Who should pay on dates?

[lonestar77Participant 406]

This guy really hit the nail on the head. Too bad the room of stereotypical women still scoffed at him. He explained it so that a 5 yr old could understand, yet those stupid bitches still have no idea what equality is. (other than it all being about them)

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me

[Anonymous 3]

Nobody should pay for dates period.

If you are sexually attracted to someone, you won’t ever want to spend their money.

If you’re not, you should stop pretending you are just to take their money. That is theft at best and prostitution at worst. Both are crimes.

If you want to go out, pack a picnic basket and head to the park or the beach. Shouldn’t cost a cent.

[Psl47Participant 678]

Oh .. okay ,, so this guy maybe “fixed” that one particular problem … what about other 9999999999 problems?

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[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Nobody should pay for dates period.

Absolutely.

Her time is not more valuable than yours. In fact, it’s more likely the other way around. There is one way to find out. Does paying for a date PAY? Now what if man didn’t GO on a date and worked instead.

Any woman who thinks you need to “pay for a date” with her is a whore. Plain and simple.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 0]

Why does he have a brown smudge on his shirt? You think he hugged some chic and she wiped her troweled on makeup on him?

[Anonymous 2]

The woman should pay for her food and drinks and the man should pay for his, plain and simple. Women want the traditional man, but they don’t want to be the traditional woman. And by all means, I f~~~ing hate traditionalism because I think it was a s~~~ deal for men, because men were always the ones sacrificing their money or safety for the protection and benefit of women, but women it both ways. They want to say that it is sexist for men to want women to be the traditional woman and be a homemaker and fall in line with traditional female gender roles, and at the same time tell men that they still have to fall in line with traditional male gender roles. It’s a shining example of why feminism is so f~~~ing hypocritical. It’s nothing to do with equality and everything to do with women getting the better end of the deal at all times.

[Anonymous 11]

F~~~ it, Chads never pay for dates.

Why should we?

[Anonymous 42]

The government should pay for dates! They’re the ones that own you in the end!

[RASmanParticipant 1994]

Simple solution: Don’t go on dates.

[pharmerParticipant 407]

I was wondering why the audience was filled with chicks yet he wasn’t showerd with abuse and used sanitary products for saying this.
Seems its a ‘dating tips for women’ talk. They’re getting so desperate they are resorting to exposing themselves to… god forbid… reality. Worse yet they are taking advice from a man.

Too fkn late ladies. Nope. Goodbye.

Never fuck a crazy chick.

[Anonymous 12]

This guy really hit the nail on the head.

Negative.
He starts out well, gives a Glimpse of equality but then dilutes his standard into “the woman needs to show she tries to contribute”.

Very Strong Negative from me on this one.
Too weak, to small an expectation.
She gets just as good food, shares just as nice a Hotel room, and therefor should pay 50%.
But she cannot, but excuse, but wage gap, but her income is less…

Well… She stays home and i take the Dog on the trip instead.

Trying… allows for failure.
At this point there cannot be any failure.
time for trying and finding excuses is over.

[JVBParticipant]

She pays for her order/drinks and you yours. Simple. Up front you say separate checks please.

Peace is > piece.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Good for him to challenge the paradigm, but it’s a purple-pill attempt at best. “If you go on a date and he doesn’t pay, he wasn’t taught right” certainly doesn’t sound red pill.

EDIT: I’ve heard the claim that on the first date, “the person who asks should pay,” and I’m not entirely against it. The problem is that “the person who asks” is the man 99% of the time. However, to be perfectly fair and unbiased, girls who have asked me out in the past always paid for me, even though I always offered to split.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9544]

I think he and she should pay for themselves; their own meal, their movie ticket. I mean where is it written in stone that the man has to pay everything while she gets the free ride? It’s not right the man has to pay for everything while she sits on it.

Best solution, just don’t date if she doesn’t agree to paying her own share.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[GrumpyParticipant]

I am totally unqualified to answer the question.
I dont “date”. It’s not worth my time, effort, or money.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

I keep “dates” simple.

Date #1:
Coffee – it’s a nominal gesture and it does not really matter who pays. I would buy a coffee for a collegue and view this as simple socialization. Cost < $2.00

If I like you (notice, I decide if you have potential)

Date#2:
Fun activity – no dinner. Go bike riding, walk in the park etc. Cost – minimal to nil.

If I like you still:

Date#3
Afterwards, it’s dinner and a movie at my place – with the documentation system activated for false accusations. Cost – minimal to nil.

Consensual sex or the relationship ends. 3 dates max as I know a Chad gets its on the first. If she’s not ripping your clothes off by the third meeting she views you as a beta and is trying to cuck you for extract resources. Women need sex more than men- never let anyone tell you otherwise.

I’m frugal enough in my post divorce relationships that they are self limiting to 3 months or less. They realize that they will not extract resources and move on.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

I used to do the same thing as you Eyeswideopen. I wouldn’t mind buying a beer or coffee the first time. Second date was either dinner and a movie (Which I cooked and provided the movie) or a walk. 3rd date was always different but if the pants didn’t come off, there wasn’t a fourth date.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

RASman wrote:

Simple solution: Don’t go on dates.

This.

Dating is just a ritual on the path to marriage. If you don’t intend to get married, why take even a step on that path?

Besides, you can have all the fun people expect to get out of dating without actually dating. so why bother?

One of the most important things you can say to a woman is: “This is not a date.”

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

1. Don’t date.

2. If you do she has to pay.

I’ve never payed for a woman in my life.
They’ve always payed for me.

If you pay for a “date” you’re a beta chump and deserve the f~~~ing-over you’re about to get.

Monk

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

I agree with most of my brothers above.

Towards the end of my blue pill days, I stopped doing traditional dates like dinner and movie. I took them to parks, on hikes, on bike rides, invited them over for a movie or a dinner I made. I didn’t spend a f~~~ing dime on them.

Of course I now do not date at all, and find that the best course of action these days.

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