When will I finally learn the lesson?

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Damn it! Gentlemen, I have been on the red pill for about 3 years now. I consider myselves a smart guy. And I still keep falling for the very same old tricks.

I have never been much of a “ladies guy”. That’s ok with me, especially now that i grew older, things worked out fine for me.
I love women, once i found out AWALT, even i got laid frequently.
Yesterday, after a nice little 13 hours working day, i went for a beer.
inside my ususal bar, were 2 Ladies. The one (dark long hair, 5’8″, d-Cup and a cute little piece of ass) I have been having on my mind for quite a while. I’m pretty sure i missed out an opportunity two or three years ago, but yesterday it appeared to be “my” turn. The other (real “petite”, 7 years younger than me, a “cafe-con-leite” chick (like i use to call Latinas, even that she is arabic)).
when my usual pub closed, the three of us decided to go for another drink in a club. My “secret” love, went all about rubbing against me, kissed me a few times and when i thought, everything is going to the right direction…..
.. she told me more or less to p~~~ off. What i should have done – (verbally!), kick her tiny little butt out of that place. What did I do? – I went out, heading home.
The second one came after me, we decided to go back to the pub where we all started, and same story again, some kissing, some cosing, she told me how well she’d be in my presence and stuff (Gentlemen, you all know all the strings, women like to pull) – actually i felt pretty lucky. That is, until she told me to f~~~ off.

I am used to being turned down, that is ok, i can live with that. But twice? in one night? after KC’s?
There is still too much of a Beta in me, as it looks.
Any hints on how to get these bitches out of my head? I know quite a bit of AWALT, 90% of my “sucesses” are actually based on that fact, but why this got to me? have been Beta Orbiter for years, when the “old lady” dumped me, i slowly had to learn to crawl, then to stand upright. Once i reconned what women are alike, i have been having more (free) sex than ever before. But still these two managed to get to me. WTF is going on? Why do i even waste a thought on them? Why do I feel bad?

Sorry, had to get this of my mind, anyone with similar experience?

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[ShineParticipant 1696]

I’d say 15000 of us have a similar story to share.

"Society is to blame" Denton

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Who cares what happened. Move on. Those women mean nothing to you but a quick orgasm and a heap of misery in between. Consider yourself lucky it didn’t eventuate into a false rape allegation, a relations~~~, STI or STD, an unplanned pregnancy or a marriage contract.

I think I have read OldBill refer to this as giving someone free rent in your head. Forget them and move one. They are strangers at best.

As KeyMaster says: one chance, per woman, per lifetime.

[ShineParticipant 1696]

I was romancing a nice gymnast from cali when I was holidaying. She wanted sex, I was happy to oblige but didn’t have a condom.

She wanted it there and then, I ran off to find a rubber. 5-10 mins later she was cold as snow.

We both fell asleep.

"Society is to blame" Denton

[KeymasterKeymaster]

You don’t have a “problem”. There is nothing wrong with “YOU” so you can stop over-thinking it because when it comes to women, the outcome is totally unimportant. Or at least, that’s the attitude to adopt if you want to stay sane.

“I could take it or leave it. I don’t care if it happens or not”.

As easily as she can divorce… she can pretend to make marriage vows.
As easily as she can switch OFF…. she can switch ON.

Shine wrote:

She wanted it there and then, I ran off to find a rubber. 5-10 mins later she was cold as snow.

( Thanks for making my point. )

Muglintar wrote:

actually i felt pretty lucky. That is, until she told me to f~~~ off.

Of all the things you said, this line sticks out as the reveal.
You felt “lucky”.

Don’t give this another thought, but the next time you’re in a situation like this, consider not thinking of yourself as “lucky”. Think of HER as lucky to get any of your time and attention. If you even THINK you’re about to get “lucky”, she will sense it and think “what do I need THIS guy for? I can do MUCH better than him”.

One of the most effective things I ever got in the habit of doing was treating them like they have no vagina. “You know, you seem like you would make a really good FRIEND”. There is no thought of “getting lucky”. Drop the friend word, and she will IMMEDIATELY begin wondering “why isn’t he trying to get lucky?”

Now she starts doing all the work.
It’s just a minor flip in attitude.

You play music?
Take a C MAJOR CHORD.
Move your middle finger down a semi tone,
and you have a C MINOR chord.

It’s barely an adjustment, but it’s a totally different tune.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Gentlemen, thanks for the input.

As said before, long time “purple poodle”. 40+ years of feminist indoctrination have left some traces. 3+ years after “awakening” I’m still in process of learning.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[Anonymous 54]

You allways meet the nicest women while out drinking in a bar.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

see google images and type in herpes.
That will cure you.

Back in my younger day I saw herpes on a young woman I knew. The right side of her face was swollen with large areas of pus filled lesions. Believe me, it can be a rude awakening as to what can happen.

[Better without YOUParticipant 234]

Call me crazy, but this seems to be planned?? Hear me out. You’ve hinted at knowing them at least for a couple of years, So they probably wanted to whisper sweet nothings as if you would cum immediately, then as soon as they suspect you think you’re in, they pull the rug out from under you. They probably are so bad at picking up dudes they only fulfillment they can HOPE to get is to hopefully destroy one. Awkward bitches. You were USED. I just can’t figure out how, and it’s definitely not worth the time to figure out, f~~~ ’em.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Muglintar wrote:

I am used to being turned down, that is ok, i can live with that. But twice? in one night? after KC’s?
There is still too much of a Beta in me, as it looks.
Any hints on how to get these bitches out of my head? I know quite a bit of AWALT, 90% of my “sucesses” are actually based on that fact, but why this got to me? have been Beta Orbiter for years, when the “old lady” dumped me, i slowly had to learn to crawl, then to stand upright. Once i reconned what women are alike, i have been having more (free) sex than ever before. But still these two managed to get to me. WTF is going on? Why do i even waste a thought on them? Why do I feel bad?

Sorry, had to get this of my mind, anyone with similar experience?

I’d say you won the “I did not get Gona-herpa-sifi-aids” award, those skanks sounded like gutter trash to me. You really need to learn how to not give a f~~~, not giving a f~~~ has awarded me many years of a stress free life. If that one chick led me on then dumped me then her friend tried to get with me I would have dumped the 2nd one and went home and jerked off. Seriously 15 minutes of jerking it wipes all sexual tension out and you forget about them sloors right away.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[Ain’t No RomeoParticipant 119]

Yeah, you saved yourself the, “I gotta get to the shower and scrub right away” anxiety that comes an instant after you do… Followed by the next 2 weeks of constantly inspecting johnson for the slightest bump.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

see google images and type in herpes.

That will cure you.

C~~~ carousel riders brother.

Diseased women.

Once you get that it’s forever.

Get a fleshlight.

Thanks for the reminder, I mentioned before, I have been working in merchant marine for quite some years, in that time I have been also in charge for medical treatment of “my boys”, believe me, I have seen some really ugly things. (some were even self-inflicted (Men do unbelievable gross things to themselves just in order to please women), but we don’t want to go to far off-topic).

So all in all, thanks for the cheer up!. It is for sure nice to know: AMALT!

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

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