Why are guys still getting married???

[AutoliteParticipant]

I been living MGTOW for the past 25 years although I only found out two years ago that there was even a name for this kind of lifestyle. From what relationships I did have, I learned a long time ago that marriage was definitely a huge mistake. Everything my father told me about women and relationships was blue-pill bulls~~~ but I managed to figure out how things really are all on my own.

I don’t consider myself particularly brilliant, but if I can figure it out why is it that so many other guys haven’t? I mean with all the horror stories about marriage and relationships that we now have all over the internet, why is it that so many guys still choose to get married? Why isn’t it now obvious to all guys that getting married would be like sticking your face into a deep-fat fryer just to see what it would feel like?

I want to now what would need to happen, how bad do things need to get, before most guys will clue in???

(BTW I’m new here on this forum. Many thanks for letting me come aboard!)

[RoyDalParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

I been living MGTOW for the past 25 years although I only found out two years ago that there was even a name for this kind of lifestyle.

I was a confirmed bachelor. Then a pal pointed out the term “MGTOW.”

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[BoarParticipant]

Social conditioning and the web of lies are both extensive. It takes a long time or a very alert mind to question what is being imprinted upon young men.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Autolite wrote:

want to now what would need to happen, how bad do things need to get, before most guys will clue in???

“Most” guys won’t “clue in”.

Blue pill programming is thorough, and complete. This is reinforced DAILY throughout society.

More and More Men will walk away, but there are plenty of Manginas lined up to get married and be providers.

All any of us can do is to walk away and focus on OURSELVES.

Men must seek out the TRUTH for themselves !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

For the same reason some of us did– ” Shes the One.”– they gather.
Engaged men, If they are aware of the Divorce statistics(I’m sure every man is) , rationalize them in a way beilieving they”ll be the 1% that makes it.Against all odds ,these men trust their fiance just because she got on her knees and sucked his dick.
They are working on impulse.Not thinking.Its not even possible for them to see her any other way than perfect even if she is plain.

In their minds theyre even more lucky to have met someone so loving in a world of full failed marriages.Plainly, they have been seduced by a women who has mastered Manipulation.Its ridiculous that just because a women spreads her legs that a man draws the conclusion she cares about him. Shes not a virgin!

Your asking because you have an observant nature.You pay attention because something stood out even if it was sub-concious.

In sum,They get married because they have to learn the hard way.It wasnt anything but deception at work.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Men must seek out the TRUTH for themselves !!

What puzzles me most are the ones who get married more than once! I know a guy who’s now considering a fifth marriage after four previous disasters. I’m really just not getting this…

[Anonymous 0]

Autolite wrote:

, how bad do things need to get, before most guys will clue in???

Problem is that most guys WANT to believe in marriage and the goodness of women. An old adage comes to mind:
There are none so blind as those who refuse to see.
I agree with Awakened. Most guys will never see the world and women for what it is. But there doesn’t have to be a majority of men who go there own way; just enough to cause changes in laws and female attitudes.

[AutoliteParticipant]

If they are aware of the Divorce statistics(I’m sure every man is) , rationalize them in a way believing they”ll be the 1% that makes it.

It’s like knowingly and willingly sticking your head in a guillotine while thinking that “maybe this time the blade will jam”.

I just can’t seem to figure out why any guy would accept such long odds. I wish there a psychologist on this forum who can explain it so that I could understand.

I have a very low tolerance for risk, a risk aversion perhaps, which is why maybe I can’t see it the way most other guys do…

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

For the same reason that some guys gamble until they lose their shirt. You sit there playing thinking the big pay out is just around the bend. You know it’s not right, your blood pressure is up, but you do it anyhow. Guys will get married and stay so until they lose their shirt. You believe you’ll land your own unicorn, you believe she’s sleeping next to you every night, you’re ‘involved’ because you’re hoping for the payout (btw what is she actually bringing to the table again aside from poon?). Even Leykis was married four times. Just don’t enter the casino, problem solved. The house always comes out on top, like the weeminz, the odds are stacked way in their favor. Actually, wait, you will have better luck in a casino than with a resentful wife. At least you’ll be given a chance to get back up on your feet when you run out of chips.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[ProjectParticipant 507]

“Pride before fall” is the answer you are looking for. Hubris is a part of mankind and will forever be.

Now with that said, I welcome you to the forum, Autolite.

May your life be forever fruitfull

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

Autolite wrote:

What puzzles me most are the ones who get married more than once! I know a guy who’s now considering a fifth marriage after four previous disasters. I’m really just not getting this…

Proof they still hate themselves.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Autolite wrote:

Men must seek out the TRUTH for themselves !!

What puzzles me most are the ones who get married more than once! I know a guy who’s now considering a fifth marriage after four previous disasters. I’m really just not getting this…

I can see how ANY man can get sucked into the trap ONCE, but multiple disasters spells INSANITY.

Insanity = Doing the same thing over and over again expecting a DIFFERENT result

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[JVBParticipant]

Project wrote:

“Pride before fall”

Classic!!
Never happen to me. I’m special.

Welcome brother.

Peace is > piece.

[CrowbarParticipant 192]

Social conditioning, as mentioned above. In my case, the buddy that I hung out with met his now-wife and I figured I’d better get off the pot – at that time I hadn’t had a date in around five years or so. Long story short, met wife, had lots of sex early, figured she’s the one. Now I’m married to an immature nag who hates sex, who thinks that we can just spend money left and right because we both work, and who’s lazy as hell. I just love being married.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

When I was blue pill I never had any overwhelming desire to get married, yet I had no overwhelming desire not to get married either. So the woman I had lived with for several years started making hints about getting married and in the end I proposed just to keep her quiet for a bit. I went along with it as I saw it as an inevitability of life and I thought if I didn’t I would be single and on my own forever. Everybody I know seemed to be getting married and having children and everybody seemed happy for them so I thought it must be what you do in life to be happy.

Biggest mistake ever, what I actually learned is everybody who is married also wants you to get married as misery loves company. They hate people who decide not to get married as it makes them question their own life choices and makes them worry that they made a massive mistake.

Men get married as they think things are going to carry on as they currently are and that if they were single they would never get pussy again.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Because the only way you learn to swing a hammer is by smashing your thumb.

[AutoliteParticipant]

I see forums like this as a place to vent mostly and to offer support by listening to those who are only just learning what woman are really all about. OTOH, I have been starting to wonder if there’s a point when we perhaps shouldn’t be so sympathetic to the blue pill types.

Blue pill guys will turn up their noses at us MGTOW’s yet those same guys will look for someone who will listen to their p~~~in’-n-moanin’ when their next relationship/marrige goes for a s~~~…again.

Should we continue to be supportive of guys who simply refuse to acknowledge the obvious? Should we still feel sorry for someone who will repeatedly and knowingly follows the path of self destruction even after the dangers have been pointed out?

The internet has been around for what, something like thirty-five years now? The warning signs and horror stories about women, relationships and marriage are now everywhere. Is there a point where we should no longer feel sorry for the guys who choose to be wilfully ignorant of how things really are?

I just can’t seem to figure out why it is that these blue pill guys can’t seem to figure it out…

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