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I’m curious to know if there are any fellow MGTOW’s that remember the exact moment they saw the light.
I was in my early 20’s and was working at a store a a local shopping mall. One slow day, I was bored and started to watch all the people walk by my store. I noticed that one after the other all women pushing baby carriages were leading the way with their man dragging their feet unwillingly not far back. I NEVER saw one man walk in FRONT of their woman\baby, always BEHIND looking miserable. That’s when it hit me like a bolt from above. I promised myself I would never be one of those sorry chumps. I was in a relationship (2 1/2 yrs) at the time and a few weeks later I dumped my gf after my revelation. (She was talking about moving in anyway)…
This was 13 yrs ago and haven’t looked back since!
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
Somewhere I wanna in 1999? It was an “Unfortunate Series of Relationships” so to speak. I ghosted for a while, then focused in on me. Tripped and fell into a relationship in 2009, single most painful relationship of my entire life, she f~~~ed me up good. Now, I understand the error of my ways, it wasn’t all them, I allowed most of it to happen. I accepted my responsibility, went through all the step, bargaining, anger, acceptance, all that good rot.
I Stopped looking back, and realized that women are an option, and a very expensive one at that. I’m not actively seeking a relationship, nor eliminating them from my future. I’m making my trip through life about me, anyone can join, but they can’t f~~~ it up for me. Men have no problem enjoying my trip, it’s a f~~~ing blast, women added to anything equals a problem. When the benefit I get out of a woman exceeds the cost (problems), things are cool. When it’s the other way, bye— don’t let the door hit you in the ass on the way out.
Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....
I went with my fiancee to look at wedding sites last Sat. I’ve been divorced twice and I am 49 years old, she is 37. She “wanted to spend a nice day with me”, so she wore her hair up to show off her double chins, she does not keep heels in her car since she refuses to wear them, and then made sure to cover her self to the chin while in her baggiest pants, oh and did I mention the 40 lbs.?
It hit me like a brick. and yes I am very red faced to be this old and this stupid.
You’re only a little older than you were last Saturday, but it sounds like you are a whole lot smarter.
In case you need to be reminded, or need to see it in writing in a place you can refer back to:
You do not owe a relationship to any person in this world.
You are free to abandon any relationship with any adult that you choose, for any reason you choose, or for no reason at all other than that you feel like it.
How you feel matters that much …that it alone can be the reason you get into or out of a relationship.
All healthy relationships are voluntary on both sides.
If knowing what you now know about this relationship means that you would not have volunteered for it, then you have no obligation to volunteer for it for even one more day.
These are your rights. You were born with them and you own them for your whole life… unless at any point, you VOLUNTEER to give them up.
Whatever happens to you now in the context of the relationship will be something you volunteered for. You CHOSE to be in it exactly as it is… unless and until you CHOOSE not to be in it.
What you are expected to do/be, and what you are obligated to do/be, and what you volunteer to do/be… are three different lists, unless you voluntarily agree to merge them.
Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you
This may sound strange but The levels of freedom I feel correlated with the real freedom I experience and differs from the eye opening knowledge I gained through out my marriage and divorce… let me explain it this way:
I started living more for myself even before I was divorced. I became aware of my shackles while married, and correctly predicted every move my X-wife made before she made it…I never told her I knew her intentions or let on but I never the less knew…In my mind I knew the timing for her infidelity would be some time shortly after our daughter was born. believing in my gut instincts I kept closer tabs on her during the weeks after the birth. This made it easy to catch her and extracted confessions from both her and him..The old police trick saying the other already spilled the beans… I was definitely trapped with someone I knew very well, she was no mystery to me.. I actively worked towards the conditions that would cause her to seek the divorce…She lost control of me and knew it…The manipulation was reversed…having her cheating as a weapon in any dispute she was docile in this regard, we did not fight….Nor did she make much for demands….All this was going on from 1995- 2001…Six years of silent hell for me, knowing all the while, I wanted out…In 1999 I lost my father to lung cancer and the same year we filed bankrupt….This is the unbelievable part, but very true….in 2001 I was working at the highest hourly paying job in my life…payed off my wife’s mini-van the fifth vehicle she owned in our 12 year marriage….I drove the same truck throughout…took all my vacation pay at once and payed off our house…..boggles my mind when I think back at it… bankrupt in 1999–Paid for home in 2001…was I a good provider or what? The answer is or what…I was working for my freedom, but to obtain it I had to provide her with the right conditions… The owner financed property is another story for later….I knew freedom was close as conditions were right for her to dump a man she had no control over anyways….so in conclusion I was living and working for my own freedom before I could actually enjoy it…. even after the divorce I didn’t feel free…I had the mgtow mindset the moment my daughter was born….1995 , But the end of child support marked the point I really and truthfully felt the chains come off 2014….The title of my intro is evidence of this….
I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.
I became full-MGTOW in 2006. So, I have been a 9-year MGTOW veteran so far, back in the days when MGTOW was simply called “The Marriage Strike.”
For those who know my story, here’s a reminder, and for those who don’t, here’s the short version.
I had been treated like s~~~ by an abusive, manipulative mother(who just got divorced for the 4th time last year but didn’t get anything this time)and walked on by entitled bitches in my junior high and high schools. One of these girls reported me to the principal for being a “stalker” just because I said hi to her by her locker in passing, and then when I avoided her like hell, she instantly comes up to me to ask why I’m not talking to her anymore. It ended in a final confrontation where I left her in tears by the school entrance.
In 2005, after joining the army, I was engaged to be married. I knew I was in love with her when she made one call to my mother to tell her the good news about our relationship and then 2 minutes later, my fiancee-to-be hung up and remarked to me that my mother was a stupid, rotten bitch. Here was a girl who knew how abusive and twisted and evil my mother was as a person, so I was deeply in my NAWALT phase. But this didn’t stop her from cheating on me only DAYS before our wedding day. She pleaded with me for another chance, I wouldn’t give her that chance, and left her forever.
I went into severe shock over the incident, and was never exactly the same again after that. This incident had completely destroyed my trust and confidence in ALL women, except for my sisters, who are exceptions to this very day. These sisters of mine are happily married, and have never treated their husbands like s~~~, but give them full respect and smother their husbands in loving affection on a daily basis. My younger sister got married when she was 18. She is now almost 28, has 5 kids, and her husband told me a couple of months ago that he couldn’t imagine life without my sister and he got very choked up when he told me how much he loves her and how much she has showed her love for him.
But as for me, as the shock wore off(it took 18 months for me to get out of my depressive stupor), I swore I would never become emotionally involved with women again, and certainly nowhere on a romantic or seriously-dating basis. By 2006, thanks to the Internet, I began finding other stories of men getting screwed over by women, and I saw more examples of how bad women can be to their husbands in public. Almost 5 years in a Retail job during the recession gave me the Red Pill on a daily basis–defeated, depressed-looking men trailing behind their wives in public, standing there with glazed-over looks on their faces while their wives take their time in the feminine department, looking like they wished they were dead as their wives called them “useless bastards” and other insults in public.
I heard my first mention of MGTOW on the Internet in 2009, in which time, I had been “going my own way” for 3 years by then. But ever since 2009, I had been participating in MGTOW groups and forums, and even MGTOW groups on Facebook. I left two MGTOW groups on Facebook when manginas and feminist trolls infiltrated the groups, am currently an admin on another MGTOW Facebook group in present-day terms, and also left two forums when they got shut down/infiltrated.
The enemy is everywhere, gents. And the enemy has even tried to infiltrate this website on numerous occasions.
They wouldn’t have bothered trying to infiltrate if they didn’t find us such a THREAT to feminized society.
Go MGTOW!!!
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