Who has your back?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I will go on the record here, which lends context to what I am going to write here, that I have no group identity at all, and am just an American citizen by birth. At most, my connections would be people I know personally. There is Christianity to some extent, and wishing Christian life, and church life were better. I am a registered independent. I am a non-conformist who ends up not fitting into much. I am single, never married, with no kids, and will turn 50. MGTOW, for me, is by where I am personally, rather than a label I wear.

Ok, this is my background. Now, based on this, I would ask this question: Who really has your back? I wonder this, and ask in the political realm. Understand my background. What I see with the MGTOW label, and also politically, is individuals that presume that they are part of a group, and somehow, people like them, will look after them. I see in the area of nationalism, ethnocentrism, racism, the whole appeal for “European values” or “Judeo-Christian values”, etc… some sort of appeal to try to get large numbers of similar people together, in form of protection or benefit somehow, as if doing this will be of benefit for individuals. I see with white nationalist, etc… a desire to try to get masses of whites together to “take back America” or whatever. I see with this fear of those different, and that somehow, linking together with people are similar, there will be gain.

I even see this with the MGTOW label, with implied demands being put on men in the MGTOWsphere to think certain ways, borderline worship Trump, or whatever, hold certain views, and be in agreement. The term “brother” gets thrown around also with this. Deviation from certain views leads to arguments, and there is a battle for identity. Simply being a man who doesn’t marry isn’t enough, but more is demanding.

Well, my question here is: Exactly what do you expect realistically to get out of it? Do you really expect those who merely share similar attributes as you to be safe? Do you really think they will look after you in any way? Just because someone has a similar ethnic or racial background as you, why do you think they will do anything to benefit you, just because? Does the fact that a man is MGTOW, and not marrying, and swearing off marriage, mean he will even bother to stop if you were having issues on the side of the road? Do you really think this? Do you think that, just because you are a certain race, another person of that race will do anything to help you, just because you are the same race? Take this politically also. Do you expect someone, just because they are the same political party as you, they will do anything?

So, in other words, who has your back? And do you expect giving yourself over to some belief system or world view, will make any difference?

Only way I see you can have anyone have your back is to try to bargain with yourself, have value, and whatever you negotiate. Anything else with strangers isn’t going to cut it. There is rule of law and governments, and rights as citizens, but this will often come at the end of a gun in the end, and what can be enforced.

Only other place may be religious affiliation, or a Fraternity, but that will often come through what one knows.

Outside of all this, why expect anything else?

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Do you wanna get ass f~~~ed?
Becouse thats how you get ass f~~~ed.
Dont trust your back to anyone, everyone is an enemy.

In the matrix, everyone is an agent.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 12]

I learned very young (about 8) that no one has my back. I was let down by the people who are supposed to support you no matter what.

When your parents let you down it is a bit hard to think anyone or anything else is going to back you up.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

The only people I can imagine that would have my back are my sons. But as much as I love them I know that I have to be prepared for anything, even if that means not expecting the support I had hoped for from them, even if it’s temporary, as they go through some phase or difficulty. That being said, generally speaking I believe that my sons would have my back, pretty much.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[AwakenedParticipant 35206]

Your expecting the MATRIX, “to have your back” ????

IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) wrote:

Only other place may be religious affiliation, or a Fraternity, but that will often come through what one knows.

How is this NOT part of the Matrix ??

You are ON YOUR OWN……..

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 38]

Why expect anything else indeed?

It seems a moot question.

The odd true friend in life may have your back – in some situations although probably not all.

It’s far healthier and more productive to assume no one has your back. By and large they don’t. Once you realise this you can become truly independent.

[Anonymous 42]

IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) wrote:

Who really has your back?

I don’t have a back! I turn around too quick so they don’t ever see the target painted on it! (just above the tail bone)

IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) wrote:

I even see this with the MGTOW label, with implied demands being put on men in the MGTOWsphere to think certain ways, borderline worship Trump

Border line trump worship? Have you seen libtards deity Hellary? THAT’S WORSHIP!

I trust NOTHING in the (so called) geopolitical legal realm, that’s where the real sharks are!

Corrupt laws guiding brainless automatons is the most deadliest thing menacing the western world and destroying its men!

You can’t fix broken law with more broken laws, it’s the downward spiral that’s ruining everything! A massive meteor is our only hope of scrubbing the filthy laws away with those that adore them and benefit thereof!

Only death is gonna fix this mess!

[DocParticipant]

YOU have your back.
I have my back.
It’s how it is.

But there is beauty in that realisation. You don’t rely on anyone. Totally free. That is f~~~ing excellent.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Anonymous 6]

Nobody is entitled or required to have anyone’s back, but part of being a good person is helping each other when you can. Never be afraid or think that you are too good to help somebody out. I recently picked up this book called “The Way of Men by Jack Donovan”. And in that book, he talked about the importance of finding like minded people and creating a group within yourselves. This would apply to groups like the Freemasons, any fraternities, or just neighborhood groups. Get a group of men together over a common bond, and have each others back.

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