When you truly realize you will never have another relationship.

[hadenough1969Participant 539]

I have been on the mgtow path for about 5 months.

You read all the posts, start threads, get responses, process the info. You stay up day and night trying to figure out what the hell happened, how you were conned by so many for your entire life and what you are going to do next.

You spend days on end mad, angry at everyone and everything wishing there was someone you could make pay for the travesty. You try to think of something you could do to change it and somehow make reality match the fantasy you have been fed for decades.

Then one day you wake up completely spent, with no more strength left to even be angry anymore.

A few more months pass. You lift the weights, lose the flab, change the diet, focus on your job, read the books, take the courses. You start walking tall, chin up, eyes on the horizon instead of the ground. You look at people in the eye and back down from nothing. You are polite to all, but always have a plan to take them down if required.

No f~~~s given, you talk to everyone no longer afraid of rejection no matter how hot the girl is because you can see right through them. Their empty shells, the hollow eyes, the fake smiles, all the bulls~~~ now clear…like you have Night Vision while everyone else stumbles around in the dark.

This week I was presented with the option of a relationship with a good friend I have know for over 20 years. In my blue pill days I would have jumped at it, but no longer.

T spent the last couple days thinking it over. In the late night quiet of my home when I got brutally honest with myself I realized it does not matter who the woman is, I will never be in a relationship again. I will never care for or love a girl again. I will never trust one again. I will never believe one again.

I will never believe in one again.

I explained to my friend tonight that having lived my entire adult life in emotionally and verbally abusive relationships has brought me to the point where I simply have to walk away from them…forever. She said that she understood and was sad for me, and that she hated the women who had done this to me. We chatted for a few more minutes, then said goodbye.

Tonight it is real. This is a temporal marker for me. The knowledge of what is real and what has been a lie has finally moved from my head to my heart. What I have to do, how I must live and what my path will be from here is clear.

I will never be the same again.

Tomorrow I will get up, stand tall, put on my armor and raise the shields that will never come down again until they lay me in the ground. I will be tough, hard, unflinching, no f~~~s given. I will be a man that many might come to think they want, but none will ever have.

I will be MGTOW.

Yet tonight, I have a feeling in my heart that I cannot describe nor explain. The closest description might be a “weary sadness”.

Perhaps my brothers, I have finally arrived at acceptance.

[bladeParticipant]

If that relationship with your friend went ahead she would of become a completely different person . I have two female friends i have known for alot of years and purposely never f~~~ed them and i could anytime i wanted to .

Fight fire with fire these chicks would do anything for me which is good when i have had problems with woman . Keep her as a friend .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 0]

hadenough1969 wrote:

In the late night quiet of my home when I got brutally honest with myself I realized it does not matter who the woman is, I will never be in a relationship again. I will never care for or love a girl again. I will never trust one again. I will never believe one again.

I will never believe in one again.

Great post! Great description of a key MGTOW moment.

In my case, I remember that realization as a bittersweet emotion. It’s sad to close off options that I would have preferred to keep open. But on the other hand, closing off options brings clarity.

Of course, people say “Never say never.” I still have to be around women socially. I’m 60, and groups and activities for seniors are all run by women. I could possibly see myself maybe doing a FWB-style arrangment sometime in the hazy future. Something with clear limits and boundaries, where the arrangement is over the second she oversteps the boundaries. But for me to get involved in a traditional relationship? Like another marriage or cohabitation? I can’t even imagine how that would be possible.

[Anonymous 54]

Well done Sir!!!

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Nothing to be sad about.

Life without women is awesome.

You’re free.
Celebrate!

Monk

[Mr.NeverAgainParticipant 146]

I’ve hit that point as well. Nothing has ever done more damage and left me a suicidal, self destructive mess than marriage. I always knew I was a loner, but I was so afraid of dying alone and full of regret that I married the first c~~~ that came along (not that my lack of self confidence ever begot a healthy dating life)

They want what you got, not you. They want a reusable human tissue to get them through their emotional trials, and they eventually grow too strong and independent for you. You trust them with your faults and weaknesses while they stock and catalog them for future assaults on your mind and reputation.

“I know your race. It is made up of sheep. It is governed by minorities, seldom or never by majorities. It suppresses its feelings and its beliefs and follows the handful that makes the most noise." The Mysterious Stranger by Mark Twain

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

It’s a head trip for sure, but I’ve got another one for you. I’ve never been in a relationship and I know that I never will be. Too much risk for too little reward. I’m 25 now, and I plan to die a virgin. Porn and a fleshlight are good enough for me.

