when you going to marry and settle down?

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

I believe men and women want to see everybody to be as miserable as them .I have many cheeky answers.Mostly I just say that Women today have so much going that they do not have time or energy to put into a relationship to make it work properly.I choose not enter into a p~~~ing match with every one that’s life is f~~~ed and want every one in same leaky boat as them.
What say you?

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

I chose to live a happy life.That says more than trying delivering a message they are not ready to hear.Guys know that you are single and you can pull something out of your pocket other than lent.they know you do not have to ask permission.It is said that “you can not teach anyone any thing,you can help them discover it in them selves”. I wish I had $1.00 for every time a guy said I am going to dump that bitch! The next time I see them,telling you that they with they had b~~~~ enough to make the move.Live a happy uncluttered lives my friends.It helps every one.

[TuneoutParticipant]

I’ve used my military career as an excuse or I just say I’ve already been common law and discovered that full on marriage isn’t for me.

This way you come across as someone who has already been through the fire so to speak and they don’t bother you anymore about it.

Plus it dispels any of those nasty ‘He must be gay’ rumours,lol

Or you could just say,when I find my Unicorn,but I’ll probably find BigFoot first!

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Anonymous 3]

I might answer that I don’t have time for that. “not having time for something” is a very typical thing in 21st century, so you can refer to that and avoid unnecessary conflicts.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

I don’t really hear that stuff anymore.

My mother used to say stupid s~~~ like that when I was in my 20s but she stopped years ago.

Pretty much all of that s~~~ stopped when I got into my 30s. Every once in a while someone will allude to the idea of me getting married, I’ll tell them that I don’t think I’m going to get married and that I’m not looking. They will act like I don’t really mean it and say something along the lines of me finding the right one eventually.

It’s funny to me still. People just assume that everyone is looking to ruin their lives like them.

Depending on who it is that I’m talking to, I may discuss how the laws are stacked against men and how it is a massive risk to me and my son to allow someone to have the power to ruin our futures on a whim.

#MANOUT

[narwhalParticipant]

After an appropriate time after my divorce, my mother tried to push the idea of marriage back on me. She gave up rather quickly. She could not find fault with my logic, she could not deny that she didn’t want to remarry herself, and she couldn’t deny that my siblings didn’t have the perfect married life themselves.

Ok. Then do it.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

narwhal wrote:

After an appropriate time after my divorce, my mother tried to push the idea of marriage back on me. She gave up rather quickly. She could not find fault with my logic, she could not deny that she didn’t want to remarry herself, and she couldn’t deny that my siblings didn’t have the perfect married life themselves.

Similar to you my Mother would be horrified if I married again, she in her own way tried to discourage me marrying I saw that after 15 years.

Any man who truly understands women would never marry,

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

My mom got the grandkid without the marriage/divorce, so I never hear a peep about it.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[experiencedParticipant]

the road wrote:

the laws are stacked against men and
how it is a massive risk to me and my son
to allow someone to have the power
to ruin our futures on a whim.

THIS!

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Just tell them why would i get into a contract with a woman and that state and they will not bother you anymore,i told that to my aunt and she was speechless when i told her that

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Everytime someone bother you with that marriages crap tell them you like you freedom and marriages as a contract takes away your freedom

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Fortunately I haven’t been asked that question by my friends of family for a while. They all know I’m done chasing girls so they don’t bother asking anymore. The extended family asks when we have get together’s though.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Explain to them first you settle down, then later you settle up when the divorce comes.

[OldBillParticipant]

That question is almost never asked of me anymore – sometimes your fifties brings benefits – so I was surprised when I was asked it over the Fourth of July weekend. Surprised, but not to a point where I didn’t have a thoughtful answer.

A women near my mother’s age asked it, seemingly out of the blue. She and my mother attended nursing school in the 1950s and formed a close friendship which lasted since. Growing up, my siblings and I referred to her, her husband, and two children as our aunt, uncle, and cousins. Her oldest went through a incredibly messy divorce triggered, as always, by his wife. Just before the holiday weekend, she found out her daughter was close to divorcing when that woman showed up with the grandchildren and not her husband. We were subjected to a constant litany of whines from the soon-to-be single mother which dragged the holiday gathering down.

