Why are female family members dream killers?

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

As a young mgtow i do know that if i have a girlfriend that she might in a jealous attempt to kill my future dreams because they only involve me (like being a musician because i would not need her because i have dozens of other chicks). But why do females in my own family tend to be dream killers? The thing is i am looking for a job and one of the things i want to do within a few months is go to a concert with tickets paid for by the money i make (Don’t worry i am not paying for chicks that would be a waste of money). But the female family members place doubt in whether or not i could do it (after a bit of training i will get the hang of it). The doubt include will i be able to secure a job? (There are 3 fast food joints by the same company within 2 miles of each other) will it be too late? (most likely not) generally that kind of stuff i am hearing.

So my question is why the f~~~ are female family members dream killers? I get if some chick does not want you to leave then she will try dragging you down but these are family members. I know they have the universal nature of women (they are complete awalts) but why do they want to kill my dreams?

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Ps i am not a musician but if i was one i probably would not post my work on here to defend my reputation. Even thou i probably would share it with a few mgtows via pm.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

anonymousyam wrote:

why the f~~~ are female family members dream killers?

This is not in your imagination. Because in order for your dreams to happen, it means hers will not.

A wedding / baby / house is a woman’s dreams come true and man’s dreams dashed. You can’t reach your full potential like that and every woman who holds you back knows it.

They think you should want what SHE wants. Female values:

• Commitment is more important than INDIVIDUALITY
• Feelings are more important than FACTS
• Safety is more important than FUN
• (unborn) Children are more important than (living) PEOPLE

Now ask every successful self-made man if he agrees.

It takes RISKS and major sacrifices to achieve your dreams. Big ones.
A woman would not prefer (or encourage) risk over security & safety.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

I think part of the answer is first they are women. They probably can’t help themselves. It could be they are just too stupid to see what they are doing. They may not realize that you have a dream and maybe in some way feel that you are too immature or are too young or inferior in some way to accomplish this dream. Being MGTOW you should realize that the best thing for you to do is ignore these females and go do what you want (as long as it is legal or doesn’t hurt somebody else). I just realized that maybe the answer is that you are not doing this for a female therefore it is not something you should do. Ignore them and GYOW( go your own way). Good luck

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

A usual KM you hit it right on.

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

In a woman’s eyes the purpose of a man is for him to serve his woman.
(you are a slave)

This is why women get so p~~~ed off when they see a man who refuses to marry.
It means that some poor woman out there in the world is going to have to work for a living instead of sitting on her ass eating bon bons all day and screwing the pool boy when the husband is at work.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

STOP THAT! NO INDIVIDUAL THOUGHT, SLAVE! GO BACK TO PARTICIPATING IN THE GAME.exe

^^^^

That’s the line of code being executed in just about every modern females’ mind.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Keymaster wrote:

anonymousyam wrote:

why the f~~~ are female family members dream killers?

This is not in your imagination. Because in order for your dreams to happen, it means hers will not.

A wedding / baby / house is a woman’s dreams come true and man’s dreams dashed. You can’t reach your full potential like that and every woman who holds you back knows it.

They think you should want what SHE wants. Female values:

• Commitment is more important than INDIVIDUALITY
• Feelings are more important than FACTS
• Safety is more important than FUN
• (unborn) Children are more important than (living) PEOPLE

Now ask every successful self-made man if he agrees.

Its my sister going on about it mostly even thou i see very little potential in her life so that may cause jealously (she will most likely live with my parents till she is either kicked out or marries off). Having kids is really the death of a man. Marriage is bad enough since men are in a legal contract with a devil but once the kids come out a man is a complete slave and women view this as their main aspiration in life. I cannot let women get in and ruin my life before it really even starts (or after it starts).

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

anonymousyam wrote:

Its my sister going on about it mostly

Doesn’t matter. Sister. Mother. Girlfriend. Wife.
This is the part they will NEVER tell you:

Women want men to be the man SHE wants him to be.
Not the man HE always wanted to be.

Their selfishness and self-centeredness is off the charts.
Just watch what happens when a man gets his own way.

