Why Are Men Frightened of Marriage?

[RoyDalParticipant]

Why Are Men Frightened of Marriage?
Paul Joseph Watson

Edit: “The state doesn’t benefit” says it all.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Because of how f~~~ed up that laws are against us

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Never attribute to conspiracy that which can be adequately explained by sheer incompetence.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Anonymous 42]

And feminism’s body count numbers in the multi millions over these decades, with no end in sight!
But in the fog of shifting culture stands the immovable and permanent WALL®….

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

Are men frightened of marriage = Do bears s~~~ in the woods.

The only men who aren’t frightended of marriage are the ones who’ve stupidly thought they’ve found themselves a unicorn.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Why Are Men Frightened of Marriage?

The question assumes an emotional state or response where there isn’t necessarily one to begin with.

It’s like asking “why are men frightened of buying timeshares?”

It’s not that we’re frightened, it’s that we’re not stupid.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

Frightened is not the word I would use, we are men, we fear nothing, we keep the wild animals and bitaches out, thus no marriage. We feed the wild animals and biatches with manginas.

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

Did PJW really say that being a player or a slut makes you more lonely? Is that true?

[OldBillParticipant]

Spank The Misandrists wrote:

Frightened is not the word I would use

You are correct. Frightened is the wrong word.

Because of the negative consequences items such as guns, high voltage, radiation, and hazardous materials can have on my life, I have a healthy respect for those items. When I take reasonable precautions to mitigate or remove the threats such items present, it’s not because I’m frightened. It’s because I’m smart and can learn from the mistakes of others.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 1]

Marriage NEVER benefited men, as benefited women. But any men that talked about this would be frowned upon. Men are not marrying anymore because it became SO APARENT that what society demands “worthy” or not became irrelevant. There are a lot of misinformation on this video, a lot of debunked myths, as for “married couples live longer” or “are happier”. I do ask this: Would rather live longer on a cage, or have a shorter life as a FREE MAN. And also, who they are asking? Is it women or men? Because the last time I checked, women happiness has been decreasing, but men has been INCREASING.

So yeah, the same old s~~~ of “Marriage benefits men because, reasons.”

And the only “reason” Paul here lists as women need a men is to be the f~~~ing bread winner. And that men are HAPPY to embrace it. REALLY?!?! Men should be happy to be a f~~~ing tool and nothing more?!?
Meanwhile the “motherhood” is treated as the “most important role a human can fulfill”. Are you serious? Fatherhood is not important then? Is this the good old days? Men treated as tools and women as goddesses?!?

F~~~ him.
Sorry, not buying this s~~~ anymore.

Paul is free to slave away though. F~~~ing TradCon.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

OldBill wrote:

Because of the negative consequences items such as guns, high voltage, radiation, and hazardous materials can have on my life, I have a healthy respect for those items.

Have you just implied by analogy that men have a healthy respect for a bad marriage??

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[NioZenParticipant 856]

Not frightened at all, I think it’s f~~~ing hilarious.

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

There are a lot of misinformation on this video, a lot of debunked myths (snip) Paul is free to slave away though. F~~~ing TradCon.

You’re right. He does repeat quite a few debunked claims and repeats older data that is no longer current.

Take the “married men live longer” claim. That was the result of shoddy statistical analysis and has been repeated ever since. One of the Freakonomics books or blog posts debunked it. The problem with the original analysis was that all single adult male deaths were counted. That number included two groups which skewed the results. The first was men between 18 and 24, an age group which engages in risky behavior, accounts for most deaths in the work place, is most likely to be murdered, accounts for most combat deaths, and – most importantly – who had never had a chance to get married in the first place. The second was men who had been married and were now divorced.

Once the statistical analysis was controlled for the young adult male and divorced male mortality “spikes”, it was found that life long bachelors actually live longer.

The problem with TradCons like Watson is that they truly believe we can turn back the clock. They don’t want to acknowledge that the egg cannot be unscrambled. However the current yawning gulf between men and women is potentially bridged, it won’t happen because we’ve returned to the days of Ozzie & Harriet, Leave it to Beaver, or even The Brady Bunch.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[OldBillParticipant]

Russky wrote:

Have you just implied by analogy that men have a healthy respect for a bad marriage??

Yes, most certainly. You’re confusing “healthy respect” with “wishing to possess”.

I have a healthy respect for loaded firearms, like most veterans. I never take their condition for granted and handle them with the greatest of care. Earlier in the service and now as a recreational shooter, I chose to handle guns and so take care to respect them.

I also have a healthy respect for superheated steam. I know it can kill me in an instant so I take all necessary precautions, only deal with it when absolutely necessary, and never assume anything when around with it. Occasionally my consulting work requires I deal with or be around superheated steam so I take special care to respect it.

Similarly, I have a healthy respect for marriage. I know marriage will destroy me as a man so I take all necessary precautions to avoid it at all costs. Nothing in my professional or private life requires me to be married, so I can avoid the threat marriage poses by avoiding marriage itself.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[DybbukParticipant 182]

The problem with marriage, when distilled to its core essence, is that it involves surrendering control. Prior to marriage, the option to walk away is very easy to exercise, for both parties. The relationship dynamic evolves in light of this important consideration.

Once the marriage vows occur, walking away becomes much more costly. This upsets the relationship dynamic and inevitably changes it into something different than it was. Men by nature are diminished when they are deprived of control over their own lives.

In past generations, this didn’t matter nearly as much, because men already lacked much control over their lives. They were struggling to survive, and depended heavily upon their standing within their communities. To the extent that getting married alleviated these struggles, it actually increased a man’s control rather than decreased it.

Today, the downside of marriage is amplified, and the upside is diminished. It may still be a positive for men who value family above all else. Otherwise, it’s akin to buying a lottery ticket. The man is either acting upon irrational emotions, or else he is gambling that the unpredictable post-marriage relationship is worth the control he is giving up. Sometimes the gamble pays off. More often, it doesn’t.

[HitmanParticipant]

yeah , not scared ..just smarter now !

[martygParticipant 103]

MonkeyMind wrote:

Are men frightened of marriage = Do bears s~~~ in the woods.
The only men who aren’t frightended of marriage are the ones who’ve stupidly thought they’ve found themselves a unicorn.

Reminds me of a quote from Shakespeare or Homer Simpson or someone: Fools rush in where angels fear to tread. (i.e. a woman’s heart/head/bedroom/etc) Angels of f~~~ing SMART.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

i’m not frightened of marriage or anything for that matter. but i know a stupid one-sided contract when i see one. marriage is the single worst contract a man can sign with the possible exception of signing a deal with the devil involving your soul.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[pharmerParticipant 407]

OldBill, Biggvs_Dickvs, and many others already nailed this one.
Frightened? No fkn way. Aware of the serious risks? Abos-fkn-lutely. Marriage and co-habitation are right up there on the list with chainsaw juggling, bobbing for hand grenades and using your scrotum as piranha bait.

Never fuck a crazy chick.

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