I couldn’t give two s~~~s about women. I don’t even notice them. It’s like they’re invisible. Once you stop looking at them for their sexual appeal, you realize that they have NO other appeal at all. They’re not smart or interesting, and they obsess about stupid s~~~. Why would anyone choose to have that in their life?

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Nice post and congratulations. I would also support keeping her on as a friend. I have one who rides bikes with me. We meet and ride for 30 miles or so, I buy her a craft beer and practice my no f~~~s given attitude. She only has my number and my first name. Drives her crazy. See said I was an asshole for not letting her know where I live, but she still meets me. She gave me a great honor and did not even know it.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[narwhalParticipant]

I congratulate you on this step…

hadenough1969 wrote:

I explained to my friend tonight that having lived my entire adult life in emotionally and verbally abusive relationships has brought me to the point where I simply have to walk away from them…forever. She said that she understood and was sad for me, and that she hated the women who had done this to me. We chatted for a few more minutes, then said goodbye.

…but that’s not right either. The way you explained it and your friend answered is the typical ‘damaged goods’ conversation. Wisdom is not damage. The reason you won’t be an a relationship again isn’t because past women treated you poorly, it’s because you now that that’s the way women are. She need not be sad for you, you gained wisdom.

In some ways, I think it’s similar to when a kid finds out there’s no such thing as Santa Claus. They are not damaged, and can certainly still enjoy Christmas, it’s just that they see it for what it actually is. I guess Santa Claus as a part of Christmas, and relationships as a part of life. I still enjoy Christmas and I still enjoy life, even though I know that Santa Claus and relationships are not real, or at least not the fairy tale I was told they were.

Ok. Then do it.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

I bust my b~~~~ last year getting the pool ready, land whale uses it twice…
Ready for this.. too far to walk out the the back yard…

This is what gets me. Slaving away for ungrateful women.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Anonymous 42]

hadenough1969 wrote:

You start walking tall, chin up, eyes on the horizon instead of the ground.

Brother you just described TAKEOFF! Keep it full power until you hit cruising speed and desired altitude!

hadenough1969 wrote:

like you have Night Vision while everyone else stumbles around in the dark.

Brother Alpha Furyan, nothing sees in the pit of darkness like a nice set of Riddic Eyes! We see things they never will.

hadenough1969 wrote:

I got brutally honest with myself I realized it does not matter who the woman is, I will never be in a relationship again. I will never care for or love a girl again. I will never trust one again. I will never believe one again.

I felt as if everything that tethered a man to a society was severed like an umbilical cord to a mother ship in deep space, I knew I had to fire my engines hard just to make up for lost time, now I’m in a different solar system and doing just fine, I never looked back and keep the engines running every day of my life.

Back at the mother ship they feed all the men poison gas instead of oxygen. I will never go back after two decades of hyperspace travel!

hadenough1969 wrote:

I will never be the same again.

You’ll be better than before and thanking your lucky stars in the future!

hadenough1969 wrote:

I will be MGTOW.

Yet tonight, I have a feeling in my heart that I cannot describe nor explain. The closest description might be a “weary sadness”.

Perhaps my brothers, I have finally arrived at acceptance.

You were on a “weary travel” tethered to a poison gasbag!

How many maliciously poisoned watering holes must a man have to endure before he decides to take the more isolated route at the foothills of the mountains?

Life in a relationship was hard enough prior to the woman’s lib bowel movement, with it’s spawned feminism and gynocentrism healthy relationships are now impossible.

MGTOW is the only unlocked exit in a burning building.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Mr.NeverAgain wrote:

I’ve hit that point as well. Nothing has ever done more damage and left me a suicidal, self destructive mess than marriage. I always knew I was a loner, but I was so afraid of dying alone and full of regret that I married the first c~~~ that came along (not that my lack of self confidence ever begot a healthy dating life)

They want what you got, not you. They want a reusable human tissue to get them through their emotional trials, and they eventually grow too strong and independent for you. You trust them with your faults and weaknesses while they stock and catalog them for future assaults on your mind and reputation.

so goddamn true. Never, ever, ever show your woman your weaknesses. Goes against everything we are supposed to be as humans in bonding relationships. They have no true empathy towards the man.

God bless peace and freedom.

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