They will even accuse YOU of being “selfish” for that. She won’t even want you to have the CAR you always wanted(!). And there is reason this commercial was banned.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Wandering MGHOWParticipant 551]

I started a business when I was around 20 years old selling custom product on my website. People were beginning to send me emails about featuring me on their blogs, my products were selling well, and I was receiving a ton of compliments from everywhere. My mother kept drilling it into my head that I should get a real job and do this as a “hobby” (even though there was a TON of money to potentially be made). I got no support from my mangina uncle’s, cousins, or brother.

The negativity was starting to get to me and to make matters worse, my mother blabbed to every f~~~ing person on earth that her son started a business. It seemed to me that she wanted to take all the credit of being the mother of a productive son for her own personal benefit. She didn’t actually care about me or my business doing well, and behind the scenes was always telling me to get a “real” job. She sure loved to brag to her phoney female friends however. She couldn’t stop bragging and boasting and trying to secretly make them jealous. To women, it’s nothing but a game up one-upping each other.

– My son started a business.
– Oh, how nice. Did I tell you christopher graduated with a 4.0 GPA?
– That’s wonderful. Oh by the way my other son is getting married soon.
– Nice. Steven already did that last year and is expecting a baby soon.

With all the negativity I was experiencing from her and mangina’s, as well as her blabbing to everyone and shouting it out to the world, I ended up closing the business down. I still get sad over it to this day because I feel like it was “my baby” and I worked so hard on it. I often think about what would’ve happened or how things would be today if I kept it running. What made my business so great was the passion that it was birthed from. As silly as it sounds, it was mainly fueled by a girl who broke my heart. I wanted to “show” her by becoming rich and successful. Along the way I started to get motivated by other things like actually opting out of the 9-5 lifestyle and doing things my way. It’s one of my life top 3 biggest mistakes/regrets and the saddest thing is that I never found that passion ever again. It was during a time of my life where I was still a “kid” and full of hope.

One piece of advice I can give you all is that you should keep things like that a secret from even your closest family. They will envy you and try everything in their power to prevent you from doing it. Crabs in a bucket mentality. I wish I kept my business a secret from my mother. But I confided in her and it turned out to be a disaster. I feel like my business would’ve eventually blew up, but I’ll never know now.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

To women, it’s nothing but a game up one-upping each other.

So true. @mgtow4life‘s description above is b~~~~ accurate. My brother had a “grand opening” of an office move – today. My Mom couldn’t wait to splatter the pictures all over and send them across the Ocean to EVERYONE.

In the early years, he was SO hell-bent on holding me back and crushing my dreams. By the time I was 24, and totally against her wishes, I accomplished my first major goal.

Guess who showed up to “celebrate”.

I often think the FAR distance I travelled across the world was because she pulled the rubber band as far back as she possibly could. By my 18th birthday I was already starting a life overseas.

We get along fine, love like family members should , I speak to her more often than most sons (from what I gather)… but EVERY major decision and desire was disapproved. My brother lived at home until he was 26, is now married with a massive mortgage and lives 5 minutes away from her with 2 daughters. She approves of that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Perhaps they have no dreams or real ambitions of their own.
I’ve met too many angry and bitter women whose dreams have never come to them. It seems it never occurred to them that they had to work to make their dreams come true.
They don’t just magically come true.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Grumpy wrote:

Perhaps they have no dreams or real ambitions of their own.
I’ve met too many angry and bitter women whose dreams have never come to them. It seems it never occurred to them that they had to work to make their dreams come true.
They don’t just magically come true.

But…I think their dreams are true when they are young and hot and get lots of dick, attention, and gifts from men because vagina. Once they hit the wall and the dick, attention, and gifts begin to go away, they become angry and bitter when they realize they only got those things because of their youth and looks and now that their youth and looks have faded they will never obtain those things again. Once they realize they’ll never find a decent husband it just makes things even worse…I hope the spin on the carousel was worth missing out on marriage c~~~s!

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Keymaster wrote:

MGTOW4life wrote:

To women, it’s nothing but a game up one-upping each other.

So true. @mgtow4life‘s description above is b~~~~ accurate. My brother had a “grand opening” of an office move – today. My Mom couldn’t wait to splatter the pictures all over and send them across the Ocean to EVERYONE.

In the early years, he was SO hell-bent on holding me back and crushing my dreams. By the time I was 24, and totally against her wishes, I accomplished my first major goal.

Guess who showed up to “celebrate”.

