What's The Best Advice That You Would Give A Young Man Today?

[Anonymous 6]

Hello Gentlemen. What would be the advice that you’d give a young man today? Heck, any man for that matter. This comes from your life experience gents.

My advice? Focus on you first, priorities matter. Women come WAY down the list. If they appear on the list at all.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

To visit this site, take-in the experience from all of its members, and listen to 100+ hours of Tom Leykis

[HitmanParticipant]

Whatever you do,
NEVER GET MARRIED! !!!!

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

Stay out of trouble.

Take care of yourself mentally and physically.

Do not go into debt.

Learn to save money and spent money frugally.

Learn everything you can without going into debt.

Do not become a work-a-holic. Life is to short spending all your time working.

Do not expect any pensions or other systems you are forced to pay into to be there when you need such systems. Adjust your plans so you do not need such systems to survive.

Do not join any organization which can use the law to control you. Such as do not join the military.

Do not involve yourself with women, manginas, or white knights.

Prepare and expect massive cultural upheavals in society within your lifetime.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Every action have reaction.

Everything you do have consequence.

Make sure you know what is the consequence before taking action.

Many people are unhappy, in deep trouble because they don’t know the price they are going to pay before they choose to do what they would.

And advertisers, mass media, society always coerce the people to act in their interest instead of the individual interest. Instead of following the herd blindly, think before you leap.

When you know what you can get from life and what price to pay, the best path possible for you will be revealed.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[Anonymous 6]

Keep your head in the books and off the women. They will always be there, but your chance at success won’t be. Make the most out of what you have.

Save money, invest money, reinvest money, spend wisely.

Put no focus on women. They will blind you, and cost you dearly at the dreams you have.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Learn a trade, get material assets and enjoy your life, trollop free!

[joetechParticipant]

1) Never trust a woman…not even your own mother. They all have an agenda for you.

2)Avoid student debt like the plague. The military can offer training that translates directly to college credits. If you choose the military as a stepping stone, use it wisely.

3)Never marry, co-habitate, or otherwise put yourself into a position where a woman has control over a portion of your life. That’s how it starts. Refer to rule number one.

4)Begin investing (not saving in a passbook account) as early as you can. You’re going to get old whether you do this or not. Why not become financially independent while you’re getting old?

5)Avoid people with bad advice. They’re just jealous of what you have and how you’re living. Family is the worst.

6)Live your dreams, not someone else’s dreams.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 7]

Pump & Dump if you must. If you do, always wrap your wacker before you attack her.
Buy a fleshlight and save your $.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

One chance, per person, per lifetime. NO exceptions.

Order the good wine

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

Respect and take care of yourself first and foremost and then focus on your education regardless of how challenging and difficult it may be.

And never fall for blue pill BS nor let anyone bring you down.

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[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Your ability to create value for yourself, your family, the people around you, and your country is THE MOST VALUABLE COMMODITY ON THE PLANET. Throughout history, young men little different from you have provided the ideas, the effort, the innovations, the sacrifices, and the products that make this planet inhabitable. The whole world, and everyone in it depends on that willingness and ability of young men to commit themselves, their effort and their intellect in order for the world to continue to function and for everyone in it to continue to survive.

That is the value of what you are capable of achieving. Given that enormous value of what you can produce, expect that a large collection of liars, frauds and thieves will line up for a chance to take it from you. They are motivated by the enormous value of what they are trying to steal, and there is nothing they will not try. There is nothing so shameful as to be beneath them.

So as you grow up and move into the world and start to produce and accomplish and achieve things, remember to serve your needs first. Because if you don’t, that pack of thieves will serve themselves first and if that happens, they will leave you with nothing at all. You will be expendable. So when you produce food, you eat first. When you produce money, you get paid first. When you dig a well, you drink first.

The biggest threat to your health, wealth and peace will not be your occasional mistake or failure. It will be the success of someone else’s effort to take them from you. It sucks that life will be this way for you, but only because you are as valuable as you are. Once you realize your value, and protect yourself accordingly, life is pretty good…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Anonymous 18]

In addition to @brainpilot‘s terrific advice, I’d add that: The woman who showers you with affection with resonate with you, provide you meaning, give you validation, and will provide a sense of happiness and completeness that is unlike any other emotion you’d have felt.

BUT all those emotions are WITHIN you. As a man that value you give to this emotion you would feel with a woman you may label it ‘love’ …. its all happening in your body. The woman is merely a vessel that enables you to tab in those emotions and feelings. Do not let any ONE woman take credit for it. Do not bestow all those great and genuine emotions on to a woman.

She is incapable of feeling them on same wavelength as you my young bros.

She could love you but love is going to be defined by your height, muscles, cars, looks and will be exchanged that easily by someone who is better of those things.

joetech wrote:

Never trust a woman

Faust For Science wrote:

Take care of yourself mentally and physically.

Function follows form. Stay fit, you will feel great.

Gnostic wrote:

Everything you do have consequence.

Think twice. Do once. Yeah yeah, but learn from the mistakes at least 🙂

[chirParticipant]

I won’t say don’t go out and never f~~~ women. I used to be a young man. I understand the THIRST is strong when you are young.

