Where Men Go Wrong In Life

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

I can finally see it all clearly now. It took me all these years but I can finally see it all clearly.

What happens to most men is that they have this urge to find a woman to marry. They will do it even if they are not really all that interested in doing it.
They THINK they want to do it because their parents, their family, society, everyone’s expectations of what “makes a man” all rides on finding a woman to marry.

Men think that if they are not married and eventually have kids, then they have failed in life. But this is precisely where most men go wrong in life! With this belief system.

So man gets married to the woman who caught his eye with her pretty looks and bangin’ body. Shortly thereafter, said woman becomes older looking than her actual age and she becomes a bit fat too. But it’s too late, he is “in love” and married and has kids with her. He did what everyone said he should do.

But then he finds himself miserable. He has the job that is killing him. But he must keep that job otherwise his wife and their kid’s lifestyle will go out the window. It all rides on him and how successful he is at his job.

Man is trapped in a life that he hates.

I think that men, young men in particular, need to think with their BRAINS and not their dicks or their hearts. Men have to realize that just because women are so attractive……..doesn’t mean that they deserve your hand in marriage and a lifetime of misery trying to keep them happy with their every need.

Right now, I am at a place in life where women no longer have any power over me. Even a really beautiful young woman……….I can see through her. I can see through that beautiful exterior. I know what she is all about and I want none of it.

Suddenly, even the hottest girls in their 20’s……………..they are just not all that important to me anymore.

Once you realize that the “prize” is not really a prize at all………..you can be happy in life.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

yep. i wish i could find statistics but most men marry for the wrong reasons, not to imply that there are right ones. societal pressure, family pressure, religious pressure, just as a reward for her being “good to me all these years/months”, can’t think of a reason not get married, are lonely, think she’ll break up if he doesn’t (partner pressure), all his friends are getting married, and on and on.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

The way things are today any man considering getting married may as well acknowledge he hates himself.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

Right now, I am at a place in life where women no longer have any power over me. Even a really beautiful young woman……….I can see through her. I can see through that beautiful exterior. I know what she is all about and I want none of it.

Suddenly, even the hottest girls in their 20’s……………..they are just not all that important to me anymore.

Once you realize that the “prize” is not really a prize at all………..you can be happy in life.

Absolutely! I see this smoking hot 26yo at the cafe every morning and I don’t play into her s~~~ like every other guy and kiss her ass. I am more like “meh” and guarded around her and never answer any of her questions straight. It’s really cool now because she is no longer flirty and overly smiley but mirroring me by being guarded and aloof. I ain’t gonna break if that is what she is unknowingly doing.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

Once you realize that the “prize” is not really a prize at all………..you can be happy in life.

Along with everything else you said, but that line just nails it for me.

You get to pound the vag way shorter than how much the vag pounds you for yrs.

It’s like a fruitcake, it sounds like a great idea, but after you partake, you are like…

WTF???

[The_reality_factorParticipant 211]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

Once you realize that the “prize” is not really a prize at all………..you can be happy in life.

Very true!

Many times, the “prize” is just a turd wrapped in a gift box!

[Anonymous 5]

A few are great to look at, some are worth renting, but they’re all changeling’s, severely depreciating assets with profound economic and emotional maintenance issues.

[RoyDalParticipant]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

What happens to most men is that they have this urge to find a woman to marry.

Yep. I know I do. I happen to know gay men who have wives and children. It’s why the human species has such a large population on this Earth.

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I think that men, young men in particular, need to think with their BRAINS and not their dicks or their hearts. Men have to realize that just because women are so attractive……..doesn’t mean that they deserve your hand in marriage and a lifetime of misery trying to keep them happy with their every need.

I thank my lucky stars that I had a fear of marriage that was stronger than my urge to marry. It got me out of voluntarily putting on the chains of marriage and becoming a slave.

Anonymous wrote:

A few are great to look at, some are worth renting, but they’re all changeling’s, severely depreciating assets with profound economic and emotional maintenance issues.

A woman’s beauty is like an ice cube in your hands on a hot day. It’s melting while you look at it. If anyone marries for looks, they are looking for a big disappointment.

That lithe, lithesome teen queen from high school? She’s going to be a look-alike for Jabba the Hutt twenty years later. Be glad she wouldn’t let you date her back then, or be very glad you didn’t marry her if you did date.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 12]

About 20 years ago when I was 20 I knew a guy my own age who had already had a kid with a woman who can only be described as useless. He had a heap of other problems as well which didn’t help him but he was the one who was stuck with the kid when she ran off and a few months later decided she wanted to come back and play happy families.

He turned to me one day and said “I don’t get it, I did what I was supposed to do, I found a woman and had a kid. And yet it didn’t work out”.

He wasn’t very bright so I didn’t bother going into it with him but I think we all know that the problem was exactly that, he did life by numbers and followed the instructions without thinking about what he really wanted.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Ok, this mornings update from the 26 yo girl at the cafe as mentioned above.

I walk in there and she is a smiley and reasonably friendly. She mentioned that she hadn’t seen me for a while and what I have been up to. So i said “Oh ive been in Sydney mostly lately.” She said “For work?” I said “No, ive been staying at my girls place (24 yo brazilian girl I am nailing causally, im 40 yo) quite a bit and just come back here when I have some work to do or see my family.”

Wow the absolute change in her physical, facial and attitude was immediate and overwhelming. I couldn’t decipher if she was p~~~ed off, upset or if the hamster wheel was in overload…

But it didnt end there. A decent bloke walks in who runs a successful window cleaning business. He grabs a coffee and leaves and one of the other girls mentions what a lovely guy he is. This bird then says “Well you don’t have to be too switched on to be a window cleaner.” I couldn’t help myself, i said “Excuse me? He has been running that business for over 25 years and is worth serious coin. You think he isn’t switched on? You have a degree in nutrition, yet you are the one at 26 pulling coffees at a cafe for $15 p/h. Now, please tell me who the non switched on one is?”

Grabbed my coffee and left.

Now this girl is euroasian and Id nail her in a heartbeat, she’s hot. But those last couple of visits has told me everything about her and what an absolutely shallow, entitled and ugly creature she is. Now I def wouldnt nail her, in fact she is a complete turn off but I can definitely see guys doing anything for a sniff of her taco.

God, I loved it!

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Anonymous wrote:

A few are great to look at, some are worth renting, but they’re all changeling’s, severely depreciating assets with profound economic and emotional maintenance issues.

Spot on!

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