Ok – I’m a normal looking guy.. Very normal. Never been described as overly good looking, and also (almost) never been described as ugly. After my divorce 10 years ago I got so much pussy from online dating… seriously. It is not that hard. I am in no ways a PUA. But it is NOT that unpredictable. Keymaster above had it … it really is a very simple formula. You intrigue them. You give them tasks – like homework – its not quite “treat them like s~~~” but absolutely do NOT treat them like princesses – and the number 1 tip — seriously this one is golden.. You just BE DIFFERENT from the other dudes on the site. I dont do it anymore, but I helped a good friend recently, and it still works a charm. Speaking for my own profile – I had NO PROFILE pic (true – maybe u cannot do that anymore) , I had one – two line profile that was so f~~~ing different to everyone else.. It basically said – if you used the word ‘soulmate’ in your profile then DO NOT contact me… I checked the site every few days – met 2-3 per week and had about 80% success rate (probably 50/50 on first date).
The point is BE DIFFERENT. I looked at all these guys in shirtless pics, describing how often they went to the gym… I dont do that so why would I compete in their game ( I wouldnt). I saw guys in suits- trying to portray “business exec”. Again -I was not gonna do that. Dont try to be the same type of chad you see on the site over and over. If you are – you’re gonna be ranked up against them, in their game. Just be different, and be intriguing. For me now – tatoos are a dime a dozen. It no longer says “bad boy” like it did in the 80’s or 90’s. For f~~~s sake, my grandmother got a small tatt on her 80th birthday a decade ago. They have become boring. Just be different. First date – girl says “what do you earn / whats your job ?” My response was always “ooh hahaha – I just dont talk about those things until I know someone quite well. And you ? do you blab all your personal details to people you just met ? “.. Also – I always did first meeting at around close of business, straight from office, to nearby cafe. Play it by ear — coffee or tea — maybe continue on to beers or even a meal… depends if it looked promising. Also… in first meeting .. we had a coffee.. yeah I paid for 2 coffees, then time for beers… I would say “I might get something stronger than coffee, I feel like a beer. what about you ?” if they say “yes”. I’d say “well these drinks are your turn, for mine ask a carlsberg”. Sometimes I bought the first round of drinks – usually not – but absolutely never would I pay more than one round of coffee, and one round of drinks, if they didn’t contribute to some food or drink costs… The bottom line — do not be a wuss, do not play their game. and do not be the same as every other guy out there… Now that is all I know.. Not unpredictable … Even though hamster brain logic is not from this planet, but it can be decoded.
You mean well I’m sure, but the internet dating scene is SATURATED with thirsty, horny dudes begging for a woman’s attention.
Absolutely disgusting male behaviour!
Every man since the birth of internet dating sites/services has been told to “be different”, “stand out”, “excite her”, “neg” her, blablablabla!
Of course we have the pool of men that just spam women with one-liners, but the amount of (secret) White Knights trying SO HARD to get in her pants by “gaming her” or “being unpredictable” have only grown to a ridiculous quantity! Any man (if you’re not rich or a supermodel) signing up on a dating site is a f~~~ing tool!
F~~~ that!
I will just be myself 100% AND I WILL NOT F~~~ING CHANGE in order to excite some c~~~’s meat socket! Oh, to be the man that she allows to entertain her for the day (or week if you’re lucky)………..
It’s a losing battle anyway.
Sure, I can be polite and do nice things to her if I want, and show affection — but that is NOT enough for a bitch in 2017! So F~~~ her, she can go to hell for all I care. Dense bitch, she only cares about the next like on social media and right swipe on tinder or the next simp or bad boy that gives her fresh attention.
Go to f~~~ing hell whore, and I hope the wall hits you HARD in your early 30’s. You should’ve treated men nicer, c~~~! Now it’s GAME OVER!
Anonymous 2 years, 7 months ago.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
