What would you tell this married guy?

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  • #564341
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    Freedom
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    I’ll translate to English

    title: “I can’t sleep with my wife”

    content: ” after marriage, she changed 180 degrees, all the time she is trying to boss me around, from my friends to my money, of course, I am not letting her.
    She gets p~~~ed off for every minor issue and It makes me less attracted to her, I have sex with her anyway, so she won’t get offended but even though I get a boner, I still can’t cum and I’m lying that I did.
    I know she is very vulnerable so I can’t say anything and I don’t want her crying to me like a little child like the does in most cases.
    She claims that she is not an angry person, people just grinds her gears”

    #564342
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    Rhino
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    What we would tell any man in a marriage gtfo as fast as possible and don’t look back all it takes is one phone call to ruin his life.

    #564344
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    Bstoff
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    GTFO.
    It’s not hard to figure that one out.
    If he hasn’t been married too long he might be able to get it annulled.

    Even divorce is easier and cheaper the sooner you act.

    I hope he learned his lesson, otherwise he has more crazy, expensive women to f~~~ up his life waiting in the wings.

    #564347
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    Carnage
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    If no kids he is safe.

    She doesn’t even enjoy sex with him, it’s all a lie.

    Tell him to run like usain bolt with 1 kg of cocaine on his hand and two cops approaching.

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    #564357
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    IRuleMe
    IRuleMe
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    Pack up your s~~~ one day while she’s at work, and ghost the f~~~ out of her. Let her come home one day to an empty house. Then file papers on her ass and have her served at work. See ya!

    #564361
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    Anonymous
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    lol I was there

    most nights I slept on the floor or on the couch down stairs because of her violent dreams and violent nature when awake. forget begging for sex, she initiated when she wanted it.

    I used to find steak knives under the bed, like fukn fatal attraction. I disarmed her a couple times while she was sleep walking coming after me.

    gawd, I really hated sleeping next to her. sometimes on random nights she would just grab my junk and pull harder than necessary, not a pull cord for a mower honey, not a grab handle bitch. I think the worst was when she would grab me during sex, and use me like a toy.

    after the marriage…they all do that, awalt.

    every minor issue, my way or get out I want a divorce, im not haaaaapy awalt

    who wants to f~~~ a raving lunatic bitch who can call the cops when you don’t give her what she wants, make up some bulls~~~, and you are gone! yeah, makes me rock out with my c~~~ out.

    ya don’t want to make kids with that kind of crazy, the big head is winning over the little head. Keep yer spooge to yerself amigo, not one drop.

    vulnerable? really? smack that s~~~ out of your friend tomorrow. vulnerable my ass, behaving like a spoilt child to get something shiny and expensive. f~~~ that nonsense. ohhh sew vulnerable and helpless. pahleaze. women are tougher than that, its all a game a s~~~ test, and yer buddy fails every time. how tough are women? here are 22 women who told the Japanese army to go f~~~ themselves:

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bangka_Island_massacre

    she learned that crying and whimpering and stamping her feet…oh don’t get little pumpkin mad or she’ll umm she’ll well, she’ll get mad and she wont have sex with me, stop loving me, make a scene, go tell her friends how mean I am….fill in the blank. walking on eggshells gets old.

    This woman is insane in the membrane man. People grind her gears…how about solipsism in the first degree! people get in her way of world fukn domination. that is how insane she is, borderline personality right there.

    there is no cure for this. your friend is legally tied to this s~~~. I thought divorce would end my c~~~’s craziness, nope, in 8 years I survived an attack with a knife, jail for contempt, three car chases, three times nearly run over, tracking devices, private investigators, 7 false accusations of stalking and vandalism, harassment, assault and f~~~ knows what she is dreaming up right now. to date, this has cost me $300,000. Who knows what the future holds for your friend and his snowflake?

    what do you say to your friend? never too late to dump her, but for every day he spends with her, there are financial consequences. In the US, a marriage lasting more than 10 years, spouses get a significant part of social security retirement money. She made a ton of money while we were married, and I mad very little. I was married 10 years 8 months, enough to get a part of her social security. lol. It is in her best interest to keep on working, and take late distribution. I’ll get some of it. lol

    is she worth the pain? is she worth the potential damage? your friend is getting abused emotionally, he was expecting love and happiness, and instead has misery and pain. For e it took $300,000, my children, post traumatic stress disorder, many years out of my life, moving several times, 5 months living in a tent to be free of the c~~~. errr f~~~ that, in the morning I must write out a check for $470…child support.

