Why are women so LOUD?

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

On the other side of the thick wall from my work desk is a private room at a high-end steakhouse. It’s a classy joint, the kind politicians and rock stars and entire sports teams frequent.

And you know what? When the entire Buffalo Bills team crammed into that room for a private dinner, I could not hear a single sound coming from it. However, when there’s a gaggle of woman in there, like for a bachelorette party, the screeches penetrate through two feet of commercial grade, sound-dampening material like it was paper thin.

Harpies.

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

Nerevar wrote:

I have over-sensitive ears (hyperacusis), and even wearing my earpieces (they emit a sound akin to a breeze or the ocean to take the sharp edges away from other sounds) it can still be hell for me to go to the supermarket for groceries!

Women screech, children shout, they MUST screech louder than the one she’s talking with CONSTANTLY and it sometimes drives me nuts! It can get so bad that I’m swaying on my feet, silently begging everyone to shut up for five minutes…

Sometimes I feel like shouting “SHUT THE F~~~ UP!!!”, but I know that won’t help (plus it makes my condition way worse if I add my own voice to the cacophony), so I suffer in silence until I can flee the damn place.

I f~~~ing hate loud mouthed c~~~s.

Yeah, I’ve experienced this too with too much noise, I just want to scream at the top of my lungs: “SHUT THE F~~~ UP!” It’s f~~~ing annoying with so much background noise, it’s hard to concentrate your thoughts. And I don’t even have this hyperacusis thing, I suffer somewhat from tinnitus and it’s hard to get to sleep sometimes.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I too have a condition where I cannot filter out and stop listening to background chatter, so it gets really annoying at times. I’m thinking of putting this song on my cell and playing it loud when situation warrants it

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

I don’t really care Why women are so loud, I’m much more interested in just HOW do you shut them the hell up ??

So often, they just won’t f~~~in stop!! ANY ideas, suggestions ??

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Maybe they are so loud, and overly talkative, because if they had to sit quietly with their thoughts and reflections, something might occur that they can’t handle. Such as the revelation, that they are seriously screwed in the head.

But since i’ve never seen them be quiet, or that revelation hitting them either one, i’m going to have to say it’s a constant need to control the narrative. If there’s no discussion, they will create a random one, just so they can control the narrative. Add the self centered factor in, getting attention … and there you go.

[Anonymous 14]

Families with resources used to educate their girls on how to behave like ladies. How to sit, stand, walk, speak, dress…

Those who couldn’t be formally educated oftentimes absorbed good behaviors from their own families and the people around them.

Today, a vast majority of women simply have zero desire to be “ladylike”.

[GeraldParticipant 3630]

Awakened wrote:

I don’t really care Why women are so loud, I’m much more interested in just HOW do you shut them the hell up ??

So often, they just won’t f~~~in stop!! ANY ideas, suggestions ??

I was just thinking this reading through the responses.

I am working on the process of just responding quietly every time I speak to one, and see what happens. Sadly I have had to battle this noise often in meetings and such.

I am probably just raging but I find it difficult to drown out and I often want to just yell STFU!

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[Anonymous 22]

Anonymous wrote:

Families with resources used to educate their girls on how to behave like ladies. How to sit, stand, walk, speak, dress…

Those who couldn’t be formally educated oftentimes absorbed good behaviors from their own families and the people around them.

Today, a vast majority of women simply have zero desire to be “ladylike”.

Good point. I wonder why those same women want men to be gentlemen.

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