whats with asking if " do you low self esteem" ??

[CasualGuy227Participant 170]

Hey guys just a quick one here to get some feed back or maybe just to be told that im over thinking it but hey ho either way is good.

Few weeks ago was at work at my current job with most of my shift past so was pretty tired and fatigued.

Bumped into my friends girlfriend, who currently i dont know too much or well enough in my view of yet but im pretty civil with and we start making small talk and due to me being pretty tired both mentally and physically during the day im not super peppy normal self in work at times which she asked if everything was ok and if anything was wrong following with ” do you have low self esteem ? ” safe to say that kinda added weirdness to the convo. I just said no im just tired and the topic was changed.

that being said not too sure what to make of it some kind of line or somethig ?

Am I overthinking it ?

Any views would be great, thanks

– Casual Guy

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

CasualGuy227 wrote:

Am I overthinking it ?

Perhaps you are. Is she naturally air-headed? I think a lot of women don’t realize how annoying they can be when they ask people what’s wrong. They seem to think it’s important for us to purge our FEELINGS to each other.

It’s totally natural not to be happy all the time. The way I see it: this world gives us more reasons to be depressed than happy—so I seldom ask people why they’re upset. I just let them be.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[SkelatorParticipant 1261]

In case you haven’t noticed the modern workplace and society assumes something is wrong with you if you don’t bend over backwards to please them. Phony smiles and fake hellos. I see it everyday with these people, they all laugh at the bosses poorly planned jokes. Single? Whats wrong with you? GTFO with that. Nothing is wrong with me you puppets.

Regardless that is a very s~~~ty thing to say to anyone, especially if you actually suspect the answer is yes. Sounds like a sgt. major bitch. I feel sorry for your friend.

I would have responded “No, I am tired because I have to pull extra duty around here with all the women they are hiring.”

[AwakenedParticipant 35206]

CasualGuy227 wrote:

Am I overthinking it ?

I would say so.

I’m sure that You are thinking about it a Hell of a lot MORE then she is/did.

Most lil cupcakes don’t think before they speak, and they will just go on and on talkin all kinds of s~~~, and you know that there should be an operable filter between her brain and mouth which Most don’t have.

Who cares anyways ?

Hey sweetie, “I have low self-esteem”, or “I don’t have low self-esteem”. Why give a f~~~ either way what her lil hamster wheel thinks about you.

Increase YOUR PERSONAL FREEDOM, and Stop Giving a f~~~ about what others, especially Women, think about YOU !!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MonkParticipant 17047]

CasualGuy227 wrote:

… following with ” do you have low self esteem ? ”

Let me unpack that for you.

[Thinks] Preppy. Money. I wonder if he’s weak.
“Do you have low self-esteem?”

[nonameParticipant 746]

She probably recognized your NFG attitude and was curious about it.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[Anonymous 3]

Skelator wrote:

hony smiles and fake hellos. I see it everyday

Skelator wrote:

. Phony smiles and fake hellos. I see it everyday with these people, they all laugh at the bosses poorly planned jokes. Single? Whats wrong with you?

this is turning out to be the natural state of affairs,in my estimation.
When a woman says Are you OK & expects an answer…..this is an attempt to take away your masculinity & turn it over to her. thats my take

[SkelatorParticipant 1261]

this is turning out to be the natural state of affairs,in my estimation.
When a woman says Are you OK & expects an answer…..this is an attempt to take away your masculinity & turn it over to her. thats my take[/quote]

Excellent insight! I recall this being used several times on me before and not really understanding what was going on. Thinking maybe they actually cared was my mistake.

[Anonymous 18]

Women *insert* insecurity on behalf of any given man to level the playing field so to speak. Majority women are less intelligent, very mediocre in carrying quality conversation, and have limited scope of interests when compared to a average Joe.

Wanna grab a bite later?
How do I know you’re not a serial killer?

Don’t be the dog to chase the bone. Its female nature to throw bones and men are too dumb to not chase it.

It takes work but being indifferent to women’s word is a salvation. Watch her actions instead.

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