When Your Mother HATES You Being a MGTOW

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

I wrote this same thing on my post, “When Your Mother Discovers You’re a MGHOW.”  I actually feel like it should get its own post, as it’s not only when a female family member finds out you’re a MGTOW, but it gets to the point where it starts getting UGLY between you and the female family member.

As some people know, I was calling out women for their double standards (among other things) and trying to reach out to men to let them know we DON’T have to worship them.  One post I made I received a LOT of vile attacks from women on…and then MY MOTHER GETS INVOLVED, making a comment telling me in front of everyone on that same post to “grow up and get over your hatred of women,” and THEN she proceeds to send me the following message:

“OMG I’m really not sure why you find it necessary to post anti-women comments online.  Grow the heck up.  Real men don’t feel the need to bring women down.  What in the world is your problem?”
I feel so done with this stupid website.  I literally CANNOT comment anything without it telling everyone in the world that I commented on something.  It’s quite annoying.  I honestly hate that “live news feed” thing on the side where it tells people “[So and so] commented on this link” or “[so and so] liked this picture.”
Before deactivating yet again, I feel like I should reply to her somehow…she’s taking this “anti-women comment” as an attack on HER, and insinuating that I’m not a “real man” because I said these things.  I shouldn’t care, I really shouldn’t.
I feel like I should take after my dad and just cut communication from the family like he has done and his father before him (though he still sees and talks to my sister very frequently, I haven’t seen him since December).  The more I get griped at for stating facts, the more I’m shamed by my own family members.  It’s getting sickening.  This whole gynocracy is sickening.  It’s why I don’t even enjoy living anymore.  I feel free to an extent, but I don’t want to just “get by,” I want to feel TRULY free and exuberant!  This whole living paycheck-to-paycheck, driving a car that will fall apart at any time, having a roommate that refuses to pay me any more than $250 a month when that’s not even a QUARTER of what I pay (but I NEED that mere $250 to help me get by for the next few months)….I’m just honestly sick of it all.

I know there are men on here going through far worse, and I’m just going off track now.  Sorry…rant over.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Don’t bother with women who go insane. I have one aunt that supports my MGTOW lifestyle and another who is a total bitch about it.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

I just started burning at the “real men” part of her message…I suppose that’s the red pill working in me?  LOL

[Helen be DamnedParticipant 480]

Tell her that since she has no concept of real men are, she should just stfu. Just because women can manipulate men doesn’t mean you are one of them. You aren’t “bringing women down,” you spoke your mind and if she doesn’t like it, you don’t have to associate with her anymore. I think they call that adulthood. Seriously, I know it’s hard to tell your mother “f~~~ you,” but it might be the best thing, if just to tell her that she doesn’t understand that the reality is you run your life, not her. They’ve never had a firm grasp on reality.

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Love that

Helen be Damned wrote:

Tell her that since she has no concept of real men are, she should just stfu. Just because women can manipulate men doesn’t mean you are one of them. You aren’t “bringing women down,” you spoke your mind and if she doesn’t like it, you don’t have to associate with her anymore. I think they call that adulthood.

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[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

That’s where I’m conflicted now.  I’m not sure what the bigger “screw you” would be.  Message her back and tell her EXACTLY what’s on my mind and present her with more facts (which seem to be pointless, I believe), or just completely cut everyone off like I have before?  I mean, it’s fun calling out women on their lies and self-centeredness, but it can be tiring after a while.  They’re not going to listen anyway, just like children.

[DiasentParticipant 19]

Another solution would be to create a new handle.  Then never let any of your family know who that is.  My mother knows I’m a MGTOW.  My parents have been married for 38 years and my mom is the ultimate NAWALT.  She has proven throughout her life to be as capable as my father when it comes to electrical, plumbing, and carpentry tasks as they do the work as a team.  When my dad worked 2 jobs trying to support the family, my mother worked one and handled raising three children and worrying about the bills.  When my dad got home from work, she had dinner ready and all my dad was expected to do was sit in his chair and watch tv.

She called me out once for being a woman hater. I went all statistic math man.  I explained that 7 out of 10 marriages end in divorce.  If there is a child involved, I have 15% chance to obtain custody.  So I have a 30% chance to get married about 7 out of the 30 to be happily married.  But in the odds I am divorced, I have a 15% chance to end up surviving on under 1000 a month which means that I have to live in areas where probability states that I’ll be shot, mugged, or injured all while I am vilified and broken down as a deadbeat because the court says I can only see my child 10% of the time.  I can state with certainty that there is about a 25% chance that you will outlive me.  Do you want to take those odds?

After I threaten to retrieve my d4, she finally understood.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

tell her how you feel and why.  you’re probably the only man she’ll listen to and try to understand because she honestly loves you.  everyone else will be automatically labeled a misogynist and ignored.  every time my mother or sister tries to argue with me on FB, i destroy them.  no holds barred.  they don’t bother any more.  if they don’t like what i post, they can unfollow me or unfriend me.  i’m not pretending to be someone else for anybody and i never ask anybody else to do that either.

When a woman says “a real man…” has to be my biggest pet peeve.  What the f~~~ qualifies you, a woman, to define what a real man is?  Where do you get off lecturing me about women’s gender roles and  a woman’s right to decide for herself what she will be and then try to force your ideas of men’s gender roles on me?  As soon as I hear a woman say that, I’ll ask her what qualifies her to define what a real man is and then i’ll either ask her if she wants to hear what i think a real woman is (answer is always no) or i just start telling her what i think a real woman should be.  and i make that as offensive as i can.  i finish with “a real man doesn’t give a f~~~ what you think he should be”.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[BryantParticipant 229]

Helen be Damned wrote:

Tell her that since she has no concept of real men are, she should just stfu. Just because women can manipulate men doesn’t mean you are one of them. You aren’t “bringing women down,” you spoke your mind and if she doesn’t like it, you don’t have to associate with her anymore. I think they call that adulthood.

THIS

"He who lives with honor dies with honor."

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

@Megachris%

Your mother really should be more respectful to the man who is going to choose which retirement home she gets stuffed into.

You can forward that to her with my compliments.

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

When she magically grows a penis, THEN she can say what constitutes a “real man”. Until then, deal with it.

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