When they finally notice that you don't care anymore. THEN IT SUDDENLY MATTERS.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5645]

It happened before, during, and after my divorce. It happened at my previous job. Not long ago after dropping off the kids she asked me when and why I totally don’t care. I answered the following- “Do you expect me to forget all the false reports you filed? Do you expect me to forget all the lies you told about me? Do you expect me to forget when you cleaned out all the bank accounts you could before you filed for divorce? Do you expect me to forget about all the times you have attempted to get me in trouble just to benefit yourself? All those things add up to me not caring”. All she could offer was a blank stare with not being able to come up with anything to say. IT NEVER MATTERED UNTIL SHE KNEW I DIDN’T CARE ANYMORE.

Same thing happened at my previous job. One day I just left without notice. I ran into management not long ago and they asked me why. I answered as follows- “Did you care when you passed me up in favor of someone not qualified? Did you care when you denied my vacation request in favor of someone with less seniority? Did you ever thank me when I had to cover for your stupid @$$ because you couldn’t do your job? Are you seriously that stupid”? Same response. Another blank stare with absolutely nothing to say. IT NEVER MATTERED UNTIL THEY KNEW I DIDN’T CARE.

Since I’ve joined this site 4 years ago I have noticed that this happens a lot. When the people you are dealing with recognize that you don’t care their attitude changes. Whether it’s the ex, your job, car repair shop, etc. It’s the same thing. The same people that cause you not to care are all freaked out about it when they discover that you really don’t give a damn. Life has sure gotten easier since I chose MGTOW. I forgive but won’t ever forget.
NFG

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

My “personal favorite” was when she said to me, “I know that you must really hate me…..”, and she got no rebuttal from me….It’s almost like they want you to stop them as if you are actually the one that has done something wrong.

“No dear, I don’t hate you just because you have destroyed my life…”

These f~~~ers really are dumb as dirt.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[BubParticipant 1405]

Awakened wrote:

“I know that you must really hate me…..”, and she got no rebuttal from me….

foolsgold wrote:

IT NEVER MATTERED UNTIL SHE KNEW I DIDN’T CARE ANYMORE.

The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference.

Just rolling down the road

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I hate her because she used the nukes that society made available to her to attempt to totally destroy me personally. Out of anger for her having post partum depression while I was ok. It just wasn’t faaaaiiiiir.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I was going to say i like this post, but i decided not to care.

C wat i did there?

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Carnage wrote:

I was going to say i like this post, but i decided not to care.
C wat i did there?

You cared enough to post….

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

LOL…. When these women get into hot water or don’t plan ahead then it’s a crisis. Brother I know exactly what you mean. I never been married or had the horrific stuff that happened to you but I know there is an ex out there who wanted me to still care. They are more than one ex that want but this particular ex wants me to care. Also, another thing to remember. Since women change, they believe naively that mean can change as well. Maybe blue pill men can or would change but not any guy who has taken the red pill. So this is why they may keep checking up or reaching out to their ex-boyfriends or husbands. Women do not have the capacity to care or fully understand what they do to men. This is why they think it is possible for a guy to change an opinion about them.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Carnage wrote:

I was going to say i like this post, but i decided not to care.C wat i did there?

You cared enough to post….

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3759]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Carnage wrote:

I was going to say i like this post, but i decided not to care.C wat i did there?

You cared enough to post….

Yeah, that fuc.ker’s getting soft. hahahahaha

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

This is why you start out not caring.

ALWAYS ask: “What’s in it for me?”

: “Because it would be really nice if you’d blah blah blah…”
: “But what’s in it for ME?”

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I don’t care, in a sort of Brandon Stark “3-Eyed Raven” kind of way. I’m playing the Long Game. Its 3-Dimensional Chess to me, and these stupid pigeons are trying to play Tic-Tac-Toe. (They can scratch tic-tac-toe out in the dirt but they’d eat the checkers pieces if they tried to play THAT). That is the way women are.