I often think the FAR distance I travelled across the world was because she pulled the rubber band as far back as she possibly could. By my 18th birthday I was already starting a life overseas.

We get along fine, love like family members should , I speak to her more often than most sons (from what I gather)… but EVERY major decision and desire was disapproved. My brother lived at home until he was 26, is now married with a massive mortgage and lives 5 minutes away from her with 2 daughters. She approves of that.

>2 daughters, a high mortgage, and 5 minutes away from mommy.
Oh f~~~ that must be a nightmare having daughters is already a big enough curse for a man. Daughters are already abortion worthy but now he is a slave to a mortgage and 5 minutes away from his mother.

This is something i cannot let myself become. Even if i was to fall into the marriage trap i must never tie myself down like that. 1 is i would never have a daughter. and 2 is to never buy a house. And by going my own way i can avoid all of it.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[VerityPhantomSpectator 263]

@anonymousyam I understand what you are going through completely, and I want to add in a dash of some other perspective. Feel glad that they are taking THIS route as opposed to the other one, I’ve known many a man who were SPOILED ROTTEN by their mothers/sisters/aunts. This, in my opinion will make you WEAK and never be able to break the mold of mangina I think the spoiled rotten route is harder to break away from because they come off as “loving” and so the indoctrination takes root more strongly. This spoiled route will guarantee their slavery to women, Use this negativity to propel yourself forever onwards. I knew a BOY once (he was 23.) and he had everything handed to him by his Mother, cars, clothes, and on some occasions even c~~~. (his mother set him up with her friends daughters) I found him disgusting but at the time I didn’t know why. He thought he was hot s~~~ even though he never earned a damn thing in his life. He even had his college paid for him, it was repugnant. The sad thing is I would WORK for his mother and bust my ass daily to please her and she would turn around and HAND HIM money that I helped her make. No matter now though, let these experiences transform you into a MGTOW master. Apply at many places and don’t let anything deter you, nothing in life is free and if it is question the motives of why.

[AttonParticipant]

Because they hate the success of men rather than trying to be successful themselves.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

anonymousyam wrote:

But why do females in my own family tend to be dream killers?

Because they’re female.

They don’t give a damn about your dreams, your happiness, your success. They only care bout how you can serve their dreams, their happiness, their success, and the dreams, happiness, and success of other women who would be beholden to them.

They care no more for your aspirations than they would care about the dreams of the dishwasher or the goals of the vacuum cleaner. You, in yourself, do not matter to them. Only what you can do for women matters to them.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

My flying career flourished when I first started out and single. Stagnated when married and boomed when divorced.

I think it’s back to the cave thinking.

Women want to be safe. That means a man close at hand.

Women won’t/can’t explore so they don’t understand that that is what progresses society.

They only care about this nice comfy world here. They won’t risk/gamble that comfort for a bigger better one.

They will wait until another man that has already done it comes along. Then he will be enslaved and not allowed to explore.

They can’t help it …. that’s why you just have to fk them off and go explore.

Slave to the pussy or adventure and risk …. pick one.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I think it has a lot to do with them “putting you in your place” which is to say, making you the resident work horse. Why should she care what you want? She thinks your role in life is to be her slave. She doesn’t care if you’re creatively fulfilled or happy, you’re a tool to her. This goes along with the constant “get a job, marry, have kids” dogma that they like to shove at us. Some derivation thereof is dangerous. How dare you live for yourself! How dare you not work yourself into an early grave to pamper a woman! It means they will lose a meal ticket, or if it’s your family, they want to help some woman out there find hers in you. Who cares? It’s your life to live.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

How dare you not work yourself into an early grave to pamper a woman! It means they will lose a meal ticket, or if it’s your family, they want to help some woman out there find hers in you.

Its the hive mind set…they’re all in it for the good of the hive.

Silverstone the Second wrote:

How dare you live for yourself!

Funny how feminism encourages women to do this…until they hit the wall, and then when you as a man say f~~~ off, I’m not marrying your post wall skanky ass and I’m not dealing with all the drama and baggage you have accumulated while enjoying your long hard ride on the carousel…suddenly you are greedy and selfish for wanting to live for yourself.

Sorry c~~~s…my days of wanting to find a good woman and build a life together ended years ago when I realized there weren’t any good women in my generation…thanks for not hooking me when I was still blind to reality!

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