That being said. Read about the horror stories from the older men in introductions. These are men who have learned about the nature of modern women by having their souls barbecued by modern women.

LEARN from their agony.

What I am saying is keep in mind that all it takes is ONE word from a woman to ruin your life.

As a man your life is about cost vs benefit. Include modern women in the equation.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Learn to be comfortable being alone with yourself. Many people make bed decisions because the feel alone or are afraid of being alone. Enjoy the solace of spending the weekend taking care of yourself, mowing the grass, cooking a meal, and reading a book. Realize that you don’t need someone 24/7 to find happiness.

Learn to delay gratification. Write a letter to your parent or grandparent. Cook your own meal rather than get takeout. Set a long term goal, such as working out, learning an instrument, or a language. Turn off your cell phone for the day, or leave it at home when you run errands.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

1. Become determined to learn a socially and economically valued way of earning a good living, preferably one that allows you geographic mobility. Become proficient at it and exercise the highest part of your integrity in doing your work.
2. If you feel you must expand your occupation, as by hiring employees, working from multiple locations, offering new services, do so with the greatest prudence and only after seeking the paid advice of those who know more than you—lawyers, CPA’s, etc.
3. Spend your spare hours in a way most beneficial to your well-being. Exercise and rest consistent with your available energy, find an outdoor and indoor hobby. Never stop reading and studying beyond your occupational learning. Eat good food and learn to cook. Drink moderately if it truly agrees with you (be honest about that) and avoid drugs altogether.
4. Remember that a few close and well-chosen friends is far better than a vast collection of acquaintances.
5. Find time to travel abroad. Not everyone lives the way you do and seeing that at first hand can be instrumental in your own growth.
6. Be extremely cautious in your relations with women. They don’t think like we think and they don’t want what we want. This is true despite their assurance otherwise and outward appearances. They can’t fight fairly and many of them are truly “tall children.” If you think of marriage, ask whether you would want to have a child with that woman AND whether you would like to have a child LIKE that woman. Except for marriage after a searching scrutiny, avoid cohabitation. It is unnecessarily complicated and limiting. Be especially cautious of those who already have kids. You can never hope to be a priority with them and you will still find yourself swept up in her family complications (child discipline and resentment, hostile exes, visitation/custody issues, etc.)
7. Life is hard. It’s even harder if you’re stupid.

[markParticipant 451]

Anonymous wrote:

Hello Gentlemen. What would be the advice that you’d give a young man today? Heck, any man for that matter. This comes from your life experience gents.

My advice? Focus on you first, priorities matter. Women come WAY down the list. If they appear on the list at all.

My background: Born dirt poor in family with history of alcohol and drug abuse and nobody ever went to College. Me? 40yo, MBA and top of my class, 6-figure income, several properties, 100+ women I have had sex with, visited almost all continents and spent years around the world. I am not showing off but I believe it is important that people know who is giving the advice, and how my own advice worked from me.

Advice 1: Don’t ask electrical questions to a carpenter. If you want money advice, ask a rich guy. If you want women advice, find someone who met many. Look at the person giving you the advice. Never take advice from someone who has an interest on it.

Advice 2: Spend minimum 1 year abroad without anyone from your family or friends. It will broad your views.

Advice 3: You have the same value as your employer. Be loyal and honorable as long as the company does likewise. If they don’t, leave.

Advice 4: NEVER allow a carrot on your face. “you will have 100k of company stock after 3 years so we will pay you a very low salary” is worth nothing unless there is a clause that says that you will get that in cash if the company does not go public. When she says “We will have sex when I am ready” means there is no chemistry between you two. In both cases, they are putting you a carrot in your face, which is deeply respectful. Don’t do it.

Advice 5: No such thing as “the one” or “Mrs. Right”. 7 billion people, half of them women. There is at least 1 million women who will fit whatever person you like.

Advice 6: Never borrow money to buy depreciating assets. A new car breaks less often than a second hand car, but both depreciate in value. If you borrow money to buy a second hand car, when you calculate all costs don’t be surprised to see that you are paying “new car” money.

Advice 7: Buy a home, yes, but only when you are ready. If you cannot save 20% of the value of your future home in cash, with your own money, it simply means that you do not have the ability to save responsibly. On average it takes 10 years of constant saving to create the mental strength to complete a mortgage. This comes from a guy who has bought several properties and never been defaulted.

Advice 9: Learn how to play social poker: Never show your cards until the game is completed. Always ask yourself the question “what value will I get from this”. AND SHUT UP “I am going to give him/her a piece of my mind”…what will you win with it? Why would you educate someone who hurts you about their own mistakes? Don’t make threats, make assertions. Say “I will leave the company” when you have signed another job offer. Don’t explain your decisions if you can avoid it. It is better to say “I leave you because I don’t have a feeling for you anymore” than “I met someone else”.

Advice 10: Always let women break up with you. Again, pride is a burden. You don’t want to “win” in a relationship. When she is too much, make yourself scarce, make her angry, and then use that “fight” to leave. She will be too proud to call you, and by the time she does simply don’t pick the phone.

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

1. Pursue your dreams.
2. Forget the Joneses.
3. Turn off the TV.
4. Don’t get married.
5. Don’t have kids.

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