If you care, you are being foolish. Women are a perpetually empty vessel, always trying to take in and never filling. They are like the pirates in the first Pirates of the Caribbean movie that can never be satisfied when they eat or drink (or money or anything else for that matter). If women had a pirate vessel, they wouldn’t be skeletons, they’d be 300-lb land whales riding carts, like the ones you see in Walmart or the Wall-E movie.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[WraithParticipant 242]

Yeah, I’ve experienced that too. After all that time to reflect, they still have to ask.

There was once time that the person acknowledged that she treated me badly and made a respectable effort to recognize my dignity. Just one. Obviously, it takes a long time to re-establish trust after that. And the trust will never be what it was. I usually don’t stick around long enough for that to play out.

[JakeParticipant 908]

you cared to reply oops

[foolsgoldParticipant 5645]

Another thing I’ve noticed is there seems to be alarm bells that go off in their head when it finally dawns on them that you don’t give a damn. Both at your job and women in general. It didn’t sink in at my former job until I went on vacation and didn’t come back. It didn’t click in the ex’s mind until one time I dropped the kids off and didn’t schedule any Christmas plans(it was the week before Christmas). I just dropped off their presents at the front door the day before Christmas along with a note saying I had to work years ago. I guess she just went full re+@rd. Makes me smile. I guess even to this day she still expects me to change my mind and start caring again.

[MonkParticipant 16985]

foolsgold wrote:

The same people that cause you not to care are all freaked out about it when they discover that you really don’t give a damn.

If you care, it means that you are buying in and being manipulated. You are part of the matrix.

When you obviously don’t care, it worries them – it doesn’t conform to their Blue Pill view of the world. If you are carrying a brown paper parcel as well, it worries them even more.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Great post.

After losing 80% of my wealth due to my divorce, I realized women only want your resources nothing else. Now I am completely indifferent to women, enjoying my peaceful happy life without women.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Monk wrote:

If you care, it means that you are buying in and being manipulated. You are part of the matrix.

We do live in a matrix.

It is perversely amusing how after a lifetime of the matrix using everyone like puppets around you to make your life hell, that the moment you stop caring the matrix tries to convince you to care.

It is twilight zone level weird. I have people whom would not give me five seconds, whom could only find fault and insult with anything I did or said suddenly want to help me, teach me.

Well, I still do not care and I only use them for my own gains and goals, like they did to me for decades, only I am polite enough that they do not realize what I am doing. Also, I would say “dreams” with gains and goals, but I had all my dreams shattered years ago.

I am waiting to watch the world burn, but until then this, only with my hobbies, keeps me entertained.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Nice reminders, great opening post.
It took about 3 years for my 2nt ex to hit rock bottom, then tried to get back in good. I was nice and kept it civil. Even talked with her as long as she wanted to talk. You could even say my tone and effect were about as emotionless as you could get. I just did not care and no amount of crying or all that other mess was going to change the situation.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[TronParticipant 285]

It is sooooo true!!! I have ignored my ex for the last 15 years. I stopped talking to her years ago. If there is an emergency she knew she could text me the message: 911 (our daughters name). I would then call for just the facts. Otherwise, I just ignored her. I do that at work too, if women do not respect me or get bitchy. I just ignore them and I make it obvious. They Hate It!! Why? Because attention is their opiate. I ignore women everywhere, in fact. Unless it is absolutely necessary. I see them at the gym and they are always looking around to see who is looking at them. I always look away. Pretty soon you get in the habit. There are beautiful women who are probably so used to having guys hit on them. I ignore them. It works.

Ignoring women also helps to keep you focused on your own s~~~, your own life. Focus on the things that make you a better man. Going back to school, learning new skills, starting a business, or a new hobby, etc.

Don’t get me wrong, I work with female patients all the time and I have received an award for my compassion. I love my job and I help people. My private life is a different story.
GO MGTOW!!!

[TronParticipant 285]

I hear you. We need to protect our resources. We also need to get the word to the younger guys.

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