Whats you opinion on cheating.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I was married for two years. No kids. Never cheated, but got accused of it.

My response: If I had wanted to screw other people, I would not have married YOU. If I want to screw other people in the future, it will be easier to divorce you and screw them openly than it would be to stay married and have to go to all the trouble to sneak around to do it.

Simplest way for me: Be married and act married, or be single and act single. For me, there is a limit to what sex is worth, not only in money, but in time and effort. The time and effort required for a married man to get sex outside his marriage is not worth it.

Now that I think of it, the time and effort necessary to get sex inside my marriage was also more time, trouble and expense than it was worth.

Just stay single and have sex with anyone who’s willing, while keeping more of your time, money, property, options, freedom and peace of mind.

Even if you have no morals at all regarding marriage commitments, this seems like a no-brainer just for the sake of safety and efficiency.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Cheating never even crossed my mind while married.(No judgement on those who have)

I just couldn’t do it. It was a short marriage (about 2 years) without any kids. @brainpilot we are on the same page it seems.

I was cheated on multiple times in my marriage; I later found out.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[BoarParticipant]

My opinion on cheating? If I am MGTOW, why should I give a s~~~?

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[GrumpyParticipant]

I don’t/won’t cheat. Its not in my playbook.
People can do as they wish as long as it doesn’t involve me.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

humans are not biologically designed to be monogamous

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[HitmanParticipant]

i have lots of co-workers, guys who ask me things,
they want advice..
they know that the hitman has been around the block a few times..
.
cheating ?
you have to live with whatever you do.
.
can you really be in a relations~~~ and have cheated ?
do you want to be an actor who has to pretend he didn’t cheat ?
.
is the relations~~~ so good that you have to ask ???

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Hitman wrote:

i have lots of co-workers, guys who ask me things,
they want advice..
they know that the hitman has been around the block a few times..
.
cheating ?
you have to live with whatever you do.
.
can you really be in a relations~~~ and have cheated ?
do you want to be an actor who has to pretend he didn’t cheat ?
.
is the relations~~~ so good that you have to ask ???

Perfect answer.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[guiParticipant 825]

Cheating is something I don’t do because I always think on how much I would hate to be the husband working hard while my wife f~~~s around. I don’t care if other people cheat as long they don’t use me to it.

I had some married women hit on me but I always turn them down or just ignored them.
One of them was my neighbor’s wife. She gave me plenty of hints but I completely ignored her yet she was always asking my mom about my life.

There was a time when I still was bluepill that I entered a cosmetic shop in our city mall to buy a perfurme to a female “friend” but what I didn’t know is that my neighbor’s wife worked there. She later went to ask my mom who I bought it for and said I should really like the girl because it was very expensive (it wasn’t). LOL
Thankfully I ignored her enough that she gave up.

To sum things up the reason I don’t cheat is because I try my best to only do to others what I would want to be done to me. Now that I’m going my own way I don’t have to worry about being cheated on.

Pity and contempt are siblings. You only feel pity for those you consider weak.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

TattooDave wrote:

Alright Key Master …. Where the f*** were you in 1979 when I needed you?

Probably just as confused about it as you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

When I first got cheated on, it was devastating. I was blue pill, younger and super naïve. The next time, I knew what to look for, understood human nature a whole lot more, and so it wasn’t a surprise.

The woman, a friend, did what you’re supposed to do when you cheat. She told me, the way the accused do on Law and Order. Straight to the point with no blaming anyone else but herself. She cried for about twenty minutes, apologized for another twenty.

Then she caught my reaction, and asked why wasn’t I upset. I told her because I knew she would cheat even before we became “more than friends”, and that I knew her well enough to know it was in her female nature. It also helped that I had just been cheated on prior to being with her. My reaction would come to fcuk with her for months.

After her confession she asked me what I wanted to do, and would I ever speak with her again. I told her not only did I give zero fcuks, and would stay for dinner, but that I planned on fcuking her brains out for dessert to, umm, work out my discontent. Some of the best sex I’ve ever had.

So, the point of all of that? Women cheat because of hypergamy and their female nature. Men cheat because of the desire to spread their seed as far and wide as they can, given their sexual market place value, which is part of male nature. Also, each person has a different sexual frequency. Some want to fcuk more often than other. But this is for men.

Women cheating is about access to resources, power, and protection, more than the physical act itself. When you cheat on a woman she doesn’t give a rats ass (deep down) that you put your Richard in some other woman’s Oval Office. She cares more that your resources, power, and protection are going to that other women, and may do so on a permanent basis, to her exclusion.

Cheating is part of the human condition. I think to cheat or not to cheat isn’t the real question. The real question is, do you accept the consequences of your cheating, whatever they may be.

My personal calculus is that although I have had many opportunities to stick my Johnson in different honey pot other than my wife’s, each time I have determined that the consequences weren’t worth it at the time. Sometimes I just didn’t want it that badly, other times I realized it would just be a temporary reprieve from a thirst that won’t be quenched (until maybe I’m 90, if I’m even around that long).

If my wife cheated, It would just be socially acceptable grounds for divorce, nothing more. I treat my marriage, especially post-Red Pill, as a business arrangement.

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Keymaster wrote:

The next weekend is spotted out with another woman, or he doesn’t call her again,
and the first one behaves like he “treated her badly”.

And she does it even if she wasn’t free to go out with him the next weekend anyways. She does it even if she, herself, was out with a different man that weekend.

She hasn’t lost a damn thing, but still she tries to pretend she’s been “wronged”.

It’s so f~~~ed up.

“It” isn’t f~~~ed up. Women are.

