When your mum mentions suicide

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

My Mother lives in a different city to me with my younger sister.

They were homeless for four years and bounced between sofas of different family members.

During that time, they also both lived rent free with me for a year.

I’ve spoken about this before, but they basically only contact me when they want money and abuse me for not visiting / staying in touch. Such is the life of a son, I’m sure it’s the same with you guys.

As you can imagine tension is very high within the family. I live a 3 hour drive from anyone so I’ve stayed out of it. I don’t talk to anyone except them.

A few months ago I told them I’d be cutting them off financially. They were draining me and I was still recovering from supporting 3 people for a year with no support from either. Bare in mind I’m only 27. I’m not financially secure but I do manage my money very well. My bills always get paid.

My dad is very wealthy but they split just after I was born (well-played dad). My sisters dad is dead. Her step dad is out of the picture and my mums in the process of her 2nd divorce. TYPICAL s~~~, you’ve heard it all before. As you can see, I was their Husbank. She’s teaching all this to my poor sister, only 18.

NOW, they’ve both finally found work and are due to start next week. We all bundled together to get them a flat and buy a cheap used car with insurance. Every time I call them, Mum is MISERABLE. We’ve got no money for food etc etc. YET, when I visit, they’re both smoking cigarettes, buying weed and applying whore make-up.

This weekend was a family event (something I haven’t attended for a good few years), but said I would go with them.

Basically they’ve bailed because they can’t afford to get there and they’re both depressed. I said I’d pick them up and she went off on one.

“No one cares about us”
“I’ve had some dark thoughts”
“What’s the point of going on”

WHAT THE F~~~?! – How do you even say that to your children?

I have no sympathy for people who have FAILED TO HELP THEMSELVES and she attempts to make me feel bad?

I deal with facts and I’ve told them both for a long time about the DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIORS they indulge in.

I don’t begin to understand mental health, but I do know there’s a lot you can do for yourself and they do nothing. They both went YEARS without working because they ‘couldn’t find anything decent’ but they’re LAZY. I told them MANY TIMES, any job is better than NO JOB. Especially here in the UK

As a family we gave them £1000 when they moved in and the first thing they bought were 2x £300 mattresses. Their priorities are SO OUT OF LINE and they moan to ME about their circumstances.

Understanding female nature, especially when you see it in your own family makes me sick. Their sense of entitlement is disgusting.

I needed a good rant.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Parenting the parent. It’s a form of child abuse when parents make kids do that. Not that you’re a kid. I’ll bet she’s been like that since you were one.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Personally, anytime some “family” member mentions committing suicide I just vocalize that it is “their choice” and ghost them forever. To me, this is just another attempt to garner sympathy/attention/control and ramping up the manipulation.
If they are “serious” about it, they wont be an issue shortly.
bye bye

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[iMickey503Participant 12468]

I was right there man. Some people are just not into understanding that WOMEN are now EMPOWERED! They hate the fact that they are no longer being “Taken Care off”.
Its a shock to women bro, that they can not just ride the ride of fun all their lives, and that no one is willing to come in and play White Knight.

So SOmetimes the best thing to do is simply just keep doing what women do. THrow tons of encouragement, and let them find their own way.

It’s sad to hear about your sister. But when kids are raised in that environment, that is what the outcome is. It’s much harder for women to break out of it.

It’s one of the positive sides of Feminism. Women are not really going to give other women anything unless some man is paying for it. Really, they want to keep all these great things to themselves.

SO lets hope she gets into school, or tries to get into the workforce.

The thing about a woman feeling hopeless, is that there is this BITTER realization that money and sympathy no longer grow on trees. This is quite normal in today’s day and age.

I would not be bothered to much brother. The best thing you can do is show support.

Keep sending her those STUPID ecards and Posters and PUT them all over her Fakebook.
You know, the ussal drivel that women send each other. THe magic thing is, this kind of things works to make them feel better.

Now in the meantime, don’t worry to much about it. Just work your own ass off, take to s~~~ from the Muzzy bastards, and continue to invest in yourself.

Let those Social Services do the job they are suppose to do. Before long, your mom and sis will be in some kind of housing. Everything will be alright.

Try not to let their negativity on life affect you.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[BigDParticipant 3024]

I’m of the belief that the parents help the children, not the children helping the parents when it comes to finances. I’m sorry, brother, but you should have walked away from this nonsense years ago. Seems to me if your mother does kill herself, which I am betting she is just begging for attention, it would be better for everyone, especially you. I’m not saying to help her out in this task, but you may want to visit her one more time to make sure all the knives in the kitchen are nice and sharp.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

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