I was sitting on the deck enjoying the fireworks, the boats moving through the harbor with their lights, and a beer when my “aunt” sat down next to me. She’d been having a tough weekend and was obviously looking for some quiet time. I simply nodded and return to the light show. We both watched for while then she turned to me and asked “Why did you never marry, Old Bill?”

“I was never what women were looking for,” I answered. “From my teens on, there was always a problem with me. First, I was in the service, then I was in school and working at the same time, then I was traveling constantly, then I was ill, then I was poor, then I was traveling again, and now it’s too late. I was never there for them to control so I was never a serious marriage prospect. When I was there to control I was either ill or poor and so never a serious marriage prospect.”

She nodded, patted my hand, and went off to join the larger crowd.

You’ll notice how I flipped the question back on women without tipping my hand about MGTOW. I told her I never married due to the perceptions of women and not due to some imagined personal fault.

As also believe, as a women approaching 80, my aunt can finally admit to herself the truth about women. She’s watching both her children’s marriages implode thanks to the actions of women so her face is being rubbed in that reality.

I probably said more than I usually do, but it still got the job done.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[HitmanParticipant]

Since I’m in a divorce for the last 3 years with no end in sight, I don’t get asked. .
I do get asked why a divorce could take so long. .and I start explaining how different legal actions try to force myself and my ex to spend thousands of dollars we don’t really have. .
I’m a walking anti-marriage advertisement. ..

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I love how settle down is the phrase for it. Bitch, I am settled down. I have money in the bank, a good car, all my bills paid, no debt, and working on buying a house. I also have a good job. It’s the women that “settle down”. They go from riding the c~~~ carousel and having tons of debt from college into a comparably subdued life, all at the cost of a man’s work.

I’m settled down, happy and content with myself, which is more than I can say for all these women who keep insisting they have any worth at all to me.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[The_Mad_PirateParticipant 1278]

My two favorite answers to this kind of shamming tactics are :

1) The harsh truth
“I just love my freedom and I preffer to stay single so I can enjoy such freedom as much as I want”.

and

2) The Feminist “back at you, c~~~” rethoric
“Oh, well, modern women are strong, independent and definetely need no men, so why worry? They don’t need me and I certainly don’t need them”.

Oh, both answers are guaranteed to make however is asking ( specially women ) go ballistic in no time.

EDIT :
I do find hillarious that women think that a man committed to his own freedom and independence = a manbaby who takes no responsability. He is a committed man, but he is committed to himself, not to a self entitled whinny gold digger with a victimhood complex.

"We didn't start the fire. It was always burning. Since the world's been turning" "A world that vilifies men only breeds a generation of men that feel no empathy towards women" “In a woman’s mind , there is really no such thing as a ‘we’. In her eyes, earth allways revolves around her, not the other way around. So thinking that your needs , aspirations or desires are valid enough to be persued, or even that you are entitled achive such goals, is like asking your boss for a pay rise in your very first day at the job.”

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

When asked why you are not married, you have options-
1. You could be serious and say marriage does not make sense from a cost/benefit viewpoint
2. You could have some fun with the answer.

If I’m asked, I think I will tell people my last girlfriend went Lorraine Bobbit and partially dismembered me and I’m still undergoing reconstructive surgery.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Never again.
Been there, done that, got the divorce papers twice to prove it.
At least I kept my t-shirt and medals.
I’d rather play twister, while covered in meat sauce, with a grizzly than get married or settle down with anyone ever again.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

I just tell them that my future wife has to be:
(a.) A Virgin
(b.) Come with a Dowry in excess of 10 million dollars
(c.) Must be under 28
(d.) Must be at least an 8 or 9 on a scale of 1-10
(e.) Must have ZERO debt
(f.) Must have a Physics Degree
(g.) Must be double DD
(h.) Must be no more than 125lbs and her height between 5’3″ – 5’8″
(i.) Must be White
(j.) Must be Jewish (Orthodox)
(k.) Must have not STDs or kids (see – (a.))
(l.) Must have Blue Eyes although that is negotiable…(I’m willing to be reasonable)
(m.) Must be completely subservient and NOT a Feminist, a good cook, keep a clean house, be tidy and organized

So until…I find what I am looking for (and I won’t settle for less!)…I guess I will just have to go MGTOW and do the best I can in the world…

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