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Won'tGetFooledAgain 2 years, 3 months ago.
My ex wife and I broke up 15 months ago (married for over 14 years). Now she does things that have nothing to do with how she did things while she was with me. Is she now simply being who she always was (some c~~~), or has she lost her mind and is on some kind frenetic crash course due to the break up and post-wall hysteria?
BEFORE: Aside from the first couple a years, it was always a bloody mission for me to try and get her to go beyond plain old in-outs at 10PM after she had finished watching her TV show.
NOW: F~~~s like a wild sow with her chad for hours on end at any time of day or night.BEFORE: Not a single tattoo.
NOW: She got her first tattoo at 44 years old and its theme is related to her current chad of a few months. It wouldn’t surprise me if I were to find out in a few months that she has a half dozen tattoos.BEFORE: Aside from cooking my meals she didn’t give me much TLC.
NOW: She can’t go an hour without contacting her chad to tell him how much she can’t live without him (what kind of species of feminist that is, I have no clue).BEFORE: Seemed like we were always struggling with money.
NOW: Spends like she makes double what I do even though she has a fake ‘job’.BEFORE: Not infected by the feminist virus and knew her place in the couple.
NOW: Sends me an email once in a while to boss me around and try and make me feel crappy.BEFORE: “I’d never date a guy that smokes”
NOW: Her chad smokes a plentyBEFORE: Wasn’t bragging about me
NOW: Can’t stop telling the whole world via social media how great her chad isETC…
Any of you with similar crap to deal with?
It gets to me sometimes and makes me feel like the whole relationship was a sham, something that was purely the result of baby-rabies and a nice looking passport at the end of it all.
Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
AnonymousWhy is it that they go slut-c~~~-bitch though? Why don’t they try to better themselves instead of delving into s~~~ that will surely mess their heads up down the line? I mean, for us MGTOW, the spirit of going red pill is to BETTER ourselves, as difficult as that may be, they, them c~~~s, it almost seems like it’s the opposite, like, let’s see how many free lunches and bad-girl behaviour I can get away with because of this here, vagina.
Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
Any of you with similar crap to deal with?
Since she’s YOUR EX, YOU don’t have to deal with “HER CRAP”.
None of her choices should affect YOU as YOU should be to busy focusing on YOUR NEW LIFE.
Let HER LIVE HER NEW LIFE. I’m not saying that you can’t laugh your ass off when her new Chad based life comes crashing down, but really, No F~~~s Given is the ONLY way to Fly in My Life.
It gets to me sometimes and makes me feel like the whole relationship was a sham, something that was purely the result of baby-rabies and a nice looking passport at the end of it all.
I have noticed/experienced/am living through that Women WILL GO TO GREAT LENGTHS to get “their man”, and AFTER Marriage then they do VERY LITTLE to KEEP him.
It almost seems that after marriage, they begin to do EVERYTHING to try and get rid of “their man”.
The bottom line is that she is having her fun, and looking like a middle aged fool trying to live like a teenager. Either way, her new thing will be in flames before you know it, but NONE of that should really matter to you in the least.
TIME FOR YOU TO MOVE ON.
WHY/HOW DO YOU EVEN KNOW/CARE WHAT SHE’S DOING ON SOCIAL MEDIA ??
STOP FOCUSING ON HER AND START FOCUSING ON YOURSELF !!
Just a few suggestions, but You have to make YOUR CHOICES DAILY about YOUR LIFE !!
When my days of Liberation come, the LAST THINGS I will be thinking about will be HER LIFE.
I’m all for these MGTOW suggestions, and most of the time I manage to stick to my guns and focus on what I want to get done for myself. To be clear, I don’t snoop, but my sons can’t stand Chad in their living space (they live with their mother) and I get all this ‘intelligence’ delivered to me when I have my ‘visits’ with them. I also have buddies that give me a heads-up on s~~~ my ex posts on SM that makes me look bad. How can her c~~~y friends applaud her knowing what it must be doing to make my kids feel uncomfortable? I almost wish s~~~ into their lives for applauding deplorable behaviour as a feminist stance. Most of the time I don’t care though, I even revel in my MGTOW freedom some days, but other times I must admit I feel a little lost, maybe concerned I should say, for I know that as long as she’s into this bad-girl phase it messes with my kids’ heads.
Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
AnonymousTeenager syndrome, I’ve seen it a thousand times. They revert to an irresponsible carefree teenager that doesn’t give a second of introspection to the things they’re doing, just be glad she popped after the separation and not before thereby risking your health with a contracted disease.
Funny thing is I have a knack for spotting them before they erupt. Like when animals can sense an earthquake before it happens.
Not that I should be caring, but what I find curious is that she has gotten all into this one Chad and puts all her focus on him. I would have expected more of a CC-ride attitude from her given her choice to go careless-teen mentality.
Mutual tattoos, her and her Chad… Even my son tells me that it seems odd for her to have done that. She must be a sight to bear: obvious ex house-wife gone divorce process mode on. That tattoo of hers must stand out like a sore thumb.
Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
To be clear, I don’t snoop, but my sons can’t stand Chad in their living space (they live with their mother) and I get all this ‘intelligence’ delivered to me when I have my ‘visits’ with them. I also have buddies that give me a heads-up on s~~~ my ex posts on SM that makes me look bad
Your kids may need to tell you things, but you don’t need to care enough about her new life to actually bother and try to understand it. You are DIVORCED for a REASON. You can politely ask your friends to stop telling you about your ex because you have moved on and don’t care, and that you would expect her to only post negative things. So, there’s no need for details as you are done with HER and HER CRAP.
How can her c~~~y friends applaud her knowing what it must be doing to make my kids feel uncomfortable?
Women can be Mean and evil bitches. You can’t stop them.
as long as she’s into this bad-girl phase it messes with my kids’ heads.
That does TRULY SUCK, but besides SUPPORTING YOUR KIDS, there is NOTHING that YOU can do about HER CHOICES/BEHAVIOR.
I thought I had a pretty good grip on NFG up until I found out that my ex decided that she wants to have Chad move in with her (and my kids). I just find that to increase my NFG abilities makes it start to affect my thoughts about my kids too. In the sense that I find I have to even start not giving a f~~~ about little things that can happen to them, like Chad in their lives more than I am, Chad telling them s~~~, my kids having to see their mom go all weird on them, etc. It’s not easy to just say “Well sons, we can’t care about all this too much, we have to try and not think about everything that your mom is doing, and not let Jackoff (we call him that as his real name is [something very similar sounding to Jackoff] get to us, and hope Jackoff just goes away one day.”
Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
This is all text book narcissistic behavior, she is playing with your head, and chad is her weapon, stop playing her game. I would suggest you Google, “female narcissist”, there is plenty of info on the net, and it will help explain what is happening, arm yourself with as much knowledge as possible.
I’ve considered this idea, but apparently my sons tell me that their mother really authentically seems into him, big time; even talked about… yes… MARRIAGE! They only met some months ago IRL after several months of virtual dating s~~~. Then about two months ago she invited him to come live with her (at the condo I still half own btw) and he did! He actually left his kids in Europe to come live here with her, get the f~~~fest going, and annoy my sons for over a month! My ex and him even tried making me into an Uncle Dad! My ex telling my sons that her new boyfriend is the man they should look up to. The plan now is for Jackoff to shuttle back and forth across the ocean and spend a month or two here and then go do a peek-a-boo with his kids back in Europe for a week or two, then pop on back here. My ex wants to go live in Europe and bring my sons with her but I have given my sons standing orders not to get on a plane or other out-of-country type of vehicle (and they gladly agreed).
Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
Yeah, I’d be so gone out of her life and off of her radar, and I’d delete her from my brain too, if it weren’t for the kids, yeah, I’d do that.
Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
AnonymousI thought I had a pretty good grip on NFG up until I found out that my ex decided that she wants to have Chad move in with her (and my kids). I just find that to increase my NFG abilities makes it start to affect my thoughts about my kids too. In the sense that I find I have to even start not giving a f~~~ about little things that can happen to them, like Chad in their lives more than I am, Chad telling them s~~~, my kids having to see their mom go all weird on them, etc. It’s not easy to just say “Well sons, we can’t care about all this too much, we have to try and not think about everything that your mom is doing, and not let Jackoff (we call him that as his real name is [something very similar sounding to Jackoff] get to us, and hope Jackoff just goes away one day.”
The situation that your SONS are going through COMPLETELY and UTTERLY SUCKS.
You say that you had NFG figured out well until she wanted Chad to move in, but your original post tells me that you still have plenty of f~~~s to give that have nothing to do with her cohabitation choices. YOU are concerned about her tattoos, frequency of contacting chad, ETC. ETC. I wouldn’t have suggested NFG if you were doing it. Not starting s~~~, just saying, look at YOUR OWN list for what it is.
Aside from getting custody of your kids, which is probably a road that you already attempted, THERE IS NOTHING THAT YOU CAN DO, and yes that is F~~~IN HARD to accept, but is continuing to spend your energies all wrapped up in your exes life going to IMPROVE YOUR LIFE WITH YOUR SONS ??
Talk with YOUR SONS about it as much as THEY NEED to, but don’t SPEND your time with them focusing on their mother and Chad, and don’t spend YOUR TIME away from your sons focusing on her and chad either.
Easier said then done, but like most things in life, it’s a process, and you should probably start the process NOW.
Yeah, I’m revisiting s~~~ and NFG needs to be brought to the next level. Working on it. Trying to cut things from my diet too, like too much bread, too much orange juice, reduce meal portions… More money now in pocket because of my new job. I have to buy more black coffees at the T H and less trips to the awesome bakery at the corner. Good thing though is that I’ve actually increased my daily exercise and improving physically at my age (pushing fifty) is a great up-lifter, plus the new job I have seems to be working out nicely (not that I should care, I know, I know, but it must get to my ex that she knows I’ll have STABLE income for years possibly).
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