When to forgive an immoral man, because he was manipulated?

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

When to forgive an immoral man, because he was manipulated?

Back story:

My brother in law is in the worst divorce case I have ever seen, his wife is certainly a sociopath.  In order to bait him into getting arrested, she was purposely found in bed with another man at home.  He knew the ruse and somehow kept his cool.  After this incident “the other man” kept letting his face be shown around town.  He had the gall to try to park his car out of sight, which we noticed anyhow, in an attempt to stay at the house all weekend.  He lives nowhere near town, yet he is dumb enough to come around.

This man’s actions have robbed me of many things, the nuclear level of the divorce is epic, because of the disruption to my family and myself:  Time, Mental Stress, Vacation Days, and Family Stress – to the point where I think it affected my health.

He has set imbalance to my territory, in the sense that I am a hunter and he is a threat to be eliminated from my grounds.  If I run into him somewhere, it is going to take every ounce of my energy not to beat him savagely.  I know I won’t do it, because cameras are everywhere, and the legal implications are a threat to my financial stability.

The only way for me to put this past me is to forget.  But in this case, the only way to forget it to forgive.  I am not saying this on religious terms, I am saying it because the other dude is a  Beta Male who was (and is still) being used as “Bait”.  She wants my BiL to pull a nutty on this guy, so she can say he is violent – to get herself primary custody and therefore more money.  The “Stunt C~~~” is a bottom feeding Beta Male who was left by TWO wives.  She is totally manipulating his ego because he is getting over a recent divorce, and she is 10 years younger than him – he thinks he hit the lottery.  Since he is clearly stupid, and clearly being manipulated for what could be a beating that would put him in the hospital, how can I rationalize in my mind that I need to look at him as somewhat of a “victim” also in this case?

Sovereignty above all else.

[Elgos_GrimParticipant 254]

I mean, I can’t tell you what to do, but I’d suprise him while he’s having dinner and tell him to get out of town. I remember a guy telling me a story once; his father was a biker and apparently some guy was following him around. After his father told one of his biker friends the following happened: the guy was having lunch in a pub (this happened in england, by the way) and a biker approaches him from behind, buries a machete in the table looks at him and says: “stay away from , or we’ll see each other again.” The guy never bothered him again.

Now im not telling you to bury a machete in a table or actually threaten him, but fear is a powerfull motivater especially to a beta weakling like him, just saying.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I take forgiveness as the way I understand bankruptcy to be.  It is a place where I stop demanding something from someone to try to make amends.  For the immortal man, I can stop trying to go to him for what is right, and let him go his own way.  I don’t need to deal with him.  It would be to free you from situations that drain your mental and emotional energy and get you off what you are trying to do (your game).  If the man is truly manipulated, of what value really is he to you?

Go and restore your personal boundaries and move on.

Now, keep in mind what I am saying is from a distance, and likely lacks a degree of empathy to the BS you went through.  My interest is in your future, not the past.  But, you need to decide what to do.

With myself, because I forgive someone and let go, it doesn’t mean I will blindly do the same things with them again.  Anyhow, sorry about the news. I hope you can get over it.  It is garbage.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

After dwelling on it today, I am rationalizing my way past it by realizing he is the next one she will f~~~ over – the joke is on him. Since the age of 16 she has been using men about 8-10 years older as an ATM and a place to live, it is a pattern of hers that we did not know about until the s~~~ hit the fan. When my BiL met her she actually seemed to have her act together, and he was the first guy that was even close to her age range at 4 years.  But one thing I see over and over again is that female behavior is like that of addicts, they backslide into their dark nature if that is what is inside of them.

Inevitably if I run into stunt c~~~ there will be a discussion, the irony is he has no idea who I am but I know every inch of his life, and it will end with a paraphrase from the movie The Town: “Remember my face, because I already know yours…”.

The stunt c~~~ is just the next victim for that cum dumpster. His punishment will be self inflicted if he stays with her for long.  Good luck chump!

Sovereignty above all else.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

The stunt c~~~ is just the next victim for that cum dumpster. His punishment will be self inflicted if he stays with her for long.  Good luck chump!

That sounds like the best revenge to me. He will do far worse to himself than a beat down in the long run, and you get to stay out of jail, meaning you will have more options for living your own life for your own self.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BDParticipant 1146]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

by realizing he is the next one she will f~~~ over – the joke is on him.

Sounds like you are getting a good grasp on everything. She will rip him a new one as well.

The best thing to do would be to totally ignore the entire situation,

Crazy/evil women want attention whether it is direct or indirect, they feed off of it,

ghost the entire situation, she will be stunned and her mind will drive her nuts wondering why she didn’t get everyone’s attention, don’t feed the addict because she will only want more, and it will only get worse. Ignore this guy, he will surely get what is coming to him.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Anonymous 13]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

how can I rationalize in my mind that I need to look at him as somewhat of a “victim” also in this case?

 

I think you just did.  It helps to vent and workout your thoughts in an organized way by confiding in other men.  A wise man will seek advice from many counselors. (not counselesses)

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