friends’ with a woman and don’t want to start now.  If friendship is all women have to offer me, they can stick it.

narwhal wrote:

Use what you know about MGTOW to keep you from making mistakes, like thinking paying for dinner is going to be appreciated for example. I guess what I’m saying, don’t lie to yourself and say you’re alone because of MGTOW. No, you’re alone because of your shyness, etc. If you aren’t comfortable with that, then work on fixing it. And honestly, getting a GF or wife won’t make you feel less lonely. You could actually end up trapped feeling lonely, and yet not allowed to be alone with your own thoughts.

Yes, good advice and this is all true.  Like others here, I am benefiting from this site.  I suppose I’ve always been a MGTOW-type person, but even for me, this site is a real education and the comments on here, yours and others, are excellent.  Thanks all.

[Anonymous 13]

Modern society, its laws created by white knights, simps/manginas.  Modernism.  Industrial revolution, hell ‘its complicated’ no one knows for sure, but their genetic instinctual drive to be an “entitled bitch” used to able to be remedied and curbed, but my god would that be terrible to do now-a-days.  So…we have bitches, and there is nothing we can do to teach them otherwise, or get them stop.  It really boils down to the single mamma nightmare epidemic that is on a self perpetuating crash with disaster.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

When they act rude and entitled, it is because they were raised that way.

Some come from some level of affluence, and they are simply “spoiled brats”.

Some come from a lifelong societal norm, which is now outdated, that makes them think that men are supposed to chase them.

Some were raised by modern feminazis, and now you have to “chase” them by proving to them that you think in line with their propaganda.

The bottom line conclusion is that they continue to act rude and entitled, because we let them do it.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Anonymous 13]

hmskl’d wrote:

..women do not approach me and start up conversation, so my distant behavior does not seem to be attracting anyone ..yet, they don’t move away from me either, if i’m looking over the cheese selection in the center aisle cooler, there might be a youngish lady standing right next to me with her cart. she doesn’t move away so i know i’m not scaring her with my indifferent attitude; my ignoring her. i might pass her again in another aisle or two ..so maybe they are occasionally curious about this guy who treats them like wall flowers, or maybe, most likely it’s just coincidence ..i’ll never know and i don’t really care

 

Similar story here.  Good writing bro

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Victor wrote:

I yearn for the touch and companionship of a woman who loves me and always have, since early childhood.

That’s a myth.

Women don’t love you. They love SHOES.

MEN >> WOMEN >> CHILDREN >> PUPPIES.

I never works in reverse. She is looking to YOU “for love and companionship”. But as a man you don’t get to expect any or be on the receiving end. That is a LIE beaten into you since your first Walt Disney movie.

It’s supposed to flow FROM you. Not TO you.
The man is f~~~ed and basically on his own.

It’s a brutal kick in the teeth, but the sooner you accept that reality, you will begin to see why it’s not a “bad” thing.

Why Are Women So Rude And Entitled?

Because they think the universe *OWES* them s~~~. It’s one of the tragic side effects of being born with a vagina. But they are not actually better off because of it.

One day, when they finally can’t get away with that behavior anymore, the reality of it punches them in the face…. in the same that you learn this valuable lesson EARLIER in life.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[,Participant 1301]

Why?
Because most modern (edit to ADD>) WESTERN WHITE KNIGHT men allow them to be.

Go MGTOW.

with joy/without hate

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Because they get away with it.

Don’t let them get away with it with you.

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

Let me use an analogy…

If every day you went out there were 10 homeless guys begging for money how long would it be until you started treating them like s~~~?

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

because of the power pussy has over betas and manginas.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[narwhalParticipant]

Victor wrote:

I’ve got my own pet theory about this, specifically that I think the vast majority of heterosexual men have a latent sexual attraction to other men and this is ‘normal’ in the evolutionary sense. Women pick this up as a signal of a man’s suitability, in that he is accepted by the group and is willing to conform with groupthink and values. It’s a pre-programmed, instinctual thing.

This would only makes sense if every attraction was sexual in nature. It would also mean that your desire to be in a family….mom, dad, siblings…would be about sex. Perhaps we have a need for physical touch and companionship that is not sexual in nature. Makes a whole lot more sense to me.

I completely understand why you would value female companionship over mail. For one thing, I think most boys have been trained against male bonding, and are punished for it, even though you are correct that women are attracted to men who bond well with other men. For this reason, most men are fairly s~~~ty at relating with other men. So again, I get while you favor female companionship over male.

Still, I think it’s worth investing effort in male friends when/if possible. You may find men who have similar interests and can be good friends, if given the time to do so.

Ok. Then do it.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

They believe, men can’t live without them. They think their needed. (Believe me, they actually believe their needed.) I hear it from the horses mouth, constantly.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[PhoenixRisingParticipant 3]

The reason women are so spoiled and entitled is because us men allow it. Rule 1 for any self respecting man is absolutely NO online dating!!! Seriously. Nothing will destroy a mans self esteem faster, and nothing will build a woman’s self esteem faster. So… by participating in online dating you play into women’s strengths and not yours as a man. You’look only meet stretched out dirty whores online anyways. Gross. So ditch online dating and meet women in the real world if you choose to. You will be pleasantly surprised how easy it is to get a younger, hotter, less sleazy woman this way. And no need to pay for dates either…it’s 2016 for crying out loud. Lol. Of course I’m 37 a male nurse and an residential parent to my 12 year old son. So…. for me there is nothing a woman can give me that I don’t have. So I now have the upper edge. I am socially way ahead of single childless women HAHA. So let them waste their time whoring around. I’ll happily stay in school for an advanced degree and take extravagant vacations with my son… or my nurse friends. See what I mean??? I can get a date or a f~~~ any day. Literally. But I’m sooooo far above that… seeking pleasure..?? It’s stupid. Infiltrate feminism from the inside and enjoy feministic benefits and play to your strengths men.
Let them waste time in this online dating fantasy while you build yourself up. And if you want a kid pay a surrogate!!! All dreams are obtainable for us men. Bottom line we CAN do it on our own.. and as much as a woman will say the same.. it is 100% fallacy. I’m LMAO on the inside every day watching these miserable single nurses who are a MESS… unable to do it on their own. HAHAHAHA

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