    I don’t know what to tell your friend. Tell him my story, there are pieces of it here, find them and show him how f~~~ed up wedded bliss can be. I was ready to soak myself with 5 gallons of gasoline and burn myself down to nothing because of a woman I loved betrayed me, wrecked my mind, damaged me beyond repair and redemption. I endured for 10 years 7 months 10 days of marriage. 3875 days. How strong is your friend?

    I would gladly pour the gas on myself again if I was compelled to take up with another woman ever again. Without a second’s hesitation. That is how f~~~ed up I am. Tell your friend that. I am walking down the same road he is on, just a few miles ahead.

    #564378
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    Aposematic
    Aposematic
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    Come to think of it, the only thing that divorce allows you to do is remarry. It would be interesting for a married man to “Ghost” as an alternative to divorce rape. DIsappear one day along with all traces of assets. If she wants to remarry and needs a divorce she will have a go at filing. But imagine if Men failed to play courts when it comes to separation!!!

    Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

    #564383
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    Anonymous
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    lol if men didn’t go to court?

    ohhh that’s a good one.

    bench warrant.

    women can skip out on court all they want, even if they bring the complaint.

    #564385
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    NoMore
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    This sounds like my marriage. She will hide behind her mask until the ink is dried. When you return from the honeymoon, all bets are off. You have fallen for the first and biggest trap and there will be many more to follow. There will be the bigger house trap and the lets have kids trap. Each of these will make you more likely to be punished should you decide to leave the marriage contract. Know that anything you do will be wrong. You work too much, or we need more money. You don’t spend enough time with our kid, or you can’t just stay at home all day.

    This is how society’s thinking and its jargon have evolved. She wants a new car and a new house. I work more to provide this. She said I am working too much and not spending time with family. After having a kid, work less to spend time at home. She complains that I’m just laying around the house instead of working.

    This is the new paradigm, that everything is not enough. Anything you do will have a fault to be exploited. Work enough to provide, too job oriented. Take off for family, too lazy. There is literally a criticism against any decision you make. You cannot succeed.

    A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

    #564413
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    Joetech
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    There’s nothing to tell your friend. He doesn’t really think it’s going to get better, does he? Now that he has a taste of married life with her, there’s nothing for it except to figure out an exit strategy. The sooner the better.

    "Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

    #564438
    Blade
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    F~~~ her fealings .

    I know she is very vulnerable

    Oh really lets just see when it comes to a divorce court .

    This is not going to end well

    This dude thinks he is patting a kitten with that blind fold on . He will see a lion when it is taken of in a court room .

    THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

    #564615
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    Chase Pesos
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    Thank God for women too stupid to be able to have their mask on at all. More then enough for me to jump ship, dead man’s plank style.

    Chase a check, never chase a chick...

    #565427
    Greg Honda
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    lol I was there

    most nights I slept on the floor or on the couch down stairs because of her violent dreams and violent nature when awake. forget begging for sex, she initiated when she wanted it.

    I used to find steak knives under the bed, like fukn fatal attraction. I disarmed her a couple times while she was sleep walking coming after me.

    Great post May.

    Wish I had been more sociable when we met. I was tired with the drinking and traveling to really engage. I knew you’d been through it, but not to what extent.

    Hope to meet again someday.

    Greg.

    It's Time to get Wise

    #565768
    Atton
    Atton
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    It’s and he is just buying time.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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