When the mask comes off

[M3GTOWParticipant 103]

Hello fellow MGTOW,

Long story short –

Met a girl. Initially she portrayed herself as this smart and intellectual woman who has her head in the right place. This is the primary reason I decided to start seeing her.

3 months into the sort-of relations~~~, the mask has come off and I am contemplating whether I should cut her off or stay and watch her ruin herself only to laugh and tell her – I told you so. And then cut her off.

Events that led to the mask falling off –

1. She was staying with her best friend in a cozy place, best friend decided to get her boyfriend to move-in. So clearly princess here had to move out.

2. Princess initially said she doesn’t want to compromise on her comfort and wants to get her own place. I helped her with looking at apartments, even found a nice place. But since princess has no money saved up, she could not pay the deposits and get the place on her own.

3. Princess then said that she will move into a shared apartment for a month or two, save money and get her own car and place sorted. Note – the key point here is save money, because nothing can happen without the green.

4. Princess decides to go retail therapy the day she gets her paycheck – dresses, make-up, etc. etc. Apparently this is her way of ‘dealing with things’

5. Princess then decides to go to the salon and go out drinking. So far the saving money is going absolutely well, as you may have noticed.

6. One day in casual conversation I told her, “you are 25 now. By 30 if you continue like this you’re gonna hit the wall. And you have a bald patch on your head just saying.” Apparently I made a significant impact and she had ‘reduced’ her smoking and drinking tremendously. Clearly, as per her recent behavior, I have made no such impact.

7. One day we met and she was reeking of booze and smoke so bad I had to tell her that she smells like dog-s~~~ and should not even come close to me. The response “I needed it.”

As of today, princess here has already exhausted her paycheck, and it is just the start of the month. And I am not interested in playing chauffeur or ATM this holiday season.

Ideally, I should be indifferent and have nothing to comment on how princess decides to spend her money and time, and I should enjoy the show and watch how she ruins herself.

In my opinion, the mask has fallen off. The ‘having my head in the right place’ and ‘intellect’ is delusion princess is living in.

Now, I am contemplating my two options – cut her off, or watch her ruin herself and then cut her off.

[ghostParticipant]

M3GTOW wrote:

smart and intellectual woman

That’s an oxymoron. There is no such thing.

M3GTOW wrote:

the mask has fallen off

It always falls off. It was only a matter of time, my friend.

M3GTOW wrote:

cut her off

The sooner the better. Believe me, JS.

[bladeParticipant]

Just cut her off bro other wise this could bring you unwanted drama .

F~~~in run oh and dont look back . Salt statue

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

You should not have let it go this far.

Should have shut it down after the first f~~~up by her.

Definitely by the second, if you are an “everyone gets one mistake” kind of guy.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Broken-oakParticipant 75]

Cut ties and watch from afar. It’s usually the best way to watch. I’m laughing about the “You’re going to hit a wall” line. I’m just happy to see that you haven’t fallen into the trap of inviting her into your living space, but I will say that you’re playing with fire my friend.

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Women are parasites. They are incapable of providing for themselves, because they do not understand responsibility and sacrifice. That is a man’s job. The only way to live a good life is to not let a woman in. Kick her to the curb and make sure you have a body cam.

[M3GTOWParticipant 103]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Should have shut it down after the first f~~~up by her.

Definitely by the second, if you are an “everyone gets one mistake” kind of guy.

Her first mistake was reeking of booze and smoke, where I displayed my displeasure

Her second is continuing this unwelcome behavior, where I have decided to cut it off

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I ain’t Gandalf but…

RUN YOU FOOL.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[DocParticipant]

Why wait?

If she is on the road to ruin and can’t be helped just walk away.

But I would argue that even if she isn’t on the road to ruin you are safer walking away anyway.

Do you feel responsible for her?
Your question doesn’t require a vast amount of thought which may indicate a feeling of guilt if you walk and she slides further into oblivion.

She might or she might not. But that isn’t your problem.
She’s gonna impact on you if you hang around.

Keep it simple and walk.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[ghostParticipant]

Man, just move on from this c~~~. She will be miserable, believe me. You don’t need to witness it. Just trust me.

Walk away from this bitch and don’t look back.

#ICETHEMOUT

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

Too many questions I smell tuna

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Cut her off immediately.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Do you have a brother?

Only solution is to find another guy to take her off your hands.

Peace brothers

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

There really should me no dilemma here.

It’s hard to believe that you are actually contemplating YOUR two CHOICES.

From where I’m sitting, I ONLY SEE ONE OPTION which YOU should have CHOSEN LONG AGO ?

Please tell me that You are hanging around because the sex is GREAT or something like that.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 6]

Option 1 : Flush that turd and watch the flames from a safe distance!

[nonameParticipant 746]

Dont try to change her it a mistake many of us do, you can talk all you want she is not hearing it, she does not care and she will not change.
There is nothing you can do about it women are wired that way, accept it and move on.
Let some of her “friends deal with her drama.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[Anonymous 7]

This should make your decision easy-peasy….

Ask your self what is going to happen when you don’t make with the resources i.e. a place to live and money to spend?

Here are some things that might happen:
1. She will unf~~~ her self and get her s~~~ together (hahaha not going to happen).

2. She will monkey branch away from you.

3. She will make you absolutely miserable until you make with the resources, then she will continue to make you miserable.

4. She will get so angry with you for not making with the resources that she will dial 911 and accuse you of xyz.Don’t think this is a possibility? Go look in the intro section. She is a booze hound so this multiplies the risk of jail for you.

[DocParticipant]

IF – and it’s a big If – you manage to help this woman out what do think is gonna happen?

You think she will stay with you?
She is gonna move on to what she perceives as someone with ‘more’ to offer than you have.

That’s certainly no criticism of you but what women do.
You will be frozen out and friend zoned at best. If not destroyed by her attempt to take all she can from you.

We sense – you owe her nothing so walk away and leave her sort herself out. I bet if you did that some other blue pill idiot will jump in and try to be her white knight.

Save yourself plenty pain and walk.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[TrailbossParticipant 1844]

Walk away bro…always another t~~~ around the bend! This one is fishing around your resources and pretty soon (if she hasn’t already) she is gonna grab your c~~~ and say “Why not move in TOGETHER”!? And then…your life ends as you know it. Walk away….She’s going to go nuts when you tell her to get lost anyway…she probably won’t go away easy. Start now…

An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

Get rid of her and be free. Otherwise she will drag you down. Every woman is a parasite and the mask always falls off regardless.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

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