And the only way to deal with it is not giving a f~~~, and making sure women know you don’t give a f~~~. If she wants to be angry because I was out with someone else while she was off f~~~ing some Chad, well then that’s her problem, not mine. We don’t have to see each other again. I don’t owe her anything.

Women are not entitled to a man’s attention. They need to earn it.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

sidecar wrote:

And she does it even if she wasn’t free to go out with him the next weekend anyways. She does it even if she, herself, was out with a different man that weekend.

sidecar wrote:

“It” isn’t f~~~ed up. Women are.

I say “it” because “it” is baked into the legal system too.

I DID NOT f~~~ a woman once, and I sent her home in a cab – like a “gentleman” would – because I decided we were “too drunk” to continue.

2 weeks later she called me and another female voice answered my phone. This c~~~ actually reacted like I treated her badly, made my life a living hell , acred like a cheated on her and she wasn’t even my girlfriend. We never even had sex!!! And for this SSSSSS~~~ she brought a false accusation against me. “Hell hath no fury” and all of that nonsense. But she wasn’t “scorned”. She was totally f~~~ed in the head.

Bitch would be about 43 now and she had two cats back then.
She probably has 43 cats now. Crazy as f~~~.

This is why this topic is very personal to me.

No woman has ever — or will ever — make like I “cheated” on her (or use that word in my presence) as long as I am unmarried. I actually told girlfriends after that, “don’t worry , I don’t cheat. If I am ever in situation where I am about to stick my dick in another female, I will call you up and dump you first. Fair??”.

Gave them something to think about.
And they never brought it up again.

Rolling Tin Fist wrote:

When I first got cheated on, it was devastating. I was blue pill, younger and super naïve. The next time, I knew what to look for, understood human nature a whole lot more, and so it wasn’t a surprise.

We all were, but I never really believed women can be faithful.
They get off on “secret sex” too much.

I guess I always took the same attitude with women that I expected then to take with me. Im unmarried and so is she. But if she wants to stray, she can’t be in a “relationship”. Eventually I insisted on a “no relationship” arrangement and then there can be no “cheaters” or messy break ups. I can’t stand that childish drama Carrie Underwear bulls~~~.

“WERE YOU CHECKING OUT THAT OTHER GIRL???”

“YES. And so were you. Problem?”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Keymaster wrote:

don’t worry , I don’t cheat. If I am ever in situation where I am about to stick my dick in another female, I will call you up and dump you first. Fair??”.

No good. Legalism is the devils playground. In her mind, it would be a fair deal if she sucked another guys c~~~, since you only promised to tell her if you were going to stick your dick in another woman. Character cannot be negotiated… An impass with a woman.

The only good advice my father ever gave me was: only negotiate with a woman from a position of strength.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Keymaster wrote:

2 weeks later she called me and another female voice answered my phone. This c~~~ actually reacted like I treated her badly, made my life a living hell , acred like a cheated on her and she wasn’t even my girlfriend. We never even had sex!!! And for this SSSSSS~~~ she brought a false accusation against me. “Hell hath no fury” and all of that nonsense. But she wasn’t “scorned”. She was totally f~~~ed in the head.

And that’s when you get a restraining order / no contact order against her.

Women only do this s~~~ because they get away with it.

So don’t let them get away with it.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

I cheated once and vowed to never do it again.

I felt horrible even though my girl at that time was a complete asshole feminazi bitch. She had previously assaulted me too and I let her get away with it. Didn’t help that it was a retarded long distance relationship. Made it even worse that the girl I cheated with was hot as f~~~ compared to my girl.

I came clean and told her. She decided to stay with me. I should have left her on the spot, I hated her. I did leave her a few months after finally. I made certain to tell her to get lost in the most cold hearted way possible. I never saw her again.

#MANOUT

[KeymasterKeymaster]

sidecar wrote:

And that’s when you get a restraining order / no contact order against her.

Women only do this s~~~ because they get away with it.

So don’t let them get away with it.

I promise you , she didn’t get away with it. There was a restraining order and she wasn’t permitted within 500 feet of my home or place of work. And I never saw her again. Told the “Jennifer” story here before. What a catastrophe.

So you can imagine my reaction to seeing the Carry Underwear video, where bitches all across the continent think it’s “LOL” to carve her name into your letter seats. I got news for those c~~~s.

If I were in a relationship now, and she pulled that “how do I know you’re not going to cheat on me?” s~~~, I would hire a whore and ass f~~~ her right in our bed where she can see it… while saying “ASK ME THAT STUPID QUESTION AGAIN. WHAT?? I CAN’T HEAR YOU!! CAN YOU TALK LOUDER?? I’M TOO BUSY F~~~ING SOMEONE ELSE RIGHT NOW.”

Until she works and saves for a year, kneels down with a ring , and makes a man an offer he simply can’t refuse ….. women are forbidden from accusing unmarried men of “cheating”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 2]

I don’t cheat. I am unapologetically polygamous just like women are unapologetically hypergamous. I refuse to deny nature. A woman that has a relationship with me gets a say in my choice of women, so she’d better appreciate the female form herself. I don’t have the energy or motivation to pursue a lot of girls so it’s not the worst deal. I don’t lie with whom I sleep. Lies are for those who feel ASHAMED, and I don’t (anymore).

[DauntlessParticipant 403]

I say, if you’re in a relationship with someone, you shouldn’t cheat, period. Likewise, if you see someone in a relationship, respect that relationship. Don’t cheat with them. That goes for both men AND women. We’re supposed to be equal, remember?

Women in particular needs to be punished for cheating. They have the most oppurtunity to f~~~ men over, they can have another man’s babies and force their boyfriend/husband to pay for everything. DNA tests should be mandatory.

That’s the way I see it anyway.

"To live is to suffer; to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering." - Friedrich Nietzsche

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