What's up yall?

[ChadParticipant 5]

So after reading a couple other intros I figured I should dust off my thinking cap and actually say something to introduce myself. Maybe that’s just me following the heard, but I’d rather follow this heard than the one “out there”.

Torontonian born and raised by my single mother. So obviously you can start to see the scene immediately. No father figure (never met the man, and he refuses to acknowledge I’m his, and won’t meet me despite my requests and paternity tests to prove it in court many moons ago), raised by my mother and my older and massively self-entitled, angry, obese, well-educated, domineering sister.

Been “searching” my whole life. Never knowing what for, always knowing that nope, still haven’t found it. What I do know is that something is missing in me, or in the way I act, that is not in those “other” guys out there that I see going through life seemingly without a care and with ease. How do they do that? Always a mystery to me.

Throughout my life I’ve constantly been trying to mold myself into what women will accept and allow in their life/bed/wtvr only to end up not being happy after the initial shine wears off. Always searching for the “right” one. Always thinking something is wrong with me. I’ve spent so many years and so much time in online dating that the amount of rejection I’ve occurred has left me massively jaded, cynical, broken, and generally just in a bad mood about women and dating in general.

Last year I found the Mansy podcast. That’s a pretty good ice-beaker for those yet to take their red pill. But it came off a little brash, more like a bartender and one of his barflys shooting the s~~~ about why chicks suck. Then last week I found MGTOW. Ahhh I see. Huge eye opener, and immediately deleted the online dating s~~~ from my phone. No more online dating. No more molding myself into what they want. No more of their s~~~.
No more!

Thank-you for doing this, all of you. I have miles to go. So much to learn. All I can say is keep it up.

Choyles

“If I have seen a little further it is by standing on the shoulders of Giants.”
~Isaac Newton

[UntamedParticipant]

Choyles! Welcome. Thanks for the intro and sharing. I hope you find a little of what you’re searching for here, if anything you’ll read something that’ll give you a trail to follow. Many wise men on mgtow.com and plenty of advise all for the asking. So enjoy and
Cheers!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Welcome.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Welcome Choyles!

Chad wrote:

Been “searching” my whole life. Never knowing what for, always knowing that nope, still haven’t found it.

I was feeling the same way until I realized that what I was searching for was impossible to find. You were probably trying to find that fairy-tale that is sold to us from childhood, in which you find THE ONE, get married and have a wonderful family, AND you have a great job and hobbies and wonderful friends and all the other bulls~~~. Of course you haven’t found it. Even if what you were looking for was “your true calling or passion”, you couldn’t have found it because from what you said, you were not you. Since you were always trying to be someone you were not just to please women, there is no way you could have also pursued your true passions in life. You were not living for yourself.
Now that you started on this new road, on which you make your own choices and follow your own direction, you will find that what was missing in you was YOURSELF.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome, mate!

Chad wrote:

Thank-you for doing this, all of you. I have miles to go. So much to learn. All I can say is keep it up.

Dip into the Stoic philosophers, like Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus. I have found no better way to organize my thoughts and attitudes than Stoicism.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ChadParticipant 5]

Thanks guys.
Will definitely check out the stoics. And definitely aim to be myself from now on rather than the bulls~~~ fairy tale version sold to the masses. I’ve already found a few of the wise guys here. I’ll be around, count on it.

Choyles

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

You’ve got to find meaning for your life dude. Don’t expect it to passively appear. Lots of guys find meaning by finding a chick they can tolerate (the woman usually finds them), settling for a job they hate, and having kids. It doesn’t have to be that way. Sure, other people may judge you harshly for not wanting those things, but f~~~ em. As far as I know, this is the only life we get on this planet, Why waste your limited decisions try to get validation from others? Validate your own urges bro.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

Welcome Choyles, great fan of Ed Roth, by the way, like that avatar, reveals my age.
This site is all about the Man, that be You!
Enjoy the wild ride, bros.
Cheers.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Welcome Choyles, nice ta meet you.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[ChadParticipant 5]

stopmockingman wrote:

Welcome Choyles, great fan of Ed Roth, by the way, like that avatar, reveals my age.This site is all about the Man, that be You!Enjoy the wild ride, bros.Cheers.

Ha yeah I was looking for a shot of an old 50s album cover that I think had his work on it as well. Closest thing I could find. I’m only 39 though! Lol

Thx again all.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

RoyDal wrote:

Welcome, mate!
Dip into the Stoic philosophers, like Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus. I have found no better way to organize my thoughts and attitudes than Stoicism.

Just wanted to say thanks for suggesting that. I found a link to a free translation here Marcus Aurelius – Meditations

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

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